Boys Why Do You Crave Submission

For me, it's the release of power. So many things need my action and control elsewhere in my life. The power exchange is such a relief. Plus, women are so sexy and sensual, seeking their approval and serving them makes me satisfied.
 
Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?
After being at work all day and in charge of so much, it's a wonderful release to submit and be owned and not have to be in charge of anything or have to think. I only have to obey. I love to please my wife orally and savor her sweet pussy. I relish the pain when she spanks me. It is such exquisite pain and I love to stand in front of the mirror and see red marks and welts on my ass. I will gladly do whatever she asks me to do, as she is my Goddess. Her wish is my command.
 
Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?
Because submission, when real, is not weakness—it’s devotion in motion. It’s not about power for me. It’s about precision. About presence. About peeling back layers until the person kneeling before me doesn’t just obey—they belong. I remember one submissive in particular—she was bold, fiery, used to being in control. But she came to me because she was exhausted from holding everything together. Her life was successful but empty. She didn’t need someone to play with her—she needed someone to unmake her, slowly and with care.

It wasn’t about chains. It was about teaching her how to exhale. To feel safe enough to cry in my presence, knowing it wouldn’t lessen her… it would free her. I don’t expect a submissive to read my mind. I guide her. Train her. Teach her how I think, what I crave, and how I want her to serve. But I also expect her to tell me what stirs in her. Because true submission doesn’t hide. It offers.

And when that offering is made honestly? That’s where transformation begins!!
 
Because submission, when real, is not weakness—it’s devotion in motion. It’s not about power for me. It’s about precision. About presence. About peeling back layers until the person kneeling before me doesn’t just obey—they belong. I remember one submissive in particular—she was bold, fiery, used to being in control. But she came to me because she was exhausted from holding everything together. Her life was successful but empty. She didn’t need someone to play with her—she needed someone to unmake her, slowly and with care.

It wasn’t about chains. It was about teaching her how to exhale. To feel safe enough to cry in my presence, knowing it wouldn’t lessen her… it would free her. I don’t expect a submissive to read my mind. I guide her. Train her. Teach her how I think, what I crave, and how I want her to serve. But I also expect her to tell me what stirs in her. Because true submission doesn’t hide. It offers.

And when that offering is made honestly? That’s where transformation begins!!
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BUT, the question was the other way round!
 
It's fun to push limits, to be given an excuse to try/do things that I perhpas would never try on my own.

There are things I don't like to do, but I enjoy having done them for others. And there are things I never thought I'd enjoy but once I've done them a time or two I find that yes, I do like them.

It's also enjoyable to serve I suppose.
 
I find it very erotic if a woman's full attention is on my genitals, not just to see them but to concentrate on, examine, handle, play with and abuse. I like it if a woman is outspoken and blatant, legs spread open, in your face sex. I want to hear her use the words, cunt, cock, fuck, suck.
If she's abusing them she's, holding, touching, doing things to my cock and balls.
 
Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?
I am a foreman of a construction crew. I run the job. I don't put up with any BS from anyone. There is no doubt who is in charge of the job. This works in the construction macho world, but not at home. I am willing, in fact I crave my wife to be in charge, to make me perform and please her. I become submissive to her. It brings an exciting aspect to our life.
 
I have mommy issues. So I tend to fantasize about older female mother figures that can be loving, caring, and nurturing sometimes I fantasize about a more dominant mother figure as well. punishing me … spanking
 
I crave being submissive as I have a difficult to satisfy a woman or man with my cock. Won't stay hard to have sex and orgasm. I like to be humiliated and used. I also had spanking moments when I was younger, but that's another story
 
Yes please I would appreciate that!
You may never get all that you want, but you could incorporate loving submissive acts into your life. I mean, do you go down on her? Do you lick her ass? Do you rub her neck and shoulders? Do you make coffee for her. Or rub her feet is she says they are sore. Maybe you could work your way into feeling some sense of fulfillment, whether she knows whats going on inside your head or not.
 
I crave submission because it is so much different than everything else in my life. For everything else, I’m a “Type A” as in asshole, and very successful at it. I guess being dominated sexually is my way to pay back the world by being a pleasure slut for others. My ultimate submission is to be on my knees pleasuring the cocks of other “Type A” men, knowing that they are using my mouth for their pleasure. Then, their cum is my reward.
 
Men, why do you crave submission? Do you find it easy or hard to talk about your needs? Do you expect your domme to be able to trad your mind or do you like to ask for your needs?
Since I’m in control of everything in my life, professionally, personally and so on, it gives me great pleasure in completely submitting to a woman and her desires. I’m not looking for her to read my mind or listen to my begging. I’m looking for her to take from me physically and emotionally whatever she desires, for her to make the decisions and take that control. I’m a switch, but will follow the dynamics of the moment.
 
For me, I work in a very volatile and highly stressful industry where my split-second decisions affect lives. It's also largely male-dominated. I don't want all that at home too. Sometimes (not all the time - I can happily switch) I just want a woman to take the reins and just use me in whatever way for her own pleasure.
 
I have mommy issues. So I tend to fantasize about older female mother figures that can be loving, caring, and nurturing sometimes I fantasize about a more dominant mother figure as well. punishing me … spanking
Oh, yes! My mom always let me know who was in charge, I always craved her approval, I remember that I would often misbehave just to be punished by her, which was usually a spanking. She would take me over her lap and pull down my pants and either with an open hand, or a nice paddle, spank my ass until she was done with me. I don't recall ever getting an erection until I was HS age, but I remember loving being her "bad boy" that needed to be punished.
 
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