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Dj-Eros

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Today I spoke with my first Literotica Slave, she told me about herself... and we got into the rules...

I gave her, her first lesson.

Lesson #1: Never Disobey Master

I had her get off a few times through slapping the clit and penetration with a toy. She came without my saying she could. So I tortured her all day. I made her keep the toy deep inside her pussy all day, at a family gathering no less. Lets just say thats torture, then the fireworks display I made her turn the toy on and let her cum finally.

What are your thoughts on the first day?
 
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You slapped her clit online?


*sigh*

Another thread I don't want to read.

They are stacking up.

Final question ~ Is Lit a blog site as well now?
 
This is waaaaaay past my limits. I personally find it rude to do sexual things around friends and relatives that haven't consented or just to not give them my full attention. I'm shy anyway about such things. Frankly, I wouldn't be too thrilled to a relative or friend with someone acting like I imagine they would act doing such things either. I mean, "men in white coats" much? Family gatherings are a tough enough thing without that IMO.

Am I impressed with what was done, not particularly. *shrugs*

I guess if you are happy and she is happy (yes that does matter IMO,) then fine and dandy. Have fun y'all and party on.

If on the other hand one or both of you are not happy or if you aren't sure because y'all haven't consulted each other about that, it's time for both of you to revaluate things.

In any case, good luck to you both.

Fury :rose:
 
The subbies here are brutally honest and won't pull any punches. Trust me on this. They have wanted to hang me a few times in the past but take heart, they will set you straight on any misconceptions you may have.

Your kink is your own though and while others might not like it if it works for you and her then that is between you two.

If she was ever abused by a relative though making her do that at a family function may force her to relive or revisit past psychological damage and then you will be locked in her mind in the same category as her abuser. You absolutely must find out everything about her and her past that you can before you begin to train her or you could fuck her up very badly. You have to take care of slaves, even the ones that need what the rest of us think of as abuse.
 
I don't get the cumming around family gig. But I don't get the tongue licking shit off an ass either and people do that.

To me, a sub's family is a safe zone. I'd question the sanity of anyone who would do that. And her honesty about doing it even.

I do like buttplugs in social situations like eating out, shopping, or whatever. But I'm not big on public orgasms. Except for maybe the old vibrating egg trick at the theater.
 
WriterDom said:
I don't get the cumming around family gig. But I don't get the tongue licking shit off an ass either and people do that.

To me, a sub's family is a safe zone. I'd question the sanity of anyone who would do that. And her honesty about doing it even.

I do like buttplugs in social situations like eating out, shopping, or whatever. But I'm not big on public orgasms. Except for maybe the old vibrating egg trick at the theater.

I seriously doubt a vibrating egg would make me come, though I read about that all the time.

However there are other things one (or two) can do in a dark theater that would. :D

Fury :rose:
 
shy slave said:
You slapped her clit online?


*sigh*

Another thread I don't want to read.

They are stacking up.

Final question ~ Is Lit a blog site as well now?

You made me spew my coffee! Naughty shy....

Eb
 
Dj-Eros said:
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Lesson #1: Never Disobey Master

I had her get off a few times through slapping the clit and penetration with a toy. She came without my saying she could. So I tortured her all day. I made her keep the toy deep inside her pussy all day, at a family gathering no less. Lets just say thats torture, then the fireworks display I made her turn the toy on and let her cum finally.

What are your thoughts on the first day?

So, you had her "get off" by slapping her clit and toying then "punished her" for orgasming "without" permission? :rolleyes: Seems kinda odd, to put it mildly. I always felt it unfair to punish someone for doing as they were told, but if she's cool with dealing with that sort of thing, have fun.
 
shy slave said:
You slapped her clit online?


*sigh*

Another thread I don't want to read.

They are stacking up.

Final question ~ Is Lit a blog site as well now?

The secret to this is putting him on ignore... you never see their threads again. It's just a click or 2 away right now.

Works for me!!! ;D Sure does unclutter my page, too. Love that ignore feature!!!
 
Yawn. I do try to be polite, but when somebody asks our opinion...it's hard not to be honest. Personally, I find the online stuff pretty silly if it's not part of a committed relationship. If you happen to be in a LDR that's one thing, but most of this kind of thing is just cybersex behind one's spouse's back. And I can't go for that. Your Kink Is OK, but cheating is cheating. (Note: I am not saying the OP or the sub are cheating, but a lot of times that's what this kind of thing is.)

Also, "Lesson #1: Never Disobey Master" ...? LOL.

As for the blog thing, in my 15+ years of online interaction and 5+ years of blogging, I have seen a "blog in a thread" exactly once before. There's one currently being written on the Cruise Critic message boards, and it's going pretty well. It's not really a blog though, they're just calling it that. If the OP genuinely wants to keep a blog, the administrators of Literotica also run a site called Blurty that is specifically designed for blogging.
 
family functions are a big no no .. they did not ask to have a part in it, and god damn, i wouldn't know what to think if i went to a family occasion and even thought of someone, or me, doing that .. although now thanks to your thread, i probably always will *sigh* :/

and as for the online thing? mm kay. i have an ex house-mate that is currently in an online dom/sub relationship. i don't really understand it. all that effort for someone that is probably nothing like they say they are. *shrugs* i prefer mine real-life.

but hey, whatever floats both ya boats. *shrugs again*
 
Dj-Eros said:
I gave her, her first lesson.

Lesson #1: Never Disobey Master

i think that this just goes to show you'd never have a relationship in real life, and i'm sorry for that.

we have some great threads in the bdsm forum about books, and educational things, that you might want to check out if you're at all serious about pursuing bdsm.

check out the library.

otherwise, it sounds more like you're interested in writing a sexy story to share with people. you could write a story for lit composed of "blog entries" and i'm sure you'd get some positive feedback. i got positive feedback for stories i thought nobody would ever enjoy ;)

that's my suggestion.

as for the family function discussion... what the family doesn't know won't hurt them. but i think anyone here who's been curious or tried to "wear a dildo all day" knows that it's not as easy as it sounds. and dj, i think you have to imagine the posibility that your online "slave" is lying to you about what she is/isn't doing.
 
Tip for those wishing to have their sub carry something in their ass all day: ball bearings are not a good choice. [/deadpan]
 
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=442089&page=1&pp=25

He went to the GB and started this thread ^. He could've posted his complaints -coughwhinecough - right here :

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=436785
(nothing like pimping your own thread, huh? LOL)

Like etoile, I've never seen a Blog on any board at Lit. Lots of Litsters have blogs of their own and provide access to them in their sig lines, for those who might be interested in reading them.

But you know, we have RP threads in here and even threads that somehow (dont' ask me how) become RP-ing threads. What makes his any different? If you take the word BLOG out of his title, this could be just another "story" thread, one of those where the OP adds another "chapter" daily, weekly, or whentever. In essence, to me, it's not a whole lot different than several of the threads we have in here already (and that I have on ignore).

I think that his first mistake was calling this thread a Blog. And you have to give him credit for placing it in the cafe and not on the talk board, where most of this kind of shit usually begins. ;-)
 
What galls me about whines like that is that he ASKED what we thought. Kind of reminds me of the picture posted by the girl who was dating pellso. "What do you think of the cum on my pussy?" Um, we don't really like it. "OMG YOU ARE SO MEAN!" It's like, well...um...you DID ask, you know?
 
Etoile said:
What galls me about whines like that is that he ASKED what we thought. Kind of reminds me of the picture posted by the girl who was dating pellso. "What do you think of the cum on my pussy?" Um, we don't really like it. "OMG YOU ARE SO MEAN!" It's like, well...um...you DID ask, you know?

Again etoile, I agree with you completely. But I was trying to find something to give him credit for... LOL.

His GB thread was a definate whine. And why he didn't come back here and do his whining, is kinda funny to me.
 
And I'm not going to address the particulars of his post, like others here have. I don't care if he tells her to shove a grapefruit up her ass and keep it there all day. (After all, our bodies have a way of telling us when what we are doing is just not the right thing, yaknow?)

I'm looking at the sum of his posts. To me, the thread here and the one he started on the GB... the whole thing is just plain goofy.
 
Etoile said:
What galls me about whines like that is that he ASKED what we thought. Kind of reminds me of the picture posted by the girl who was dating pellso. "What do you think of the cum on my pussy?" Um, we don't really like it. "OMG YOU ARE SO MEAN!" It's like, well...um...you DID ask, you know?

Oh I had forgotten about that thread!!

That was funny.

Thanks for making me grin Etoile :)
 
What gets me is that these guys always ask for feedback, and then get their feelings hurt when it's not all pats on the back. If you can't handle negative feedback, don't ask the question!
 
Etoile said:
Tip for those wishing to have their sub carry something in their ass all day: ball bearings are not a good choice. [/deadpan]

What about those mentos peppermint candies?
 
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