broken heart

[Armygirl]

girls and guys i need your
help my boyfriend of 1year and 4 months
has dumped me..
i still love him very much!
i am sooooo heartbroken. i cant stop crying.
the last few days i have had to put my self to sleep early so
i would not cry or think of him.

i am doing a lot better now than i was 4 hours ago
im so going to miss the hugs and kisses

can any one help me get through this..

Sincerly heartbroken
Army

 

[Lost Cause]

Army,
Time wounds all heels. Seriously, time to heal is what every one in your situation has needed. The breakup is no reflection on you, he has just chosen another path. Whatever the reason for you two parting, would it have made it better forcing him to stay where he didn't want to be right now? If you two are meant to be, the separation will stengthen your bond. For now, force yourself to get busy! Read a book, watch a funny movie, join a gym (a gym is great as it helps get rid of your stress), do anything that gives you a sense of accomplishment. Baby steps, one at a time.
In case you are wondering, I recently had someone I cared for leave me, we are still the best of friends because I made me more important than the hurt.
"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger"
"I miss my ex.....but my aim is getting better"
Smile!
Good Luck!

 

[Debbie]

It is sad when you break up. But remember when things are sad and tough you are always loved. I have been dumped by guys I thought were so fantastic to find later that there was someone even better for me or that I was to spend some time on my own growing as an individual. I have enjoyed the time on my own. Developing my personality and learning more about me.
Don't take it as personal rejection, sometimes people grow apart and go on with their lives.
*hugs and kisses*
Debbie

 

[Marxist]

Why'd he leave?

 

[MissTaken]

I am so sorry you are hurting, armygirl.

~hugs~

 

[OUTSIDER]

girls and guys i need your
help my boyfriend of 1year and 4 months
has dumped me..
i still love him very much!
i am sooooo heartbroken. i cant stop crying.
the last few days i have had to put my self to sleep early so
i would not cry or think of him.

i am doing a lot better now than i was 4 hours ago
im so going to miss the hugs and kisses

can any one help me get through this..

Sincerly heartbroken
Army

Just think to yourself "his loss not mine" and you'll be ok.

 

[lilminx]

I am so sorry to hear that things ended between you and your boyfriend. I agree with Lost Cause and Debbiexxx, though.

Right now you probably feel awful and have about a million questions as to why things ended. You're probably rethinknig every little thing about your relationship and wondering where it went wrong. You two probably both grew in different ways, and no longer see things in the same way, or even want the same things. In time, you'll get over it and who knows- maybe you'll find someone even better (maybe on here!).

 

[Guest]

Sorry

I remember this happened to me years ago. What I did was keep myself busy. As time went by it got easier. I am sure there is a person out there like there was for me that someday will have you look back and say to yourself it was all good memories but what I got can't be beat. Hugs and Kisses. Vinny

 

[Armygirl]

Thank all of you. your words have helped me a lot.
it has been 5 days since the split i am still crying but not
as bad. i just miss him
Army

 

[PowerOfOne]

Broken Heart

You will cry for awhile, Armygirl and miss him and then begin to heal. We have all had broken hearts. They are just stepping stones to the real true love that some of us are lucky enough to find or at least the ones that are lucky enough to realize they have found it.

Take time for yourself. Tears never hurt a thing. Do not feel ashamed of the tears. They will come and they will pass. We learn from experience (most of us) and this is just one experience. You will have many, many more and hopefully with a better outcome.

Just remember, YOU ARE SPECIAL!! You deserve the best and apparently he was NOT the best. When it is time you will meet the right one and you will know it and you will not even be able to remember this ones name.

*hugs* Believe me, it WILL get better!

 

[Armygirl]

thank you power of one

this all helps

 

[PowerOfOne]

thank you power of one

this all helps

You are most welcome, Armygirl. I have been exactly where you are a time or three! Hang in there. Better things are on their way~!