breast implants

[elixir]

Hello!
My wife aged 30 years (34A"-28"-37" )wants to go for beast implants.We would like to profit from the experience of people who have gone through it or have experiencd it.Your views/suggestations/experiences are invited on the following points.
1.Is it worth all the trouble
2.Do you feel any problem during sex(while squeezing,kneading the boobs
3.Any compication/health problem
4.Which implant is better,silicon or saline
5.What is the cost of the implant alongwith the surgery involved.Best place for it.
6.Whether the implant be insurted through the aerola or through incision under the boobs
7.What size she should ask for

[Edited by elixir on 02-10-2001 at 08:04 AM]

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

1.Is it worth all the trouble
I wouldn't pay for it
2.Do you feel any problem during sex(while squeezing,kneading the boobs
Should feel like the real thing only harder
3.Any compication/health problem
Possible to have an allergic reaction to them .....

4.Which implant is better,silicon orsaline I would say saline because its more to the human body ,They also have something that is soy


5.What is the cost of the implant alongwith the surgery
involved.Best place for it.
45,000 or more depending on the size she gets
6.Whether the implant be insurted through the aerola or through incision under the boobs
I would do an incision its safer I would not mess with aerola could do damage
7.What size she should ask for
Something that would not be to big or small for her most likely a 36a cup

 

[His Whimsicality]

Why would she do that? Because she thinks her breast are too small?

I strongly advise to forget about the whole thing, because I find the idea rather... well, I don´t want to offend, but it´s just an absolute no-no. Add to that the $$, the pain, the risk of something going wrong and the danger to her I health afterwards, I really don´t know why you´re even considering.

 

[BrainyBeauty]

Not for the squeamish

You have taken abuse for starting 4 or 5 threads with the same title/topic. Don't know (or care) if you are sincere or just yanking people's chains. But if you truly want information, try a medical site. Or call a hospital or doctor's group for referrals.

Or, if you or anybody else isn't too squeamish, click on this link. It has some graphic pictures. Kind of like a Fox tv special "When breast implants go wrong!"

I personally would never do it. Don't need it. But just remember, surgical enhancement is a pretty drastic and irreversible option. Why not have her start slowly with something like "Curves" or other brand name pads, fillers, or the like? Something she can take out of her bra if she doesn't like it. That is a lot easier than having to go back for additional plastic surgeries to correct a mistake.

You might try shopping at Victoria's Secret or Frederick's of Hollywood- they both offer new bra styles that allow you to manipulate the cleavage. That is presuming she just wants to "appear" bustier to the outside world. If it is for you or because she has self esteem issues, then none of these suggestions will work. Maybe a visit to a therapist?

Anyway, not condemning your choices, just trying to offer some helpful suggestions and warnings. Here is the link- be warned people. It ain't pretty! WARNING


http://www.siliconeholocaust.org/Photos1.html

 

[ShyGuy68]

BrainyBeauty I would say that just the risk of having that happen to you should be enough to make women not get silicone breast implants.

I do truely think it's sad that some people put that much into appearances.

 

[Closet Desire]

The beauty of a woman...

...has nothing to do with her breast size. A woman is a complete human and if she is sensual, if she is self-assured, and if her lover believes she is beautiful the...she is.

 

[BrainyBeauty]

ShyGuy and Closet Desire

you two are wise and compassionate men.

I totally agree with you. I don't understand why people place so much emphasis on their looks. Too much media pressure? Too much peer pressure? Too many external opinions forcing them to make dramatic physical changes?

People (mostly women) will always want to look beautiful. Someone - with something to sell - will always come along and tell you how you can look better. Someone will be there to suggest that you aren't living up to your potential.

Applying cosmetics and jewelry, etc., to enhance one's appearance is nothing new. It's been done for centuries- maybe even millennia. Men also have groomed themselves to attract sexual partners over the years. Nothing wrong with that. We choose clothing, hairstyles and perfumes with one thought in mind. How to attract a mate. Totally human. Hell - not just human. All life forms including the lowly fungus and lichen practice ways of seduction! Throwing their spores in the air and thriving in dark, wet, moist places! The little tramps! hehehe

Flowers produce colorful petals; birds display extravagant plumage. But they use what nature gave them. We alone feel the need to go further. To pursue perfection at the end of a scalpel. *shudders*

I cannot comprehend the desire to undergo such dramatic and extreme procedures in the name of aesthetics. I can understand if a cosmetic procedure is performed to correct a disfigurement or for medical reasons. But simply to increase the size of a woman's breasts seems shallow, narcissistic and pointless. I wonder if the woman feels pressured by her male partner? And doesn't that suggest that it is more for his pleasure than hers?

There is something called body dysmorphic disorder where people have a distorted view of their bodies. (Anorexics are a prime example) (And that is why I earlier suggested seeing a mental health professional) Perhaps this explains the phenomenon. Or "the grass is always greener" philosophy. Or coveting thy neighbor's boobs???

As I mentioned earlier, I would never do it. I was born with all my parts in a good proportion and on a pleasing palette, but still, I don't believe I would ever consider it if that were not the case. I like what I was born with! I wish other people were happy with themselves.

 

[ShyGuy68]

Re: ShyGuy and Closet Desire

you two are wise and compassionate men.

*blush* thank you BrainyBeauty

What do appearance mean to people? well I don't know what the general view is, so I'll just speak for myself here.

I admit that I will look at a good looking woman, but as I have gotten older and more mature, I have found out that looks for sure isn't everything. I'm overweight myself, and I know that I'm not going to get taken because what I look like, but because who I am. And that is how I want it to be too! I myself want a woman that I can talk with about everything, lean on and cry out with when I need it, and laugh and share the good times with. And when I find this person, I know she'll look good in my eyes. I hope that made any sense to you.

As A danish female singer sings in one of her songs:

If you want to make love to my body
You have to make love to my mind

That's how I think it should be!

 

[AusTess]

I lost a huge amount of weight over the last 2 years.
And my boobs when from a 16D to a 14B.
Now,My hubby aint that thrilled,he misses them.
But sorry,be Fucked If i'd let someone slit my breasts open and fill them with something foreign to my body.

And the way i look at it,It just gives him more time to devote to other body parts.*s*