bondage w/ teasing and sensory deprivation

[gregg4]

So my GF announces last night that she wants me to tie here up, and tease her!!! I say "cool"!! Then I say, "humm, never done this, not sure what it is that makes for a really good turn on with someone who fantasizes about this foreplay".


any chance all you Pro's out there have any advice for a "bondage" novice??

My GF is NOT into pain, loves to be teased, and is an easy cummer.
I would love to bring her to the most explosive orgasms she's ever experienced, and i'm sure bondage will be part of it.

Help Please!!!!!
gregg

 

[LadyAria]

So my GF announces last night that she wants me to tie here up, and tease her!!! I say "cool"!! Then I say, "humm, never done this, not sure what it is that makes for a really good turn on with someone who fantasizes about this foreplay".


any chance all you Pro's out there have any advice for a "bondage" novice??

My GF is NOT into pain, loves to be teased, and is an easy cummer.
I would love to bring her to the most explosive orgasms she's ever experienced, and i'm sure bondage will be part of it.

Help Please!!!!!
gregg

Keeping it light...

I'd recommend sensory ticklers.

Pull out the silk, satin or high thread count cotton sheets with a ultra smooth feel.
Use velvet ropes. They are soft and untie easy if something goes wrong.
Black out sleep mask (move comfortable then blindfold)
Bring feather duster, wooden bead massager, ice, marbles, refrigerated coins, warmed almond oil, etc.

Food is overrated. Remember too much upsets the stomach and certain foods can trigger yeast infection. I won't even get into the sticky/clean up factor.

 

[LadyAria]

Forgot scented candles in fresh scents. Please the nose too.

 

[myinnerslut]

something that i do with A is that i am not allowed to cum without asking his permission first. this is part of our r elationship, but it could be applied to your scenario, especially if the focuas of her fantasy is being teased. tell her she is not to cum without your permission. just be careful to watch her body language to see how close she is.

 

[kramerkramer]

my two cents, which aren't worth one-fifth of a nickle would be to take turns being tied up, assuming that you are each "new" to this. It's a good time to experiemnt both sides of the coin before either of you are too set in your ways. I firmly beleive that I wouldn't know how to dom without having been her sub before.

most importantly, and this will always apply - not just when you start, watch/listen/feel her for cues regarding when she wants more, less or you to stop. `

 

[mytwocents]

Huh?

Forgetaboutit!

 

[Life_Noir]

Now, I've got a question for you.

How does sensory deprivation go with bondage and teasing?

Quite well I've found... Even better once you do it enough to get the timing down...
*grin*
Try to avoid setting up a timing cycle that allows the pyl to anticipate when, what, or where the next sensation will occurr...

One tip...For later, so to speak...
I've found that bondage to a bed is positively the most annoying and hampering type..

In my own experience I find the St. Andrew to be the best...

 

[mytwocents]

Quite well I've found... Even better once you do it enough to get the timing down...
*grin*
Try to avoid setting up a timing cycle that allows the pyl to anticipate when, what, or where the next sensation will occurr...

One tip...For later, so to speak...
I've found that bondage to a bed is positively the most annoying and hampering type..

In my own experience I find the St. Andrew to be the best...

Forgetaboutit!

 

[Chicklet]

Maybe we're talking about two different things. Complete and total sensory deprivation will make a person insane.

did anyone mention total sensory deprivation until the point of insanity?

saturday night was my first experience with having my hearing cut off. it didn't work very well for me because i found the muted sounds even more distracting than sharper ones i wouldn't have to work to understand.

but blindfolds are so, so fun.

 

[lk70]

I always thought that headphones with waves crashing, or some other white noise, would work well.

 

[His_pita]

Tie her to the bed, stick a blindfold on her, and use your imagination. Don't allow her to come until she is begging for it. Some of the things that work well for me is the unknown of what he going to do. Will he run a feather over my body or smack my pussy? Will he pinch my nipples until I arch off the bed or whisper those nasty, dirty words I love to hear? The most important advice is to pay attention to her and have fun.

 

[S-Des]

Listening to her is the best advice. For some people (including my SO), feeling a lack of control is the big turn-on. Once you have that trust established, you can do or threaten pretty much anything without ruining the mood (since your partner knows you wouldn't actually do anything against their wishes). I'll tell her stories about sharing her or making her do things publicly. I'll blindfold her, then touch, stimulate and spank her intermittently. Making her beg is more my thing, but she really enjoys it as well. There are tons of things you can try, but take it step by step. Establish something that you both enjoy, then take it another step. As long as you really listen to what she says and how she reacts to things, you'll both have a great time.

 

[Pseudonomic]

Complete sensory deprivation won't technically drive someone insane. They used to be used as a cure for relatively common disorders and phobias. Many well off people actually have them as a relaxation tool. However, they Do tend to cause heightened awareness, out-of-body experiences, and hallucinations. A large portion of patients report extreme sexual hallucinations or feelings while inside the deprivation chamber.
Now I suppose if you were to leave someone in there for extended periods of time for days on end...yeah, that could drive someone bonkers.

 

[Life_Noir]

I always thought that headphones with waves crashing, or some other white noise, would work well.

I have used Mozart with some success.. Or a CD of preferred "scene music".

 

[SubKekiLee]

I love sensory deprevation..

I love the feeling of being blindfolded and gagged and tied and bound and not to know what is going to happen to me. I am hoping sometime soon my D will do that to me we have spoke about using normal everyday things across my body and I must guess what was used and if I am wrong I get punished and If I am right I get rewarded... MMMMMM