Butt Plugs

[Guest]

Last month when my wife went out of town I bought a butt plug and I loved it!! I wanted to wear it all the time. I threw it away because if my wife found it she would freak.
My question is for men and women, do you like butt plugs? Are you straight? does your partner know about it and what do they think? and how often do you use it?

 

[SexyChele]

My answers:

1. Yes, I like anal plugs.

2. Yup, straight as an arrow.

3. Yes, I always share the info that I like anal plugs with my partner. But, then, men are usually very fascinated by the idea of a woman inserting something into her ass, aren't they?

4. Only during play, and for some reason not when I'm by myself. I think it has to do with either my partner placing the plug in place, or having him knowing I'm doing it (in the case of phone sex).

 

[Wizard]

Same with Skitten and Myself.........We have a set for our "playtime"...................

 

[Guest]

Okay, thank you for the info but how do I tell her that I like it? I think that she would be put back a little by the information. I would love a little digital anal stimulation during a hand job or blow job but I don't think she wants to.
I have played with her ass before and as far as I know she likes it - she has even let me have anal sex a few time and doesn't seem to mind.
If she felt uncomfotable using her finger(s) shouldn't she be more excepting of a plug?
Thank you for your comments, maybe I can show them to her.

 

[Wizard]

Talk to her and ask what kind of things would she like to try and you can use that plug on her..........Love to see one in my wife......while I play with her pussy..............................

 

[SexyChele]

Well, you could take one of 2 options, as far as I can tell -

1. Sit down and discuss the idea with her. See what her response is like.

2. But a small, inexpensive anal plug, and when you are licking that sweet pussy of hers, gently insert it after you have fingered her. Chances are it will put her over the edge before she realizes what is happening.

Now, if you want her to use a plug on you, that might take a little more convincing. Strange how some women can get uptight about stuff like that. But if you enjoyed using it on yourself, and think you would like your wife involved, it's worth talking to her about it.

 

[Cardinal]

Definately go slow and don't pressure her. I have been able to approach this subject with different lovers with different results. If she is at all adventureous (sp?) she will probably understand.

 

[Lord]

yeah........

definetly talk to her and dont surprise her........ or it will become.......

 

[Skitten]

Talk to her about it. As my wondeful master wizard has told you we have them. And we both love them for our playtime together it is a wonderful feeling of your man playing with you and having that sensation in your anus too. Try discussing it with her and see what she thinks, you never know she may like it too. And let her know your feeling on it.

 

[Subdude]

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Sooner or later your desire for the plug will win out & you'll get brave enough to broach the subject w/ your wife. I finally managed to convey to my lovely wife my need to allow my submissive side out, including using a butt plug (she insists I only use an actual cock- shaped plug.) Now that she knows that the plugs and cock rings makes me aware of my sex every moment I wear them, she feels more intensely about sex too & that's good for us both. You might explore yourself more fully. Are you possibly submissive or just anal-sensitive? Are you bi-curious? I'm straight, but admit to becoming more bi-curious sice all my desires have been aired. I've always wanted to watch my wife make love to another man and lick her clean afterwards, but now realize I want them to watch me lick him clean too and even suck him so he gets hard again so him can have her again! You may be just at the brink of an exciting change! Be brave.

 

[Cardinal]

Sub Dude has a really good point and your wife may enjoy exploring with you, especially if she is a little dominant!
Enjoy!!

 

[Skitten]

TRy it you may like it maybe more than you are willing to admit. And if she is a little dominant once she sees you like it she may insists on it have fun.

 

[Rrrosyn]

How do you know she'd be against the idea? Sex is the only time my dominant streak shows.

I love my ass played with and I've used anal vibes, though not plugs. The difference doesn't look like much. My toy collection is still in progress.

I think if I can take it that way, any guy I am with should be willing to give it a try.

Just don't wear it while driving. No-no.

*giggle*