brat looking for dom/daddy

[athina_angel]

Hellow my name is Sara. I am new to the bdsm world and am looking for an experienced dom to help me learn and grow.

I am a brat, always in trouble, asking questions, and sometimes questioning authority.

I train in the martial arts and hold as one of my rules to not play with anyone thati can beat in a fight. I am also highly inttellagent, even though i can't spell.

So can any one help me?

Sara

 

[RawHumor]

I never expected to find a blind submissive on this board.

Welcome.

 

[Jonny G]

well it is a pleasure to meet you sara, i cant spell either.....!

i would love to help you in any way that i can.

jx

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I train in the martial arts and hold as one of my rules to not play with anyone thati can beat in a fight.

Physical prowess, while an admirable trait, is no indicator of honesty, integrity, character, compassion or wisdom. Your martial training should encompass the wisdom to know when to fight and when not to. If you require someone to conquer you physically before you surrender your heart, you are simply afraid. Afraid to let go, afraid to trust, afraid to surrender, afraid of being hurt once again... Fear then, is the enemy, not the man who inspires it.

If I must ever fight you, you've already lost the war.

 

[BgDddy]

Naughty lil'brat..

Hi Sara, what exactly is it you are looking for? It sounds like I might be interested, but you must give me more information.

 

[DaneKK]

I am a brat, always in trouble, asking questions, and sometimes questioning authority.

I love that line. HAHA. Oh boy, where to start with this one...

For some reason I am quite taken by the idea of a sub wishing to discover whether she can 'beat me in a fight' and being shown that resistance is useless. I don't have violent striking and bludgeoning in mind. I think jointlocks and takedowns would be much more amusing. Nominating each throw and manouevre in Japanese should add to your frustration and the fermenting realisation of your powerlessness.

Geoff makes a valid point about physical prowess not necessarily being indicative of other characteristics. However, physical training and discipline can help a person grow.

There is at least some maturity evinced in Sarah's acknowledgment of her brattishness and need to be curbed. I would gladly help you fulfill your desire to be forced to submit if I wasn't so far away.

Good luck with your search/training.

 

[CANDYMANRULES]

hi

so your a spoiled little bitch eh. you need to be punnished. are you married or have a boyfriend?

 

[msteel4u]

It has long been my belief that if you are submissive, you are submissive. I'm leary of anyone who has to be "made" to be submissive or obedient. Not that I haven't had my share of subs that might misbehave in search of punishment !

As far as a fight, again, it is a Dom's will and reslove that is suppose to be strong. If I have to physically beat you into being a sub...then you are not submissive. Any sub that I have offers their submission out of respect, not fear.

 

[athina_angel]

well naming throws and joint locks in japanese would just intrist me, as i practice japanese martial arts.
for thoughs of you who think i want to fight so i will fear you, you are wrong. i am looking for a reason to respect you. i do not respect some one ecause they tell me to. i want to know my partner is stronger then me, and not because of the favorite quote, because i say so.

 

[Trajal]

Sometimes I have to pin my girl down and "rape" her hard to remind her who is in charge. That's kind of a tough one for such an early part of any relationship though. If I were you I'd look to send out a different message than the way you have put this.

Leave out the martial arts crap, it's completely irrelevant. What you need is to be physically dominated, not beaten in a fight, there is a world of difference.

However being properly physically dominated in a relationship is never going to be the first thing to take place. You need trust before you can both be comfortable with it.

Good luck, but do take my advice.

 

[wenchhh]

Wow Geoff, excellent post. Not only are you... Evil, you're intelligent and insightful too. I had already recognized this, but thought I'd take a sec to tell ya. Nicely done.

 

[Mo_gradh]

Yikes you want to fight the Daddy Dom you looking for :|