Breaking LMR
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BBCfan
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i would say it depends...if she feels his package and is disappointed , no is easy...if he excites her more when feeling him likely game on.
ParkerSteve66
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NO means NO
If she says "NO", then to proceed is rape or sexual assault. Anyone can say "NO" at any time.
Why would you want to continue after she says "NO"?
If she says "NO", then to proceed is rape or sexual assault. Anyone can say "NO" at any time.
Why would you want to continue after she says "NO"?
BBCfan
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If she says "NO", then to proceed is rape or sexual assault. Anyone can say "NO" at any time.
Why would you want to continue after she says "NO"?
yeah..i hear you but in the real world no may mean i shouldn't but i want to or i mean yes but don't want to appear as an easy target...you are right...to proceed in this time is likely not wise...
The number 1 female sexual fantasy is forced sex so this is a very complex subject, but that said i agree with you...unless it's a preapproved role play scenario err on the side on no means no
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In the real world no mean no, regardless of the reasons for saying no.
Forced sex is a fantasy, and it's not a fantasy that should be used to justify really forcing anything. It's not complex at all - don't rape people. Really, it's pretty easy.
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absolutely agree...don't rape anybody...but i've had more than few GF's who liked to say no and have me talk them into a yes... they got off on being taken when they said no..but this is an understood arrangement.. i had a GF that said no and wanted a faux rape scenario to unfold...i found it wierd and uncomfortable but when she came buckets i relaxed.
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Consensual non-consent is a different thing, because there's consent.
Talking someone who's said no into saying yes is really borderline coercion, unless there's prior consent. (It's difficult to establish from your description whether that's the case or not.) Nagging someone into saying yes is also pretty coercive. Neither of those would probably hold up in court as non-consensual sex, but that doesn't mean it's OK.
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yeah..i agree...guys need to err always on the side of caution and respect...if she does really want you, you'll come off as a gentleman for waiting till it's a hell yes...
I know as a guy in relationships the no can
sometimes really mean yes... but i want you to take it! that said i'm a naturally very cautious and respectful guy so it was confusing at first to understand the dynamics of this
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And exactly what is this statement based on? It may be a fantasy for some females, but #1 - is there any research to back up that statement?
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And exactly what is this statement based on? It may be a fantasy for some females, but #1 - is there any research to back up that statement?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy
Open drop down menu for fantasy and in 1st paragraph it states it is top fantasy for women. Not sure where the research comes from.
