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Stella_Omega
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Is there a gay bar that hosts a dyke night in your area? Women tend to go places that seem safe from assault.
blkjames
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Thanks,she's not the bar kinda if women,crowd makes nervous.I was going to take her to a strip club,where I was told that most of the dancers where nI or lesbian,she dident want go.she is shy and real pretty and very married and her husband does not know.
Curiosity52
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Bi-curious
I'm married and am bi-curious. I've wondered the same thing. My husband has no idea that I have these feelings. I'm afraid I won't ever get to experience this...so I'm just new to this site and getting information. I thought I might e able to at least talk to someone...but so far nothing. Good luck to your friend.
I'm married and am bi-curious. I've wondered the same thing. My husband has no idea that I have these feelings. I'm afraid I won't ever get to experience this...so I'm just new to this site and getting information. I thought I might e able to at least talk to someone...but so far nothing. Good luck to your friend.
SweetErika
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Thanks,she's not the bar kinda if women,crowd makes nervous.I was going to take her to a strip club,where I was told that most of the dancers where nI or lesbian,she dident want go.she is shy and real pretty and very married and her husband does not know.
I'd imagine if being with another woman was something she was set on doing in the near future, she'd get over her fear of places like bars or figure out how to meet women another way (e.g. online). Plus, she'd probably be asking for herself, not relying on you/anyone else to help her find a partner.
Anyway, she's likely to do best at a bar or online. Her situation presents quite a few challenges, so she should probably plan on targeting other bi women who don't have their partner's blessing. Unless we're talking about a one-nighter that begins in a bar or similar, lesbians frequently don't want to get involved with bi women -- particularly those are who very inexperienced, partnered with men and looking to cheat on said men. Of course some would be fine with that situation, but those women are quite rare, IME. Therefore, I'd tell her to concentrate on meeting bi women for discreet, NSA sex.
SweetErika
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You only started posting yesterday, so give it time!
That's what it takes--along with sharing--to make connections here and elsewhere. Establish yourself as the dynamic woman you are in some of the "bi women" and a variety of other threads. Post an ad in GLBT Personals seeking both "curious"/inexperienced and experienced bi women to talk with, and give the wonderful ladies here a chance to find and get to know you. Beyond that, there are all sorts of MeetUp and networking groups for bi women, and of course there are good places to post ads elsewhere. I haven't found Craigslist to attract the highest quality women (some are great, but many seem to be flaky and/or crazy), but the W4W section could certainly be a good place to connect with women who are in similar situations and such, and at least the Seattle W4W section has a good number of women in their mid-40s and beyond. OKCupid has a large number of quality bi women, in my experience. Out of curiosity, what do you believe your husband would say/do if you told him about your feelings?
