Blood..?

[OhNoTheBlood]

Right..
Okay please don't judge me super harshly..
I have a blood fetish and I know that.
Not like menstrual blood, I mean regular old blood that comes out when you break some skin. I like how it tastes and looks and feels.
I'm also not very good at talking about said fetish with my boyfriend. He knows I have a thing for blood. He wants to incorporate it into our sex life to help me orgasm and stuff. This is all fine and dandy and means a lot to me that he's willing but there are two problems.
1) Neither of us know how to incorporate that into our intimate moments.
-He has never dealt with bloodplay in his life.
-I am a total wuss and never brought it up to past lovers and therefore never used bloodplay with another partner and therefore have no clue what to do with another person.

2) He thinks I will be able to get off just by tasting and touching my own blood but I already know that my blood alone will not satisfy. I want his blood. A lot. But that's not his forte and I don't know what to do about that either. I haven't mentioned that to him very much. I think I said something about it once but panicked and backed down.

I'm really bad at talking about it with him because I'm so awkward and uncomfortable and I'm trying to keep things healthy and safe. (Sterile tools and clean blood) but I honestly don't even know enough to tell him where to begin either. So I'm on here trying to learn some stuff to be able to do these things with him. Sorry, and any help would so so so so so greatly appreciated.
I love you forever if you don't judge me TT^TT

 

[banes27]

I've had similar problems along these lines. I like blood (personally, I like the feeling of bleeding and the sight of blood running down myself, I love the taste of it, I love seeing it run down other people and to taste their blood would be amazing), but like you I've never managed to incorporate it into my life. Unfortunately for me, as much as I want to, I just can't bring myself to cut someone I know and care for, at least intentionally.

In the heat of the moment, I'll happily scratch their backs, potentially to the point of breaking skin, but it's never at intentional thing and happens very, very rarely.

I've mostly learnt to leave this to fantasy, which does its job as a way of getting me really in the mood for sex. I'll mention it to anyone I think will end up being a long-term partner, but I don't expect anything from them.

The closest I've come to achieving anything sexual involving blood is sex during a period (the image of my cock covered in blood was pretty nice, and I don't mind menstrual blood, but it's not really the same), and licking and sucking on a cut that a partner has received accidentally.

Hopefully someone will have something more positive to say, but one thing I'd say is that if you can't include it physically in your life, with your partner, try and find some other way of including it. Bit of a clichéd answer, but there's porn that involves blood (fake or real), so perhaps you could try and watch some with your partner and see what their reaction is?

 

[twister947]

Powerful fetish for me, and it's not uncommon-look at all of the vampire porn-, but really, really dangerous. Blood borne pathogens are serious shit. There really is no such thing as "safe" blood play.

That said, if you still want to explore this, lancets are a good first step, followed by single-use needles.

But really, just don't. The stakes are too high.

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