Breast/body Massage

[NippleMuncher]

Men, do you know how to do it, generally, and do you know what your partner likes, specifically?

Ladies, do your partners know how to do it, generally, and what do you like specifically?

 

[Reba67]

Generally, my guy knows how to do what I like. Sometimes I have to give a little more direction than usual. Depends on the reason for the massage.....whether I'm needing a massage because I hurt or whether I'm wanting one for sexual turn on.

MOST of the time, he is good at guessing/figuring out what I want when it's in a sexual context. If he's off base or does something uncomfy, I let him know and he changes it up.

 

[NippleMuncher]

I'm somewhat surprised there hasn't been more participation here.

From my experience, a general massage does tend to lead towards the sensual/sexual nature with my girlfriend, whether that is my intent or not. Basically, the massage starts out as a back rub or an intimate body massage - that is to say, a massage that touches every part of the body from head to toe - and can progress towards a sensual massage - one focusing more on erogenous zones, while still incorporating the total body. Her body language will dictate where the massage goes and whether there are delights for my efforts at the end. As I said, massages usually start out innocent enough and depending on mostly her mood, where it leads from there.

 

[BlueEyesEternal]

I'm not licensed, but I have done massage for pay in the past. I often give neck rubs to family and friends, but massage in private can be much more intimate.

I suggest you go to Bath and Body Works and purchase your choice of cream/lotion/liquid with lavender in it. Lavender relaxes the body and is wonderfully sensual. Pick up a massage tool or two as well if your hands tire easily.

The trick to a great massage is to keep contact constant. Stroke with your right hand and begin stroking with your left before your right leaves her body. Think of it like sex...it's so much better when you can change positions without pulling out. No matter what you do, stay in contact and make transitions slowly.

Tip 2 is always to massage in the direction of blood flow. It feels wonderful when you rake your fingers from the shoulder to the fingertips, but not so much if you try to go the other way.

Lastly, don't confuse a sensual massage with a therapeutic massage. You can really hurt someone if you aren't trained and use too much force. Get yourself a professional rub and I promise you will likely be sore the next day. When rubbing for fun with a SO, just take your time and do as little as you can without making her ticklish and you should be well rewarded