Blackmailed by son in law

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My daughter told me that she was gonna bring her boyfriend for me to meet him. I was very excited until I open the door and saw that her boufriend was the guy thay have been FWB with me 4 years ago.

When I got pregnat of my daugther my boyfriend left me. I had to rise my daugther by my self and I didnt care about relationships. 15 years fast forward my daugther told me that it was time for me to have a companion and she told me that it was easier now with dating apps. She helped me to set up an online dating profile and I met a guy. he was younger than me but I didnt care . I honestly was super horny and just by him touching me I could cum right there. I felt head over heels for him. We did everything and anything sexually. but we stayed as FWB. I didnt want any relationship because I didnt want to break my time and my relationship with my daugther.

3 years after he disapear and didnt had comunication with me and I never knew why. A year later he is walking with my daugther in hand and presenting him self as my daugther boyfriend.

My heart droped and I was speachless. my dauger says mom a hi to my boyfriend would be nice. I took my self out of the shock and say hi and I tried to act normal. he is 12 years older than my daugther.

he is 31 my daughter is 19 and I am 36. just so you guys can keep up with the age confusion. So I tried to act normal while I was cooking in the kitchen. I tried to stay busy while I thought about something. Then I told my daughter that I ran out of salt, that if she coild get me salt from the super market she would be an angel.

she agree and then to make her take longer I added more things to the shopping list. She got the list and my card to buy the things and as soon as she left and I closed the door I turned around and ask him to break up with my daugter before the day was over. To what he reply NO, he said that he was in love with her and now he sees why, he said that good genes ran in the family with a smile in his face.

I told him that I was serious and that I wasnt playing and he said that he wasnt playing either. Then he show me the phone and he had a lot of videos of us and pictures. he said that if I didnt do what he said he was gonna show it to her.

I offered him money but he said no, that what he wanted was both of us. he took his dick out and told me to get on my knews and start sucking. I said to him that I was willing to do it but in a hotel after he drop off my daugter but he said no. Now is more fun because your daugther may come back. and I said that was the point of meeting later.

he said you are loosing time, make me cum before she gets back. I got on my knews and started to suck him. He got very hard very fas t and for a moment I forgot about everything and I enjoy sucking his cock like before. just like the old times he said, you are better than your daugter he said. He took my phone and called my daugter and I stoped and asked, what are tou doing? he said calling your daughter. she answer and he put me on the phone.

did you find the ingridients ? I said. I havent finish the sentense and he put his cock back in my mouth. No mom she said I just got to the store. talk to her with my dick in your mouth he said just moving his lips without sound.

ohh ok, I said with his dick in my mouth. He signaled me to talk more, then I ask her to bring tomatos and letters for the salad that I have but if she bring I may not need to go later to the supermarkert.

then she ask, mom are you eating? I said yes then she said mom its rude to eat with your mouth full, specially in from of my boyfriend. he is gonna think we are trashy. I told her that was just strawbberries. then she said that it didnt matter, that it was rude. she hang up on me bevause she didnt want to hear me eating on the phone.

He put the phone down and he said to make him cum before she gets back. the more I suck him the more I loved it. I didnt want to stop but I had to hurry. I dont know if it was that I didnt had a cock in a long time or that he had the most amazing cock I have ever seen, but I love it. I sucked that cock like never before and then he came. I swallowed him to not leave evidence and 20 min later my daghter came in. We had dinner and I tried to stay as normal as posible until they left. After they left I break down and cry.
I am afraid that my daughter knows any of it and I’m afraid of breaking her heart. Any advice you guys tell me is very welcome.
 
He's an asshole, and you need to protect your daughter from him at all costs. Tell him to meet you somewhere private for another blowjob. When he does, start the blowjob, and when he's really into it, bite his dick off.
 
Nah, tell him to tell your daughter her Mom is hot and ask her if he can have both of you.
Your daughter will dump him or enjoy she can share him
 
My daughter told me that she was gonna bring her boyfriend for me to meet him. I was very excited until I open the door and saw that her boufriend was the guy thay have been FWB with me 4 years ago.

When I got pregnat of my daugther my boyfriend left me. I had to rise my daugther by my self and I didnt care about relationships. 15 years fast forward my daugther told me that it was time for me to have a companion and she told me that it was easier now with dating apps. She helped me to set up an online dating profile and I met a guy. he was younger than me but I didnt care . I honestly was super horny and just by him touching me I could cum right there. I felt head over heels for him. We did everything and anything sexually. but we stayed as FWB. I didnt want any relationship because I didnt want to break my time and my relationship with my daugther.

3 years after he disapear and didnt had comunication with me and I never knew why. A year later he is walking with my daugther in hand and presenting him self as my daugther boyfriend.

My heart droped and I was speachless. my dauger says mom a hi to my boyfriend would be nice. I took my self out of the shock and say hi and I tried to act normal. he is 12 years older than my daugther.

he is 31 my daughter is 19 and I am 36. just so you guys can keep up with the age confusion. So I tried to act normal while I was cooking in the kitchen. I tried to stay busy while I thought about something. Then I told my daughter that I ran out of salt, that if she coild get me salt from the super market she would be an angel.

she agree and then to make her take longer I added more things to the shopping list. She got the list and my card to buy the things and as soon as she left and I closed the door I turned around and ask him to break up with my daugter before the day was over. To what he reply NO, he said that he was in love with her and now he sees why, he said that good genes ran in the family with a smile in his face.

I told him that I was serious and that I wasnt playing and he said that he wasnt playing either. Then he show me the phone and he had a lot of videos of us and pictures. he said that if I didnt do what he said he was gonna show it to her.

I offered him money but he said no, that what he wanted was both of us. he took his dick out and told me to get on my knews and start sucking. I said to him that I was willing to do it but in a hotel after he drop off my daugter but he said no. Now is more fun because your daugther may come back. and I said that was the point of meeting later.

he said you are loosing time, make me cum before she gets back. I got on my knews and started to suck him. He got very hard very fas t and for a moment I forgot about everything and I enjoy sucking his cock like before. just like the old times he said, you are better than your daugter he said. He took my phone and called my daugter and I stoped and asked, what are tou doing? he said calling your daughter. she answer and he put me on the phone.

did you find the ingridients ? I said. I havent finish the sentense and he put his cock back in my mouth. No mom she said I just got to the store. talk to her with my dick in your mouth he said just moving his lips without sound.

ohh ok, I said with his dick in my mouth. He signaled me to talk more, then I ask her to bring tomatos and letters for the salad that I have but if she bring I may not need to go later to the supermarkert.

then she ask, mom are you eating? I said yes then she said mom its rude to eat with your mouth full, specially in from of my boyfriend. he is gonna think we are trashy. I told her that was just strawbberries. then she said that it didnt matter, that it was rude. she hang up on me bevause she didnt want to hear me eating on the phone.

He put the phone down and he said to make him cum before she gets back. the more I suck him the more I loved it. I didnt want to stop but I had to hurry. I dont know if it was that I didnt had a cock in a long time or that he had the most amazing cock I have ever seen, but I love it. I sucked that cock like never before and then he came. I swallowed him to not leave evidence and 20 min later my daghter came in. We had dinner and I tried to stay as normal as posible until they left. After they left I break down and cry.
I am afraid that my daughter knows any of it and I’m afraid of breaking her heart. Any advice you guys tell me is very welcome.
Damn.

Please call this what it is: that man is straight up abusing you.

What happened was not your fault.

You were blackmailed and manipulated. That is not consent, even if part of you felt aroused or familiar with him. It’s normal to have complex reactions under pressure. but he used fear and threats to control you. That is abuse. ❗️Understand: This man is a danger to both you and your daughter. 💔

and she needs to be warned.

Also give yourself some grace. You are not a bad mother. You didn’t “let this happen.” You trusted someone, years ago, and now come back, he’s back in a twisted way taking advantage.

That’s no man for your daughter. It doesn’t matter if temporarily you’re breaking her heart, when she’s older she’ll understand exactly why you’ve had to tell her and cut him off from you both. you are absolutely brave enough to stop this. You are wise enough to see what’s really going on. And you still have time to protect your daughter and heal yourself.

I would also look into some legal advice since revenge porn is fucking illegal and disgusting (sorry about my language but this man is disgusting.)
 
Geesch look at the title
Blackmailed by son in law.
It wasn't a son in law it was an ex boyfriend. Stalking them is entirely possible but just the title tells me this is her idea for a story or a fantasy. It's not real
 
Damn.

Please call this what it is: that man is straight up abusing you.

What happened was not your fault.

You were blackmailed and manipulated. That is not consent, even if part of you felt aroused or familiar with him. It’s normal to have complex reactions under pressure. but he used fear and threats to control you. That is abuse. ❗️Understand: This man is a danger to both you and your daughter. 💔

and she needs to be warned.

Also give yourself some grace. You are not a bad mother. You didn’t “let this happen.” You trusted someone, years ago, and now come back, he’s back in a twisted way taking advantage.

That’s no man for your daughter. It doesn’t matter if temporarily you’re breaking her heart, when she’s older she’ll understand exactly why you’ve had to tell her and cut him off from you both. you are absolutely brave enough to stop this. You are wise enough to see what’s really going on. And you still have time to protect your daughter and heal yourself.

I would also look into some legal advice since revenge porn is fucking illegal and disgusting (sorry about my language but this man is disgusting.)
Yes revenge porn is illegal. However I don't understand how you could send your daughter off to the store just to stay alone with him in your home. It sounds to me like you wanted him for yourself and now you feel guilty because your daughter will gate you if she finds out.
The proper thing to do was to tell your daughter as soon as she introduced him to you not send her off to do your grocery shopping so you can blow her boyfriend longer.
That was a violation of your daughters trust. He is not the only one lying to her. Unfortunately it is too late to take things back. It's only a matter of time until she finds out. Unless you can continue pretending it didn't happen in front of your daughter. Which in my unwanted opinion is more disgusting than his behavior. The man is a dog and its not up to him what you do with your body. This is 100% your fault for violating your daughters trust. You are her mom and loyalty is expected from you. He hasn't known her as long and she will be more hurt by your betrayal than by his.
She deserves better than either of you and if you have any decency you will tell her first not wait until it is discovered. If she no longer wants you in her life you need to accept that. What two adults do with each other is none of your business. Let your daughter be with who she wants and stay out of her love life. You are not the victim is this situation your daughter is. Women like you deserve no sympathy. You made the bed so you have to sleep in it.
 
Geesch look at the title
Blackmailed by son in law.
It wasn't a son in law it was an ex boyfriend. Stalking them is entirely possible but just the title tells me this is her idea for a story or a fantasy. It's not real
Yes for sure. It kind of sounds more like a male fantasy but could be a woman's. I don't understand the reason for wanting feedback however as she will do whatever she wants anyways despite any advice she receives here.
 
Damn.

Please call this what it is: that man is straight up abusing you.

What happened was not your fault.

You were blackmailed and manipulated. That is not consent, even if part of you felt aroused or familiar with him. It’s normal to have complex reactions under pressure. but he used fear and threats to control you. That is abuse. ❗️Understand: This man is a danger to both you and your daughter. 💔

and she needs to be warned.

Also give yourself some grace. You are not a bad mother. You didn’t “let this happen.” You trusted someone, years ago, and now come back, he’s back in a twisted way taking advantage.

That’s no man for your daughter. It doesn’t matter if temporarily you’re breaking her heart, when she’s older she’ll understand exactly why you’ve had to tell her and cut him off from you both. you are absolutely brave enough to stop this. You are wise enough to see what’s really going on. And you still have time to protect your daughter and heal yourself.

I would also look into some legal advice since revenge porn is fucking illegal and disgusting (sorry about my language but this man is disgusting.)
Revenge porn only counts if he displays it publicly which he has not. The daughter deserves to be warned against her mother as well as her boyfriend.
It's strange how you consider him disgusting and not her own mother. You grant her grace and suspend judgement. He deserves as much forgiveness as she does if that's what you really believe. If your daughter dates your ex would you send her away just to blow him within minutes of being introduced???
If she had the guts to be honest and accept accountability he would not have anything to blackmail her with in the first place.
Yes the man is a piece of shit but her behavior needs to change more than his.
A loving mom would have sent the man to buy groceries and told the daughter to break up with him. She sent the daughter away and told him to break up with her. She showed who her loyalty is to.
 
He's an asshole, and you need to protect your daughter from him at all costs. Tell him to meet you somewhere private for another blowjob. When he does, start the blowjob, and when he's really into it, bite his dick off.
Yeah then her daughter will hate her forever as she should good idea. Jk the best thing she should do is mind her business and let her daughter live her own life.
I think the man should expose the her for being a lousy mother. The hypocrisy is too much.
 
Revenge porn only counts if he displays it publicly which he has not. The daughter deserves to be warned against her mother as well as her boyfriend.
It's strange how you consider him disgusting and not her own mother. You grant her grace and suspend judgement. He deserves as much forgiveness as she does if that's what you really believe. If your daughter dates your ex would you send her away just to blow him within minutes of being introduced???
If she had the guts to be honest and accept accountability he would not have anything to blackmail her with in the first place.
Yes the man is a piece of shit but her behavior needs to change more than his.
A loving mom would have sent the man to buy groceries and told the daughter to break up with him. She sent the daughter away and told him to break up with her. She showed who her loyalty is to.
it’s not real. evidently. The woman has done things differently to others, and there is an element of a lack of care, absolutely. It’s not a real story and a fantasy I believe, but regardless I feel I have to mention these things:

A) “Revenge porn only counts if he displays it publicly.” That’s factually incorrect. In most jurisdictions, threatening to release sexual images or videos already constitutes a crime, even if he never actually shares them. It’s called coercion and is a threat of non-consensual distribution and it’s a prosecutable form of abuse. I have reported men in the past in my own life for threats of revenge porn. And they have been handled by police with grace and forthcoming. It IS an illegal act. So yes, he committed a crime, even if it hasn’t gone public. Regardless of this post being true or not revenge porn doesn’t only count if it’s been acted upon.
B) IF it were real, which it’s not, you said: “Her behavior needs to change more than his”
Let’s be crystal clear:
1) She was manipulated, not out of selfishness, but out of panic, fear, and a desperate attempt to protect her daughter. (Again this is only if it were REAL)
2) He leveraged a power imbalance, her past, and her maternal guilt to sexually coerce her.
3) Saying she needs to change “more” than the man who threatened her with blackmail and demanded oral sex in her own home while involving her daughter by proximity is morally warped.
C) “If she had the guts to be honest…”
Shame is one of the most powerful silencing forces in the world. She didn’t owe the truth immediately, she needed a minute to process a traumatic shock. People freeze, avoid, deny, this is human nature under emotional trauma. Expecting perfect clarity or instant bravery in that moment is unrealistic and unfair. (Again it’s not real so I’m not sure why you care so much about me offering support to a woman.)

This wasn’t a story about two people making bad decisions it was one about blackmail, manipulation and power abuse!

But this clearly isn’t true in any case anyway.
 
it’s not real. evidently. The woman has done things differently to others, and there is an element of a lack of care, absolutely. It’s not a real story and a fantasy I believe, but regardless I feel I have to mention these things:

A) “Revenge porn only counts if he displays it publicly.” That’s factually incorrect. In most jurisdictions, threatening to release sexual images or videos already constitutes a crime, even if he never actually shares them. It’s called coercion and is a threat of non-consensual distribution and it’s a prosecutable form of abuse. I have reported men in the past in my own life for threats of revenge porn. And they have been handled by police with grace and forthcoming. It IS an illegal act. So yes, he committed a crime, even if it hasn’t gone public. Regardless of this post being true or not revenge porn doesn’t only count if it’s been acted upon.
B) IF it were real, which it’s not, you said: “Her behavior needs to change more than his”
Let’s be crystal clear:
1) She was manipulated, not out of selfishness, but out of panic, fear, and a desperate attempt to protect her daughter. (Again this is only if it were REAL)
2) He leveraged a power imbalance, her past, and her maternal guilt to sexually coerce her.
3) Saying she needs to change “more” than the man who threatened her with blackmail and demanded oral sex in her own home while involving her daughter by proximity is morally warped.
C) “If she had the guts to be honest…”
Shame is one of the most powerful silencing forces in the world. She didn’t owe the truth immediately, she needed a minute to process a traumatic shock. People freeze, avoid, deny, this is human nature under emotional trauma. Expecting perfect clarity or instant bravery in that moment is unrealistic and unfair. (Again it’s not real so I’m not sure why you care so much about me offering support to a woman.)

This wasn’t a story about two people making bad decisions it was one about blackmail, manipulation and power abuse!

But this clearly isn’t true in any case anyway.
If she felt threatened the appropriate behavior is to call the police and report him. You're right about the threat being a crime.
To protect the daughter she should have sent the man to the store and told her the truth. So yes her secretive behavior needs to change. He has no real connection to the daughter thus less expectation of loyalty.
The mother is mentally warped if she didn't see the danger of placing herself in a vulnerable position regardless of whos home she was in. She was selfish by hiding the truth from her daughter in order to maintain her image. I care because its offensive that women act without accountability.
How can the man be held responsible for his actions and hers as well. If you were the daughter who's side would you take?
My ex mother in law kicked her daughter out the home after her daughter reported that her stepfather was molesting her from age 7-12 when she finally fought back. The mother accused her of provoking it and tempting her husband. She was sent away and not him.
I'm not justifying any of these men but pretending all women are innocent victims is not something I agree with. Especially since years later while I was when my my ex was arrested for drug possession her mother was allowed to be a monitor for visitations with my daughter despite having a DCFS case from her husband abusing her daughter. Her behavior and mentality are very questionable but are never questioned.
I had to speak up even if it's not real.
Part of me wants to agree with you simply because I find you gorgeous but I just can't.
 
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