Boys wanna be girls, girls wanna be boys...

*giggles* in my head i read each one of those as 'with boys and with girls, followed by my dirty brain that needs washed saying, can't I just be with both;)

Seriously I never have wanted to be a boy (well cept that time of the month and reallyi just wanted them to hurt as well;) ). I like being what am I and it works well for me.

But I do have a friend who felt trapped being a girl and always felt like she was a boy so she became a boy. She said that it was always felt like she was just a voice residing in the wrong body until she found the right one. The best person that I ever knew and I really wish they were still around to make the path of life a little easier.
 
Stella, I apologize for being off the thread topic, but I cannot resist telling you that you are sporting one mighty fine lid today.

You look like you are about to ask the MFH for permission to join the Keswick or Green Spring hounds for a delightful morning of foxhunting.



 
I dont think this statement is as true as we think. I feel nowdays the gender lines are more blurred than ever granted but did Kurt Cobain wear a dress because he wanted to be a female? I feel he just wanted to wear a dress sometimes.

All due respect I know sex changes are more common these days but maybe it is just not as taboo as it once was. Good luck if thats the way you feel I hope it make these members of our society fell better about them selves. Personally as a man I still like the way we can keep a door open or pull a chair out for a lady. Allthough I admire a lady who can be comftable enough to both accept this and do the same for me.

For me things are already shifting the lines are getting closer unisex toilets are there, unisex perfumes are available and even unisex clothes in some shops. Maybe this may allude to our inner feelings on how men and women want to be more like each other now days.

Final thought you women must be aware how wimpy we men get when we dont feel well, imagine us being preganent we would be unbearable, still as im not a father yet I couldnt imagine the bond men or woman have with there offspring. Does the ability to bear child make women any closer to that child?
 
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No one changes their sex. In 1000 years someone will dig your ass up, look at your bones, and conclude 'male' or 'female' from the bones. You can wrap shit in whatever package you want, but the shit remains the same.
 
Sorry never wanted to be a girl...

I observed at a very young age that I could play while girls had to play nice.

A three-year old can figure out who gets the short-end of the stick on that one.
 
I cant imagine any real boy wanting to be a girl.

When the world is shit and I cant be more depressed, I remember that I coulda been female, and things dont seem so bad.
 
OBLIMO

Troll is a nice word, but doncha think its getting a tidge threadbare form the constant use? I mean, surely youre smart enough to come up with something different.
 
I cant imagine any real boy wanting to be a girl.

When the world is shit and I cant be more depressed, I remember that I coulda been female, and things dont seem so bad.

Gotta say, you're taking it up a notch here lately.
 
JOMAR

The nice part of getting old is you just naturally stop caring what people think, and if they hit you they rot in jail for fucking with geezers; and if you hit them people think theyre pussies.
 

What's to discuss? I'd feel odd if I didn't want to experience what it would be like. As to whether I'd want to change... I like the Iain Banks approach in the Algebraist, males have to experience the pregancy and childbirth before being allowed to mature into 'elders'.
 

In my sexual fantasies, whether about a guy/girl pair, a woman and several men, or a bunch of guys, I am, at different moments, every person involved. I find it tremendously erotic to imagine being a man, having a penis, and using it.

And when I write, I find it equally easy and equally arousing writing sex from a male or a female POV.

Would I trade in my body and life for a man's? I really don't know. In my cultural realm (liberal urban U.S.A.) I feel like both sexes get their freebies, and bear their burdens (though the idea of being born female is some cultures is outright terrifying to me).

If I got to live twice, I would definitely want to go one round in each sex, not two as a woman, or two as a man. And, as long as I'm making wishes, I'd like to do each round as a bi.
 
I hated being mistaken for a boy from fourth up until seventh or eighth grade. My dad made me cut my hair short, and it did suit me, I suppose, but to the point where I really did look like a boy, and I did not yet have a chest to speak of. It didn't bother me so much that the boys joked about me being "one of them now", but the ladies trying to kick me out of public bathrooms really pissed me off, and it happened regularly.

I still liked being somewhat of a tomboy, I loved fighting with boys and climbing trees and all that. But I didn't actually want to be a boy.
 
How exactly do you listen to a typed post, genius?

TK is amused watching grass grow, so dont take her comment as real flattery.
 
How exactly do you listen to a typed post, genius?

It was a figure of speech. Even geniuses are forgetful of the limitations of simpler folk like yourself, but I'll try to use only easy, simple language in the future so you can understand me.
 
I knew someone who felt like a woman trapped in a man's body and it was a very sad thing. His family was very religious and so it was never possible, at least not while his father was alive, for him to express it, except at home, and it took him a very long time to get that far. It must be a terrible way to live - always feeling like an alien in your skin. I hope he found peace with it somewhere.




(p.s. - Putting someone on ignore doesn't help when people keep quoting their posts.......)
 
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