Blowjob 101

[Latina]

One of my regular email correspondents and I were discussing our blowjob techniques on our favorite men. I mentioned that when I put too much food in my mouth at once, I sometimes gag on it. Yet I can lower my mouth straight down over my husband's 8-inch cock, all the way down to his balls, and I NEVER gag on that. She related that she is the same way.

She sent me this photo she found on the Internet, and this is EXACTLY what we were talking about: we open our lips wide and slowly slide straight down the long, hard shaft of our respective men, and as here, our men completely fill our mouths. Yet we don't gag. Is it because we fill our mouths slowly, or the love and passion and excitement, or just why is it that a cock is the ONLY thing that can completely fill a woman's mouth without causing her to choke or gag?

I'd like to hear from other women on whether they can take a cock all the way down to the balls without gagging, and how and why that's possible.

And for you guys, when a woman deep throats you like that, and you are moaning, shaking, pulsating, and coming, and she swallows, what goes through your mind? Frank says he feels so lucky to have found a woman who loves him enough to go down on him all the way like this, but I remind him that I am just repaying how wonderfully he always goes down on ME. He thinks that he must have done something good to be treated so lovingly, and again I remind him that his love for me is what he's done so good. He also says he finally just relaxes and gets into the moment, doesn't really think about much at that point, just enjoying the sensations as I suck, he comes, and I swallow.

So, guys, have you ever expereinced anything like this photo, and what goes through YOUR mind? And gals, do you do this, how do YOU keep from gagging, and what goes through YOUR mind?

Curious and dirtry minds want to know.

-- Latina

 

[unusuallyconfused]

I think that when you choke, you are not consciously thinking of your throat opening to accomodate food, it is just natural. When you give a blow job, you make sure you are able to open your throat. I think that is the only difference.

I think that when you love someone you try to give them as much pleasure as possible. I think opening your throat takes some talent though!

 

[Latina]

Funny, Frank uses that some word, talent. He says I have a real talent for sucking cock. I don't really think about it as a talent. He will have spent an hour or more ksising and caressing every inch of me, front and back, while whispering such wonderful loving things to me. After all that, I will get so hungry for his cock that I just about can't help myself, and my throat easily and involuntarily opens up to accomodate him.

Or sometimes just the way he looks or something he said or did, will turn me into the aggressor, and before he has even touched ME, I will go down on him!

I like it best when I can get to him while he's still soft, and start off kissing and licking him to hardness. It is all a matter of timing. He will get somewhat hard from my licks, but if I can time it just right to suck him into my mouth before he is FULLY erect, I can enjoy that incredible sensation of him pulsing mightily to final stiffness INSIDE mouth. There is simply no better feeling in this world than feeling that final pulse to hardness occur INSIDE my mouth! (OK, there is ONE better feeling, having him slip that hardness into my wet and eager pussy!) His hardening IN my mouth is when my throat relaxes the most, and I can really suck him WAY down without gagging. I hadn't really thought about it before reading unusallyconfused's reply, but I guess letting my throat feel relaxed is the key to not gagging. It isn't something I do unconsciously, I guess the mutual love and my complete trust of him is why I can do this and can seem to be so talented with him.

I'd still like to hear from others on this subject, especially what goes through other women's minds when sucking and through guy's minds when being sucked. And how common or rare is it for other couples to suck all the down the man's cock WITHOUT gagging?

-- Latina

 

[mars99]

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A good blowjob is a real treat for a man because it's one of the only sexual acts where he doesn't have to do any work, just lay back and enjoy. Of course one of the things I think about is how nice it would be to have a pussy to offer my tongue to while I'm enjoying it, so flipping around to a 69 is always a treat. As for what else goes through my mind, just the usual sexual fantasies and how great it feels to be receiving such pleasure and even greater if she lets you come in her mouth, which is always genuinely appreciated. OK, I'm horny now. I'm going to look at the picture you posted some more.

 

[Latina]

Yes, mars99, I too enjoy a really hot 69. You feel so intimate and equal, giving exactly what you are getting. As those familiar with my posts know, my husband ACTUALLY proposed to me in the middle of a 69, he had to back his tongue out of my pussy and slip the ring onto my finger. I looked at the ring on my finger, up at his smiling face, and then at his huge cock inches from my lips, and of course I said yes. As we were still positioned for a 69, I swallowed his cock whole again and his tongue plunged deep into me, and I think the excitement of his proposal made us come even harder than normal. This unusual, romantic, and VERY sexy proposal is one of my fondest memories!

Whether in a 69 or just a straight BJ, I always let him come in my mouth and I swallow every drop. Anything less would be a betrayal of the love and trust we've built up over 5 years. I don't understand women who spit it out, that is such an insult to the man, if you are not going to do it all the way, why suck cock at all? To me, sucking cock is a way to show my man I love him and want to please him, and I love the feel and taste of him warm come scooting across my tongue and oozing down my throat as I gulp and swallow in a losing battle to keep up with his flow. I guess it is a certain pride, too, that my love and my skill caused him to erupt SO much thick ooze into my mouth. And it is only fair: he goes down on me a LOT, and he always licks up and swallows every last drop flowing from my pussy, why would I do any less for the man I love?

I've posted this photo before, but perhaps you have not seen it. It is one of my all-time favorite photos of us, not only because it shows his long, thick, hard, absolutely BEAUTIFUL cock, but it also captures the look of blissful and ecstatic rapture on my face, it captures the serenity that washes over me whenever I have a mouthful of the cock attached to the man I love with all my heart and soul. I love that little trickle dribbling out the corner of my mouth, too, I think it looks VERY hot and sexy.

-- Latina

 

[Latina]

Not me, but an appropriate image for this thread. Looks very tasty, I almost envy her.

-- Latina