By today's standards, how many rapes have you been involved in?

[oralaccents]

I was thinking about E Jean Carroll in terms of her understanding of rape*, given her age, her upbringing, etc, versus what my understanding of rape might be given my age, upbringing, etc, versus the way the matriarchical media portrays rape versus the way the patriarchical media portrays rape and so on.

Bit of a jumble. One thing is clear; the common cultural definition of rape in the USA has changed/ is changing.

If you rewind your sexual life and apply today's standards of public judgement, in how many rapes have you been involved?



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https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90931312&postcount=87

 

[oralaccents]

For me, it could be hundreds.

If you count all the many times my high school and university girlfriends said No before silently spreading their legs, that's hundreds of instances right there.

Do we classify the ones with whom there was no second date differently than those with whom there were 3 dates or more?

We all knew sexual activity was expected on date 3, is that the line between rape and boyfriend?

If so, maybe only a bakers dozen, tops. Not sure.

 

[SpeareChucker]

I have no idea as to what today's standards are...

It is a shifting intersectional sand dune as well as a diversity (and inclusivity) of
the forced multiculturalism of clashing and competing cultures.



Having said that, I have experienced a couple of women whose
sexual aggressivness sure felt a lot like some sort of rape...

 

[oralaccents]

Yes, lots of uncertaintly, that is true.

Maybe it's a post-facto definition.

If she enjoyed herself, it was romantic.
If she didn't, it was an assault?

Seems one-sided, but probably at least half true.

 

[SpeareChucker]

And if she's Muslim
does she even have a choice?


You might clarify, are we on a campus or
the mean streets of LA? Bakersfield? Wichita?

 

[SpeareChucker]

Similarly, if she does not want the mass of tissue, it's her choice.
If she decides that it's a baby, then he has to pay, sans any choice.



(That should start a sexual fire...)

 

[SpeareChucker]

LT.

Fell free to jump right in now.
This topic is now firmly in your bailiwick...

 

[beew]

I like LJ.
But I have to admit, that was funny.

 

[SpeareChucker]

~~~ bows ~~~

 

[silver gurl]

For me, it could be hundreds.

Shocking

 

[SpeareChucker]

By today's standards, I have been involved in many religious experiences.


"Oh god, oh god, oh god..."

​

 

[SpeareChucker]

We need a line of women's tee shirts for the sluts...

I AM A
SABINE!​

 

[oralaccents]

Easier to shots than share. I get it.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

I was thinking about E Jean Carroll in terms of her understanding of rape*, given her age, her upbringing, etc, versus what my understanding of rape might be given my age, upbringing, etc, versus the way the matriarchical media portrays rape versus the way the patriarchical media portrays rape and so on.

Bit of a jumble. One thing is clear; the common cultural definition of rape in the USA has changed/ is changing.

If you rewind your sexual life and apply today's standards of public judgement, in how many rapes have you been involved?



*
https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=90931312&postcount=87

What are today's standards ?


I'm an sexually aggressive man, but all women I've slept with wanted and enjoyed themselves. So, not sure

 

[Matthew Craig]

We need a line of women's tee shirts for the sluts...

I AM A
SABINE!​

https://images2.imgbox.com/c4/f2/Vkmiozd3_o.jpeg

 

[SoulAssasin247]

For me, it could be hundreds.

If you count all the many times my high school and university girlfriends said No before silently spreading their legs, that's hundreds of instances right there.

Do we classify the ones with whom there was no second date differently than those with whom there were 3 dates or more?

We all knew sexual activity was expected on date 3, is that the line between rape and boyfriend?

If so, maybe only a bakers dozen, tops. Not sure.

Ohhhhh this I see


More than a couple occasions, to put it mildly

 

[Ann_Tagonist]

One man's rape is just another man's foreplay.

 

[Ann_Tagonist]

What are today's standards ?


I'm an sexually aggressive man, but all women I've slept with wanted and enjoyed themselves. So, not sure

Or perhaps they just played that card to escape with their lives intact, for all we know.

 

[Sean]

LOL. Does anyone believe Little Lance has actually had sex hundreds of times whether consensual or no?

 

[Ann_Tagonist]

LOL. Does anyone believe Little Lance has actually had sex hundreds of times whether consensual or no?

You consider rape to be sex? lol.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Or perhaps they just played that card to escape with their lives intact, for all we know.

Maybe you should ask them or come find out yourself

 

[Ann_Tagonist]

Maybe you should ask them or come find out yourself

I'm a great lover! ~ Ted Bundy.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

I'm a great lover! ~ Ted Bundy.

Different form of eating ass lol

Edited: Sorry retract statement, I was thinking of Dahmer

 

[oralaccents]

Rape fantasies have always been in the top ranks for women. They love being taken; turns them on.

Men until recently were always the persuaders and women the ones who pretended to protect their virtue by requiring persuasion during seduction.

Taking a resistant woman was the norm.

On that basis, I expect every man here, by today's standards, has committed a sexual assault.

 

[Bad_Doggie]

Countless. #Metoo

I’ve been incapable of giving consent many times due to my drunken state.

Woof!