Bisexuals...what % are you gay/straight?

[Hitchiker69]

I'm a bisexual man, but I've been with a lot more women than men. All together about 25% of my lovers have been men. So I'm 25/75% gay/straight.

What are you numbers like?

 

[kalalau]

Hi. I took a quiz and the answer as to how gay/straight i am is 43% gay, which I think is just about right, though it does depend on the day! Today, I'm about 90% gay with thoughts of cock dancing in my head.

 

[captain_chris2]

Do you remember the URL of the quiz? Curious what it'd say about me.

I'd hazard a guess that I'm about 15% gay / 85% straight. But as kalalau said, it depends on the day!

 

[desertslave]

I'm a bi woman. By proportion of actual lovers, I'm about 70% straight.

By inclination and interest, more like 50/50.

 

[Etoile]

If we do it by count of actual lovers, then I'm 50/50. But how on earth does that describe who we are? I'm at least 90% lesbian, it just happens that I've dated a guy once.

 

[inwanting]

But how on earth does that describe who we are?

I was thinking that... Seems weird to say it in percentages. I am who I am. How can I put a number to it?

 

[ilike2try]

Over the better part of 38 years, I've been, umm, intimate with something on the order of 15 women. In a more concentrated period of five years, I've gotten naked with seven men.

When I'm out and about, it's generally women that turn my head and give me those lustful feelings. I don't feel all that attracted to men; only to cock.

And yet, my experiences with men make up almost 30 percent of my sexual total.

Hmmm.

 

[justdoingit]

i would say 30 gay /70 straight been with women mostly but have loved when i was with the 2 guys i have been with!

 

[bequ23]

Well, I am married to a wonderful man, and I have only been with one woman, but it was such an incredible experience that I want to do it again! If I had been with a woman earlier in my life, I may have chosen a completely different path. What does that say about me?? I have no idea.

 

[ples]

Don't think of it like that, It's not a guy tonight and a girl tomorrow - both make me feel good - guess more of a girl thing

I'm a bisexual man, but I've been with a lot more
women than men. All together about 25% of my lovers have been men. So I'm 25/75% gay/straight.

What are you numbers like?

 

[Xelebes]

I'm really passive with men, I tend to at least try with women.

So far my experience is 50/50.

Sensual attraction is 50/50.

Visual attraction is 80/20 for women.

Long-term priority (sans polyamory) is 90/10 for women.

 

[limplizzard]

I like both men and women, so I am 50/50.

 

[Bicuriousone]

Have never been able to completely discover my bisexual side so it would be hard for me to put a number on it

 

[Creutair]

I'd say 90% straight

It's a rare occasion, but sometimes I have a fairly strong lust for having sex with another man. The ideas of kissing, hugging, or rimming disturb me for some reason; just bend me over or let me suck them and I'm happy.

But I'm mostly happy with women.

 

[spankableBelle]

40% gay
60% straight

 

[BiGuy34]

When I'm out and about, it's generally women that turn my head and give me those lustful feelings. I don't feel all that attracted to men; only to cock

Exactly the same way with me. Can't really put a # on it though.

 

[AZLovelyLady]

History and personal experience would put me at 70% straight and 30% gay, but personal desire would flip that to 70% gay and 30% straight! Life is funny that way sometimes...

 

[SoaringAdonis]

98% straight, 2% gay.

 

[mmmscurious]

Not to make light of everyone else's replies, but my straightness vs. gayness seems to depend on the phase of the moon, the day of the week, the sex of my last lover, and how long it's been since I had sex with which gender. In other words, it's impossible for me to pin down to a fixed percentage.

 

[CmdrSymax]

Frankly, I'm with most of the other folks who've posted recently. Percents don't really paint the picture properly, especially when we all base it on different things (experience vs. desire vs. number of lovers vs. time spent in bed with.... etc, etc).

When I talk about my bi-sexuality, I talk about where I put myself on the Kinsey scale ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale ). While it varies over time, I seem to average about 2.5.

 

[the_mgp]

It's about 50/50. That being said, I don't think the proportions of women/men that I've slept with is a true indicator of how bi or straight I am.

 

[riverman765]

hey I love women but the best sex is with men. I guess I'm 90% gay!!

 

[coxlover]

Other than one very disappointing experience in my teens, I've never been with a man. And yet, my fantasies are probably 75% gay or with a shemale. But if those fanatsies ever came true, I wonder if they would still hold such fascination for me?

 

[Ardeche]

Maybe 70/30 or 60/40?

I'm a bisexual man, but I've been with a lot more women than men. All together about 25% of my lovers have been men. So I'm 25/75% gay/straight.
What are you numbers like?

Hmmm I'm not sure.

Considering I've never had a serious emotional/mental/phsyical relationship with women and have had three with men, I consider myself more straight than gay. I've had two relationships with women but they were both purely physical. I love women. I'm very attracted to them and in the right circumstances would never turn the opportunity to be with one down.

I'd have to say it's either 70/30 or 60/40.

 

[infinity706]

I'm not even sure how you would calculate such a thing.