blade play

the captians wench

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Okay I've been teased with small throwing knives before, but about a week ago I had my first extended experience with blade play. A friend of mine and I have a barter worked out where I make him a kilt and he sessions me (5 in all and each 2 hours. And everything that is done is totally at his discrestion with respect to my safe words). The big joke is he's beating a kilt out of me, quite litterally. Anyway, this last session he pulled out a fifteen inch dagger and in various positions ran the blade over me. He even carved the word "slave" on my stomach. He also did aply a bit of pressure on the tip ( I should mention that this is a stage combat blade and really doesn't have a sharp edge) and made it feel like the blade was going to puncture my breast, it didn't of course. It was also slid across my pussy lips and even ever so slightly touched my clit. The experence was amazing. This is something I'm very interested in, and would love to beable to share with my keeper, but I know he's not familure with this, or knives really much at all. I was sort of wondering what other people's experences have been and maybe if anyone knows any good books on the subject or learning refferences that they would be willing to share. :)
 
My very first experience with a Dom included a 10" hunting knife. To start the play he'd placed me in a field with my back turned. He came up behind me, and I gave a little sigh of pleasure when I felt his body pressed against my back and his face close to mine. But then I opened my eyes and saw the shine of the blade at my neck. For less than a split second I experienced exactly the terror he'd hoped for, then I realized the sharp edge of the knife was facing away from my neck. I stood trembling, with weak knees while he cut my clothes off.

Needless to say, we're both disappointed that he will never be able to evoke that emotion from me to that degree again.

Since then we've played with the knife a couple times but one of my limits was "no risidual marks" so any scratches left were very light. He did apply pressure, and he did draw it over my clit. Since I was confident he wouldn't cut me (strictly because of the 'no marks' limit), I learned to hold still and not fear it so much. I'd like to play some more now that marks are no longer an issue, but I haven't brought it up because part of me is terrified he'll actually use it. :D
 
the captians wench said:
This is something I'm very interested in, and would love to beable to share with my keeper, but I know he's not familure with this, or knives really much at all. I was sort of wondering what other people's experences have been and maybe if anyone knows any good books on the subject or learning refferences that they would be willing to share. :)

Best resource - get involved with your local BDSM group, find an experienced knife player (erotic or cutting) and watch and learn. Next best, get to a BDSM event like Thunder in the Mountains, or South East LeatherFest or Folsom Street and attend a cutting or erotic knife play demo.

Trying to learn how to handle a knife if it is NOT something you've grown up using, is NOT something you want to learn from reading a book, or (Heaven forbid) some of the online fantasy bullshit that is out there. Erotic knife play you can get some tips and techniques for from books like "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" or "The Loving Dominant", but I've never seen any really good information on cutting in a book. I think most authors shy away from it mostly from a liability standpoint.

If you are serious about cuttings though, I would recommend searching for "body modification" and "scarification" on line. There is some extreme information on the subject but there is good "101 level" information as well.

Good hunting!
 
Sorry you haven't gotten more replies on this, wench.

It's funny (as in peculiar) and kind of sad to me, that when someone looks for info about knife play, which is very hot, very intense, very edgy, and definitely BDSM, nobody wants to post.

But OMG, someone gets a case of the ass about their PYL/pyl, or some dorkwad troll drooling and slobbering all over 'em, and 400 replies later the thread is still going strong. *shrugs* Go figure.

Maybe some other experienced knife players will share their thoughts here if I give the thread a bump.

YIK,
- Geoff
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Sorry you haven't gotten more replies on this, wench.

It's funny (as in peculiar) and kind of sad to me, that when someone looks for info about knife play, which is very hot, very intense, very edgy, and definitely BDSM, nobody wants to post.

But OMG, someone gets a case of the ass about their PYL/pyl, or some dorkwad troll drooling and slobbering all over 'em, and 400 replies later the thread is still going strong. *shrugs* Go figure.

Maybe some other experienced knife players will share their thoughts here if I give the thread a bump.

YIK,
- Geoff

So Evil_Geoff,

Can't you share more about knife play on this thread too?

Fury :rose:
 
Hi Fury,

Frankly, no. I am not willing to put my name, email address, or face, out on an unsecure internet site with information about "how-to" do something that is as potentially dangerous as cuttings and knife play. Not without wasting a LOT of bandwidth and verbage explaining that I am NOT telling people how to do this, I am NOT an "expert", I am NOT an instructor on this subject, etc, etc, etc.

I consider it a liability issue, and I am NOT willing to have my happy behind sued in a wrongful death or major injury civil suit because I "told them how to do knife play" and someone got hurt or killed. Nope, nope, nope, not going to happen. Hell, the 1st 4-5 minutes of my knife play demo is my introduction, then the next 10 minutes is nothing but disclaimer.

If this was a more controlled environment like a BDSM group where members have to be vetted or oriented before being allowed to attend functions, yeah, I might go into some of the how-to's. But here? Where literally any moron (evangelist, cop, newspaper reporter, trial lawyer, etc) can surf in and read what I've put out there? *shakes his head* I'm not comfortable with that level of access. THAT scares me.
 
I think evil geoff is correct. But being a big fan of knife play (not cutting) myself, im here to applaud and bump this thread.
My particular preference is for knife play that follows wax play. Its edgy, its hot, and id like far more often than i get it. However, that's what i want, and not apparently relevant :rolleyes:

If your interested in getting your person to indulge you. Ask them to.

Im going to step up my begging routine i think. Its been a while lol

pandoravampire
 
pandoravampire said:
I think evil geoff is correct. But being a big fan of knife play (not cutting) myself, im here to applaud and bump this thread.
My particular preference is for knife play that follows wax play. Its edgy, its hot, and id like far more often than i get it. However, that's what i want, and not apparently relevant :rolleyes:

If your interested in getting your person to indulge you. Ask them to.

Im going to step up my begging routine i think. Its been a while lol

pandoravampire

I'd love to do or have that done to me! I wish he were more into temp play!

Fury :rose:
 
i dont think id ever to blade play to be honest, id be too afraid of bleeding to death i reckon.
 
emzthebitch said:
i dont think id ever to blade play to be honest, id be too afraid of bleeding to death i reckon.

Even if there was no actual cutting of skin involved?

Fury :rose:
 
Wow, sounds very interesting. However I think this is kind of out of my leauge for now.
:catroar:
 
*sigh* I have always wanted to try blade play and needles, bu unfortunatly my other half does not like blood AT ALL. Thats his only no no. Would like to see some more opinions on this issue though, this is something that has always interested me.
 
My Sir, has a set of chef knives. They are very lovingly tendered. Always razor sharp.
He toys with me, when sharpening them. I have this pavlov dog reaction to that sound. It amuses him to have me wriggling at the sink, while i try to compose my jerking body.
But, at a later time. topping from the bottom? whatever. I prepare the veg. Using his set. He is very cautious in his allowing this. I am partially sighted. It terrifies him when i chop veg fast :devil:

I dont ever push it too far though lol or the game would be up. He knows i know he knows though.

pandoravampire
 
*sigh*
I love knife play............
*grin*
Of course I have a general appreciation of well made sharp objects anyway....But..

There is an intensity inherent in the feel of edge or point on skin.... That is hard to, perhaps impossible to, equal..

When someone asked me how it compared to floggers etc... I told them that it was the difference between chess............and rugby.
(can't tell it might have been a little too long since I've played this way....Can yah?)

I will confess that I am somewhat at a loss at the idea of using a "stage blade" for knife play.. It would remove most of the entire idea, effect, and purpose of what is happening...For both of you.
But, I suppose that if neither of you is used to the idea and process of what is happening...It might not be a bad idea...

Personally I started out with the old idea of "try it on yourself first".. So I ended up with a rather long series of scratches on my upper legs...Until I was familiar with the exact ways of doing things without doing more than I wanted.
The fact that all I had was light scratches I attribute to many years of experience with cutlery. As weapons, but mainly as a tool I carry and use every day of my life.

WIth Geoff I am not willing to give any "how to" advice... There are sites on the web where people have posted such... If you cut off a major body part, or exsanguinate someone ...Then it's your own fault.

I will say, to whoever posted it..... Kitchen knives are probably a really bad idea.
For most people they will not be in the best of shape... But even for the ones where they are excellently maintained... The blades are thin...Cut VERY easily..Especially the point...

My knives are razor sharp...Literally...I have bald spots on my arms where I test them.. But because they are maintained like this, and I use them all the time, I know EXACTLY what they will do.
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Sorry you haven't gotten more replies on this, wench.

It's funny (as in peculiar) and kind of sad to me, that when someone looks for info about knife play, which is very hot, very intense, very edgy, and definitely BDSM, nobody wants to post.

But OMG, someone gets a case of the ass about their PYL/pyl, or some dorkwad troll drooling and slobbering all over 'em, and 400 replies later the thread is still going strong. *shrugs* Go figure.

Maybe some other experienced knife players will share their thoughts here if I give the thread a bump.

YIK,
- Geoff


That one's easy...The second one is a "safe" topic....

The experienced people... Like you, I, others.... Are afraid that somone who spends all their time cybering, talking about "being suspended by their thumbs for 3 hours, while being flogged with a ten foot bullwhip dipped in broken glass" (now don't anyone lie and say they haven't heard BS just about that bad) is going to pick up EXACTLY the wrong thing....Go out the next night and cut a body part off someone... Or exsanguinate themself doing something stupid.

*evil grin* Besides ... You know that half of those 400 posts are hijacks involving "cookies" or some other random shite.
 
I absolutely LOVE blade play.

Reading the thread, there are a few who are confusing blade play, with cutting. They are two entirely different acts. One can play with knives from here till doomsday and never cut, if that is the intention.

I have an extensive collection of blades, from a small 3" throwing knife set, to 3 foot long Japanese swords, and everything in between. All are kept razor sharp at all times.

My girl (wife) is very close to sub space when I get the blades out, she is in subspace the instant a blade touches her clit <weg>.

I am gathering information on cutting, it is something we both want to explore. I'll be attending Thunder in the Mountains again this year, hopefully there will be a cutting seminar. I was not at all interested in it until last year at Thunder, a friend of mine had a cutting done on her back and was proudly showing it off the next day. I had no idea a cutting could be so exquisite and beautiful.
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Sorry you haven't gotten more replies on this, wench.

It's funny (as in peculiar) and kind of sad to me, that when someone looks for info about knife play, which is very hot, very intense, very edgy, and definitely BDSM, nobody wants to post.

But OMG, someone gets a case of the ass about their PYL/pyl, or some dorkwad troll drooling and slobbering all over 'em, and 400 replies later the thread is still going strong. *shrugs* Go figure.

Maybe some other experienced knife players will share their thoughts here if I give the thread a bump.

YIK,
- Geoff

thanks for keeping this alive. I still have to go thru and catch up. I lost my net acess when my cousin moved out on me in the middle of the night, so i havne't been able to check on things as much. infact i'm sneaking a minute now while i'm at my mom's. but i'll have it back by wednesday :nana: bout time too, i'm going mad with out it! okay, going back to reading
 
EKVITKAR said:
*sigh*
I love knife play............
*grin*
Of course I have a general appreciation of well made sharp objects anyway....But..

There is an intensity inherent in the feel of edge or point on skin.... That is hard to, perhaps impossible to, equal..

When someone asked me how it compared to floggers etc... I told them that it was the difference between chess............and rugby.
(can't tell it might have been a little too long since I've played this way....Can yah?)

I will confess that I am somewhat at a loss at the idea of using a "stage blade" for knife play.. It would remove most of the entire idea, effect, and purpose of what is happening...For both of you.
But, I suppose that if neither of you is used to the idea and process of what is happening...It might not be a bad idea...

Personally I started out with the old idea of "try it on yourself first".. So I ended up with a rather long series of scratches on my upper legs...Until I was familiar with the exact ways of doing things without doing more than I wanted.
The fact that all I had was light scratches I attribute to many years of experience with cutlery. As weapons, but mainly as a tool I carry and use every day of my life.

WIth Geoff I am not willing to give any "how to" advice... There are sites on the web where people have posted such... If you cut off a major body part, or exsanguinate someone ...Then it's your own fault.

I will say, to whoever posted it..... Kitchen knives are probably a really bad idea.
For most people they will not be in the best of shape... But even for the ones where they are excellently maintained... The blades are thin...Cut VERY easily..Especially the point...

My knives are razor sharp...Literally...I have bald spots on my arms where I test them.. But because they are maintained like this, and I use them all the time, I know EXACTLY what they will do.

Wow, this post really hits me. I have a pair of throwers that are sharp and I do like to play with them, and have them used on my by some friends. The thing I'm worried about is that my Sir is not as familure with blades as I am. He's willing to indulge me, but I think he's a bit nervous about it, and that's never good when you're talking about sharp objects. I was really looking for some ideas on how to make him a bit less nervous, or perhaps more comfortable with the idea is a better way to fraze it. But your "try it yourself" tacktic has given me a few ideas. thanks :)
 
WyoD_S said:
I absolutely LOVE blade play.

Reading the thread, there are a few who are confusing blade play, with cutting. They are two entirely different acts. One can play with knives from here till doomsday and never cut, if that is the intention.

I have an extensive collection of blades, from a small 3" throwing knife set, to 3 foot long Japanese swords, and everything in between. All are kept razor sharp at all times.

My girl (wife) is very close to sub space when I get the blades out, she is in subspace the instant a blade touches her clit <weg>.

I am gathering information on cutting, it is something we both want to explore. I'll be attending Thunder in the Mountains again this year, hopefully there will be a cutting seminar. I was not at all interested in it until last year at Thunder, a friend of mine had a cutting done on her back and was proudly showing it off the next day. I had no idea a cutting could be so exquisite and beautiful.

*purr*

See I'm not into cutting, don't like the idea, but I love the feel of a blade running across my flesh. And I've come away with a few scratches before but nothing that ever lasted longer than a day. And I know my Sir doen't like the idea of lasting marks. That may be what is making him so nervous about the idea. A lot of people I talk to don't understand that you can do blade play with out cutting. at any rate, more talk is deffinitly in order.
 
Just wanted to post my thoughts on this...

People have mentioned different things in this thread. Needle play, blade play and cuttings. Just because you use a knife during play does not mean that you cut. If your going to use a knife, make sure it is either very sharp or very dull (no edge)! If you use a knife with a very dull blade, you cannot cut or is very hard to cut. If you use a very sharp knife and end up cutting, then the cut should be a "clean cut". A "clean cut" will not have jagged edges and will heal easier with less or no scarring. And if your going to use a knife for this type of play, it is a good idea to have a knife that is only used for this type of play. And if you still want to learn how to do this, FIND SOMEONE IN REAL LIFE WHO CAN SHOW YOU HOW!!!!!!

As for cuttings, you should not even attempt this without being shown how as the object is to draw blood!

Needles. You do not always draw blood when using needles. Once again, find someone who can show you how to do this all safely and properly!

If you want to try this yourself, you should get a big scary knife. A blind fold. And a letter opener. Let them see the knife and feel the flat of the blade against the skin. Blindfold them and then use the letter opener. I have also used a car key dragggd across the throat.
 
I got asked by someone to cut each other for a sex act, I said no but ever since I have been wondering if I would enjoy it.. It would probably just scare me though heh.
 
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