Bored, Married Women in New England

[ken0000001]

This is a thread for all bored, married women in New England? I have been married 30 years and love my wife, but that doesn't mean I am satisfied sexually. Is this our lot? To not have the thrill of the first encounter ever again? To never feel someone else's mouth on the first kiss?

Any thoughts on this from you? Comments? Suggestions (besides the obvious). If you are bored, are you resigned to a life where the thrill has gone and are you living your sexual fantasies through Lit? I am as scared as anyone to take the next step, but isn't that one of the reasons it is such an enticing, exciting thought?

Ken

 

[ken0000001]

So far 29 bored women

So far 29 bored married woman have shown up, but have said nothing - is there any guts out there or what? (smile)

Let's talk about the pros and cons of one person relaionships. Does it really work? And for how long?

Ken

 

[ohiobear]

Hey Ken,

Why not open this to bored married men anywhere married 30 yrs?

Married 30yrs and bored to death in Ohio

 

[Missingmeds]

This is a bump for Ken and to tell ohiobear that he needs to check his pm's.

 

[ken0000001]

thanks for the bump

Glad you responded - I think. Did you actually say if you were married, if you were bored, if you were wishing to God that you could have one more fling, even in Ohio?

Waz up, girl?

 

[ken0000001]

one more thing

In regards to married males being bored, well - I think we woud get pretty crowded in here.

Let's hear it for the ladies, so tired of the same old thing, same old position, same old tongue, same old, same old - you know I'm talking to you out there.

Voice an opinion and the flood gates will open. Could it be that you are all already in satisfactory affairs and getting your thrills os you are, therefore, not bored after all. How come I don't think so.

 

[ohiobear]

May I join in your search

OK...

May I join your quest.

If I may, after 30 yrs I don't feel I have become an old man. I want the same things I did when I was 20. I still like to ride (just bought a new motorcycle), still like to camp, fish, party and have added a few more things to the list... sailing for starters.

I haven't become boring I have become bored because I have no interested partner. Any Takers?

Bear

 

[Missingmeds]

Re: thanks for the bump

Glad you responded - I think. Did you actually say if you were married, if you were bored, if you were wishing to God that you could have one more fling, even in Ohio?

Waz up, girl?

Not married anymore. I am looking for a steady partner. That is hard enough to find.

Gentlemen, if I may. As a woman, I would have to ask if you have tried talking to the S/O about your sex lifes? Most women are very leery of getting involved with married men. If you aren't happy then talk to the wife first. If that doesn't help then what about opening the marriage up? She might be as bored with your sex life as you are.

 

[ken0000001]

good thought

Dear Miss
You raise a good point - I have been talking though for about 15 years, gone to the counselor and everything else (romantic, etc.) without success. I am a fairly good looking guy, reasonably successful, in very good shape, and somewhat intelligent. Women do flirt with me - I have short term flings twice in 34 years with very attractive women.

But I'm with Bear on this one - I am not boring, but she is not interested - the thought of an open marriage is not one that is feasible - she would object - and frankly, I don't know how those things actually work.

As for women being leery - of course, they would be and would expect nothing less.

But generally, I find that most women kid themselves into thinking that they are not bored. For instance, no one has posted here who claims to be married and bored. Highly unlikely scenerio, wouldn't you agree?



Bored in Boston

 

[Missingmeds]

I do agree. Women are just not likely to admit that they are bored or want something different. There are several reasons why that happens. But that is a discussion for a different venue in my honest opinion.

 

[ken0000001]

Au contrare

Dear Miss

Without being argumentative, I think why married women will not admit to being bored and wanting adventure with another person (man or woman) is a good subject of a thread entitled bored married women.

With that in mind, I'd sure like to hear from some of those woman who have actually viewed this thread, but, in keeping with the vow of silence, have not entered into the discussion. Perhaps even the thought of the truth is to much for them to bear.

 

[Missingmeds]

ken, I tried to pm you but your mailbox is full. You need to empty all saved pm's, sent messages, and the inbox as well. Plus message tracking.

 

[ken0000001]

try again

I emptied everything. Try again, Miss Ingmeds

 

[Missingmeds]

I did, but it still says that it is full.

 

[ohiobear]

Re: Au contrare

Dear Miss

Without being argumentative, I think why married women will not admit to being bored and wanting adventure with another person (man or woman) is a good subject of a thread entitled bored married women.

With that in mind, I'd sure like to hear from some of those woman who have actually viewed this thread, but, in keeping with the vow of silence, have not entered into the discussion. Perhaps even the thought of the truth is to much for them to bear.

I Think you are right Ken they can't or won't admit there are bored to death. Do they enjoy this little pretend life we/they lead.

Come on girls tell us we are wrong or tell us what you want.

 

[Missingmeds]

Just a friendly bump to see if someone other than me will post here.

 

[MarkSand]

Hmmm...

Ken and I are in the same boat, but I'm near Boston. Where are you, ladies? Or, rather, lady, or woman, because I am looking for something special and intimate--a deep sharing with the rught perosn, based on respect and trust. PM me if you're intrigued, please?

 

[bilter]

I think there are many many bored married women out there. In fact more thatn half of all of the women that I have affairs with are married. I know , I know I am a pig and it is wrong but most of the time they are making the advances & I am just too weak to reisist.

 

[SexyAnna69]

hi

 

[ken0000001]

bump

There is no question they are there, but they find it hard to break away from there tedious lives to take the chance on life. Adventure has left them, excitement is for other people, lust is to be condemned unless it is something they can have in the far reaches of their mind and express only in the impersonal email.

More's the pity

 

[ken0000001]

Get advertisements off my thread

DO NOT CLICK ON SEXY PROFILE for SexyAnna69 - it's an advertisement - she's a hoax, I guess

 

[ken0000001]

ok, try again, intrigue

I wiped everything out (from the beginning) which I did not do before. Want to try again, sweetie? Thanks.

 

[ken0000001]

I HAVE THE ANSWER

The reason women do not respond to this thread has nothing to do with the fact they are not bored. They are. It's that they are smarter than us, pure and simple. I tip my king over. Checkmate!

 

[ilike2ponder]

Re: Hmmm...

Ken and I are in the same boat, but I'm near Boston. Where are you, ladies? Or, rather, lady, or woman, because I am looking for something special and intimate--a deep sharing with the rught perosn, based on respect and trust. PM me if you're intrigued, please?

If you are looking for something based on respect and trust, does this mean you are on this thread but are single???

 

[Man o' War1]

Providence

Hi, I am in the same situation as Ken, live near Providence. Would be interested in treating a lady right and having treats.

PM me if interested.