Bloodplay

[Void]

I've always had a natural bloodlust even as a child and it's scared of several women in my life because I enjoy the taste of blood..besides having a natural longing for it I find it EXTREMELY erotic in the bedroom. Hell it's erotic anywhere but in the bedroom is where I prefer to keep it.. Am I alone and anyone have tips for places to cut? I've always excercised great concern about this and rarely ever would cut them myself. Any comments or advice would be appreciated.

 

[KisstheSky]

Bite Me

I told you I'd bleed for you, we just need to find the time
~Kiss~

 

[Void]

I'de love you to but you know I want you as more than a blood doll.

 

[KisstheSky]

Blood doll? No dear, when I'm with someone physically I give myself to them mind, body, soul and blood...as you do with anyone with a vampiric fetish you should know that
Don't fret we'll work up to it, I know you want it though, and you deserve to get what you want.....
~Kiss~

 

[Void]

I've got time I'm just afraid I'm going to lose you to someone else after this weekend.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Void]

In time, I hope.

 

[SexyChele]

Will you two just go get a room already. Geeze.

Either that, or take it to IM. Saccarin gives me a headache!

 

[abiamarie]

I completely understand your lust for blood.
I have the same blood fetish.
But my partner's family was kind of mad at me when I cut his forehead (I didn't mean to but I enjoyed seeing him bleed and sucking his blood after it happened)... so I won't cut him again.

 

[sheath]

Bloodlust...Oh, do I know about that! lol

First of all..."Bloodletting" and "Cutting" are two different things. Bloodletting, in a sexual sense, can be used as a ritual or as an addition to sexual pleasure. "Cutting" is something that is usually self-inflicted, and usually has nothing to do with sex. It is usually used as a physical/emotional/mental release, and is considered a dangerous practice in most circles. I will try to find links to tell you more about it. In the meantime...

Bloodletting during sex...

I am quite into this...I have been ever since participating in a religious ritual with an old boyfriend. It involved bloodletting, and I was nervous at first...but the sensation of him sucking so deeply, and the way the whole experience made me feel, got me hooked on the practice.

I am NOT an expert at this...and it is VERY DANGEROUS. I considered not posting to this thread because of the questionable nature of the practice in many ways...but my reasoning is, you will likely try it anyway, if you are that interested. So it's good to be forewarned and informed, not going into it blindly. That said...

I've been lucky to have men in my life who were interested in trying new things, and so, I have been able to indulge.

But...here are a few tips.

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS make sure your partner is clean. Never do that unless you are very, very sure that you are not in danger...meaning, have those test results in hand before going for it. And we're not just talking about HIV. There are many other things to watch for...among them, Hepatitis C, which is often asymptomatic. Find a trusted doctor and tell him or her what you are going to do, and learn more about the risks.

Never cut over a main artery. Never. You have no idea how deep you could go...what if she jerks suddenly? What if she gets frightened and struggles? What if you get too eager? If you are going to do it, it's not good to do more than just a scratch. Deep cuts are absolute no-nos. I'm sure there are some people into that, but if you're going to fool around with the more dangerous edges of sex, then you have to be willing to make some concessions. You want to be driven to new heights of passion...not dead.

Be aware of blood loss. Anyone can lose a small amount of blood and be just fine (except hemophiliacs, but we all know that). Often the thrill of bloodletting is in the 'faint' and 'vulnerable' or 'floating' feeling of the blood loss...but in my opinion, that is going a little too far.

If you (or she) begins to feel lightheaded, STOP. Stop right then. If you have done it with the utmost care, the wound should not be bleeding freely. So...STOP! Don't stimulate the wound! Actually, if you have gone so far as feeling that 'floating' feeling, you have gone too far. Start slowly and gauge what you can handle. DO NOT give in to the urge to keep going in the heat of the moment.

And lastly...make sure that whatever you use to make a cut, it is perfectly clean. Also remember...sucking on a wound can invite infection, so be ready to disinfect the wound as soon as your experience is over.

Remember, please...it is a questionable addition to your sexual play, just like strangulation and other more 'extreme' acts in the bedroom. Check out the BDSM board and see if you can find more information. Research it thoroughly. DO NOT engage in this on a whim! You can have fun with it, but by all means, do it safely and sanely.

S.


This is a site with some basic information on "Cutting", which is not the same as "Bloodletting" or forms of Vampirism.
http://www.usanetwork.com/movies/secretcutting/faq.html[/URL

 

[blueyedheartbandit]

bloodplay

Me and the wife both love bloodplay. Most of the time i us a very sharp knif and cut her back. Not to deep just so it will bleed alittle. i will do this for 15 to 20 mins . By this time all of the little cuts have let alot of blood out anf onto her back. Then i will lick her clean. We both enjoy it very much. We also have cut eachother on the upper chest just a small cut befor we have sex. During sex we will suck eachothers blood and it is mind blowing

 

[sheath]

I've had a few questions on PM since my last post, so I will address them here, too...

Places to cut? I would advise not going near the throat. The side of the neck would be fine, but remember that there are arteries there, too. Make a very shallow cut. Anything that might need stitches is DEFINITELY too far!

Use a very sharp knife and a steady hand. You don't want to leave a scar! And make sure the knife is clean.

The back is okay, and the arms...the legs...just know where the pulse points are. If you can touch her skin and feel the pulse underneath, do not cut there.

Someone asked about actually biting to cut the skin...please, don't. Although it might seem sexy to someone who is into bloodplay, the mouth is filled with bacteria that can be harmful if introduced into a wound of any kind. Besides that, you are liable to leave a scar, and to bite too deeply. I would avoid it altogether.

I hope this helps those of you who wondered.

S.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

As an RN with over 11 years of experience in Critical Care, I find "don't cut over an artery" to hardly be adequate advice unless one has a firm grasp on human anatomy and physiology. Yes, it was not the sum total of advice given. However, I would like to steer those reading this thread to some in-depth discussions, both pro- and con- from the BDSM Board Library.

Knife Play

Blood Play

You may find these of interest.

~anelize

 

[sheath]

As an RN with over 11 years of experience in Critical Care, I find "don't cut over an artery" to hardly be adequate advice unless one has a firm grasp on human anatomy and physiology. Yes, it was not the sum total of advice given. However, I would like to steer those reading this thread to some in-depth discussions, both pro- and con- from the BDSM Board Library.

Knife Play

Blood Play

You may find these of interest.

~anelize

THANK YOU so much for posting those links!

While I am familiar with bloodplay, I certainly have no trained medical experience...and obviously, that lacking shows in my above post. Thanks for the voice of seasoned reason.

S.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

You are most welcome.

~anelize

 

[Void]

It's nice to know I'm not alone TY Sheath and ty Anelize

 

[Mike302]

I've had the taste for blood before too.

My wife and I were in the shower and I went down to eat the creampie as I usually do. I was aware she was on her period and was curious to see what I'd get.

What flowed back out of her was this long, thick stream of my cum. Not unusual at all but this cum was sort of a semi-transparent reddish pink color. The best thing I can compare it to is the filling you'll find inside of a chocolate covered cherry. It was beautifull! I so wish I had a picture of it!

When the thick strand was about six inches long and ready to drop I scooped it up into my mouth. I licked and dug into her with my tongue getting all I could as I normally do. I could taste the blood and it just drove me crazy! It was so cool to be so aroused by my wifes blood!

I rose with my mouth full of my reward to show to my wife. I opened my mouth and swirled it all around with my tongue before swallowing it down. (Something she loves to do for me too)

Man it was awesome! Must do that again sometime!

Mike302

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I don't so much have the lust to DRINK other people's blood, but rather to GIVE mine.

I have only done it once, with one person.. We were both tested and made sure that we were clean, and he DID use his teeth (he gargled first)... first, he bit my hand, and ripped the skin open there (I have a small scar, but it was over an existing scar anyway), then he bit open my lip and sucked, and then ... *sigh* then he bit into my neck... it was INCREDIBLY painful, but when he began to drink... oh my god, it was incredible... he had to hold me still, but he did so by groping and massaging my breasts, and he did drink to the point where I was lightheaded... I merely put my hand back on his forehead, and he stopped.

I understand how dangerous what we did is, NOW, but I didn't then... we did disinfect right away, and bandaged me up... I enjoyed how swollen my bottom lip got, and enjoyed the taste of my blood in my mouth...

Like I said, I have the desire to give blood, not to take it... I always HAVE had that desire... vampirism is very erotic to me.

 

[sheath]

I don't so much have the lust to DRINK other people's blood, but rather to GIVE mine.

I have only done it once, with one person.. We were both tested and made sure that we were clean, and he DID use his teeth (he gargled first)... first, he bit my hand, and ripped the skin open there (I have a small scar, but it was over an existing scar anyway), then he bit open my lip and sucked, and then ... *sigh* then he bit into my neck... it was INCREDIBLY painful, but when he began to drink... oh my god, it was incredible... he had to hold me still, but he did so by groping and massaging my breasts, and he did drink to the point where I was lightheaded... I merely put my hand back on his forehead, and he stopped.

I understand how dangerous what we did is, NOW, but I didn't then... we did disinfect right away, and bandaged me up... I enjoyed how swollen my bottom lip got, and enjoyed the taste of my blood in my mouth...

Like I said, I have the desire to give blood, not to take it... I always HAVE had that desire... vampirism is very erotic to me.

Wow...reading that post made me do two things: think "Wow, that really was dangerous" and then it made me think "Damn, I wanna do this NOW!" (insert selfish whine here)

Strange, maybe...but hey, that eroticism of vampirism? I can feel the desire rising up in me as we speak.

S.

 

[kaoskytton]

So who actually makes this a serious pasttime? It seems up there in the "dangerous" levels of kink as opposed to the "adventurous" type.

 

[KisstheSky]

I've done it.
Almost did it last night in fact

 

[kaoskytton]

I have too, but it's like, I love oral sex and perform it whenever possible. Is scarring an issue? I mean, do you just cut the same places? I've got six sequential fine-line scars but if I did it every weekend for a year, well, that would be 52 scars. That's a lot of lines.

 

[KisstheSky]

I have a few small scars from when I started bloodplay with a guy I used to see...we started slow, cutting our fingertips and the palms of our hands (which I was used to already for other reasons) I loved sucking on his fingers it made him so hard lol and I loved the way his tongue ring felt massaging the length of my fingers with his tongue as he lapped up the blood.
Then we moved on to shallow cuts on my back, thighs...which resulted in almost no scars, plus you gotta love Neosporin
But that relationship ended.
Then I got in another one and we talked about it, there was biting and such but we never broke the skin.
But last night my guy friend I just started casually dating kissed me goodnight and he kissed down my neck and lightly nipped the tender spot between my neck and shoulder.
I told him if he was going to bite me he better do it right and he complied with marvelous accuracy and skill, he broke the skin but not enough for blood to really flow so I used my nail and scratched it open a bit more and we had a bit of fun with that before bedtime.
Can't wait for more.
Oral can be fun too, but he and I haven't crossed that bridge yet...though I was tempted to since we were in the movie theater all by our lonesomes....*smirks*

 

[sheath]

So who actually makes this a serious pasttime? It seems up there in the "dangerous" levels of kink as opposed to the "adventurous" type.

I know several people who make it a serious part of their lives, though not as a 'pasttime'. The first man who tried this with me was part of a religion in which ritualistic bloodletting during sexual acts is a part of worship, and he did it quite often. He still does, last I heard. By 'often', I would say about once a week.

Myself? My man and I enjoy it, on average, about once a month. We do not incorporate it into other parts of our lives like my ex did, so it is purely a sexual enhancer for us.

Scars are pretty uncommon for us, if we don't get too carried away with it. Razor blades and very sharp edges leave no scars if we are careful, though I'm sure everyone is different when it comes to scarring. I have worse scars from shaving my legs than I do from bloodplay.

You are right...it CAN be very dangerous, as Anelize helped illustrate earlier in this thread. But as with everything else, common sense and precautions lessen that risk. For me, the pleasure of it outweighs the risk, so I go for it.

S.