Blowjobs

[Katiehottie]

I'm new to posting on Lit. So here it goes. I recently had a conversation with my best friend who has been married for 26 years, lately not very happily. The subject of her sex life came up, and she told me that in all their years together she has never given her husband a blowjob or put her mouth on it. I thought to myself, WOW, they are both missing out. I found this so unusual that I wanted to hear other people's opinion's on this matter. All are welcome.

 

[Kozuka]

That, to me, is just utterly ridiculous. Everybody has their limits and what they do and don't like, but to not even atrempt to give oral from the sound of it?

That poor man. Nothing can replicate the sensation of good head.

 

[hardcollege4]

Wow, why did he say I do?

 

[Katiehottie]

Wow, why did he say I do?

Good question.

 

[SC_Chiver]

Check your inbox...just sent you where I stand in my relationship

 

[Thebee123]

That is unusual

I'm new to posting on Lit. So here it goes. I recently had a conversation with my best friend who has been married for 26 years, lately not very happily. The subject of her sex life came up, and she told me that in all their years together she has never given her husband a blowjob or put her mouth on it. I thought to myself, WOW, they are both missing out. I found this so unusual that I wanted to hear other people's opinion's on this matter. All are welcome.

Tom jones aside, it all depends on the couple. If he doesn't desire oral, so be it. If he does, he is/may be ( you never said) denied and may feel so.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

If 69 doesnt count then only once. in many years. Pssst....one of many married guys where 's e x' is not to be mentioned. Wasnt always this way.

 

[DesertIsland]

Could be the reason there are so many guys on Lit....

 

[Kozuka]

If 69 doesnt count then only once. in many years. Pssst....one of many married guys where 's e x' is not to be mentioned. Wasnt always this way.

See, I just don't understand this. That sounds horrible. No offense to you or your marriage of course, but I just can't see myself having a sex life like that. As I said before, I'm young and I have a very healthy sexual appetite. As I get older, I imagine it'll wane a bit but for me personally, I will always want to have hot, spontaneous, in-the-moment sex.

Good luck to you sir.

 

[NiceNastyMann]

I'm new to posting on Lit. So here it goes. I recently had a conversation with my best friend who has been married for 26 years, lately not very happily. The subject of her sex life came up, and she told me that in all their years together she has never given her husband a blowjob or put her mouth on it. I thought to myself, WOW, they are both missing out. I found this so unusual that I wanted to hear other people's opinion's on this matter. All are welcome.

Depends. Was he the 'put her on a pedistal' type? Her reasons? It was too dirty - or he never cared too much to ask?

It was not that long ago that oral sex was a big taboo - that can get carried over into this day and age...

 

[Bigman57]

See, I just don't understand this. That sounds horrible. No offense to you or your marriage of course, but I just can't see myself having a sex life like that. As I said before, I'm young and I have a very healthy sexual appetite. As I get older, I imagine it'll wane a bit but for me personally, I will always want to have hot, spontaneous, in-the-moment sex.

Good luck to you sir.

As on older guy married to one of the sexiest women on the planet the sex only gets better.

 

[Kozuka]

As on older guy married to one of the sexiest women on the planet the sex only gets better.

Lol. You give me hope.

 

[StarGazer58]

A lot of married women don't like to give bj's since they have ready locked the guy in and don't really have to anymore.

 

[MAF84]

I think it just depends on the woman. I enjoy giving because it is a way to show appreciation and it's also just fun. I have some friends that just the thought of blowjobs gross them out, but others that would gladly give them anytime.

 

[Mockingjay]

BJs...are just awkward...

 

[Katiehottie]

See, I just don't understand this. That sounds horrible. No offense to you or your marriage of course, but I just can't see myself having a sex life like that. As I said before, I'm young and I have a very healthy sexual appetite. As I get older, I imagine it'll wane a bit but for me personally, I will always want to have hot, spontaneous, in-the-moment sex.

Good luck to you sir.

A lot of married women don't like to give bj's since they have ready locked the guy in and don't really have to anymore.

I don't think that is a far assumption.

 

[LilLisagirl]

Seems like the only way you wouldn't want to give someone a blowjob would be if you are not attracted to them. I dated a guy for a little while that just really got on my nerves and so I never wanted or never did give him a blowjob.

I love giving hubby blowjobs, but I also find him super sexy. I just can't imagine not wanting to do this with someone you are married to. But I am very sexual as well.

 

[longtimehubby]

we both enjoy giving and receiving oral pleasures. It's a big part of sex.

 

[SC_Chiver]

Question for the ladies...

Are there any of you out there that don't get your pussy licked quite as much as you'd like? Or how would you feel if this was the case?

 

[Katiehottie]

I think it just depends on the woman. I enjoy giving because it is a way to show appreciation and it's also just fun. I have some friends that just the thought of blowjobs gross them out, but others that would gladly give them anytime.

I totally agree with you MAF84. Have the ones that think it gross, ever tried it?

 

[lkguy]

Hey! I think different people interact with people differently. So I guess that's just how ur friend and her husband are with each other. Although I find this fact somewhat hard to believe. But then again, people are different. and I guess if their cool with it nobody else should be concerned about it.

 

[MsLead]

Question for the ladies...

Are there any of you out there that don't get your pussy licked quite as much as you'd like? Or how would you feel if this was the case?

Been more than 20 years and the last 13 while married and at this point I'm really pissed off about it! There u asked...I answered....

 

[southerncharm77]

I for one think that it's all about what each other desires. With that being said I absolutely love blowjobs especially when she is grinding away on my face! It's the mutual desire that each other has for the other. It's not everyone's cup of tea but when enjoyed by both it's absolutely amazing!

 

[MAF84]

I totally agree with you MAF84. Have the ones that think it gross, ever tried it?

They have, except for one... As far as I know

 

[southerncharm77]

Been more than 20 years and the last 13 while married and at this point I'm really pissed off about it! There u asked...I answered....

A woman would never have to ask nor beg for me to bury my face between her legs!