blowjob advice

[stuffandjunk1]

 

[dollface007]

Have you talked to her about this outside the bedroom? As in, "Honey, would you mind returning the favor? My cum is not made of toxic waste...."
I think being grossed out by cum is a legitimate hang up, but you need to talk to her about why she doesn't want it in her mouth. Women aren't exactly given a handbook on blowjobs when they reach puberty, so she might be relying on you to teach her what you like, what's okay, etc.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

AMEN well said

 

[lovechild27]

Just talk to her about it. ASk her about her fears...maybe she is scared to swallow...maybe the taste freaks her out...gotta communicate. Tell her what your telling us.

 

[fsumusic1981]

Start small and work your way up.

Ask her to give you a blowjob until you are about to cum, then have her finish you off with her hand. Then, when she is comfortable with that, ask her if you can cum in her mouth. When she is comfortable with that... ask her to swallow.

My girlfriend won't swallow anymore because it makes her sick. But hey, if yours won't let you cum in her mouth, maybe she will let you give her facials (cumming on her face, if you didn't know). It works for me sometimes.

Good luck

-Peace

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Playing with food can be a good way to overcome your adversion to cum. (hehehe that sounded funny) A squeeze bottle of chocolate syrup, honey, champagne, whipped cream - may get her to be a bit more enthusiastic about finishing. Or you can always grab her hair and hold her down? Oh wait - maybe that's just me..... lol

 

[liloleme]

Playing with food can be a good way to overcome your adversion to cum. (hehehe that sounded funny) A squeeze bottle of chocolate syrup, honey, champagne, whipped cream - may get her to be a bit more enthusiastic about finishing.

I agree. I've always loved giving blowjobs, but when I first became sexually active, it made things a lot more appealing to have flavored lotions, honey, or chocolate and such.

 

[BlueSugar]

Maybe she had a bad experience. And if its a hang up about cum, start slow ... let it go on you and have her taste it.

chocolate syrup and honey is a good idea, they also make this stuff called "goodhead" comes in various flavors and it could be something you two can laugh about.

Make it fun

and really talk to her about it, really find out what the issue is... and if you two are good about it, it'll happen in time.

Maybe... get her to tell you something she wants to do so its a fair trade

 

[Owlette67]

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[Stiffy Says...]

As usual it seems...

Have you talked to her about this outside the bedroom? As in, "Honey, would you mind returning the favor? My cum is not made of toxic waste...."
I think being grossed out by cum is a legitimate hang up, but you need to talk to her about why she doesn't want it in her mouth. Women aren't exactly given a handbook on blowjobs when they reach puberty, so she might be relying on you to teach her what you like, what's okay, etc.

...Dollface has sound advice.