Gee givie it some time...............it will help if your a bit more discriptive in wants and desires as well..............
We are 40ish cpl in San Diego swingers and yes it get boaring often due to reality of work and other interfering schedules with one we want to meet and play with.
Tsshy, I am bored in OC, and I happen to be looking for a arousing play-mate(s) some where in SD... LOL, my problem is, I am in one of those moods, or have been where just a quicky or the simple act will only make me needing more... And should a good man such as myself, be made to wait and wait ....
Anyway, Dthera,TS, has givin you good advice, relax, have a seat..you just never know....