Bisexual surprises

[Traveler99921]

I am and older guy, and relatively late in life I developed a sexual attraction to men. Eventually I acted on it. From the first time I knew I was truly bi. Along my sexual journey I encountered some surprises I would be interested in knowing how your experiences were similar or different than mine.

The first surprise was that my wife accepted and some times encouraged me having sex with men. She said I was a better lover and husband once I accepted my bisexuality. This was the best surprise.

Except for their packages men's bodies did not interest me.

I really enjoyed having a man suck my cock, but sucking his cock was much more enjoyable.

Sixty-nine with a man was not very exciting

Actually sleeping with a man did not do much for me. I did, however, enjoy waking him up by putting his cock in my mouth.

Reclaiming sex with my wife was usually great.

The intensity of sex with a man was often very great, but it never led to any romantic feelings

My heterosexual desires and my homosexual desires seem to be separate entities, and satisfying one did not satisfy the other.

That is enough for now. I would be interested in your experiences.

 

[pokeyride]

Well, I have never acted on my bi-curious interest in the flesh. But I have spoken to guys online and in emails about what I want to do to them and what I am willing to let them do to me. It seems that I only watch sissy porn now and I absolutely love some of these "gurls" in the videos. Chanel Santini and Daisy Taylor and Ella Hollywood are my favorites. One day, I plan to act on my fantasies. And I think that day is coming soon......

Going back to my youth, early 20's and later, I never ever thought I would be in the situation I am in now (watching sissy vids). But if I had known about it then, I could have easily dressed and been passable. Not that I want to be passable now, but I do like to dress and play with toys.

 

[bimori]

Well, I have never acted on my bi-curious interest in the flesh. But I have spoken to guys online and in emails about what I want to do to them and what I am willing to let them do to me. It seems that I only watch sissy porn now and I absolutely love some of these "gurls" in the videos. Chanel Santini and Daisy Taylor and Ella Hollywood are my favorites. One day, I plan to act on my fantasies. And I think that day is coming soon......

Going back to my youth, early 20's and later, I never ever thought I would be in the situation I am in now (watching sissy vids). But if I had known about it then, I could have easily dressed and been passable. Not that I want to be passable now, but I do like to dress and play with toys.

It’s not always about being passable. It’s about how it makes you feel when your dressing and how you want that to play out with someone else. It’s always fun to find a sexy cock wrapped in panties no matter what is over the top of them.

 

[Marty Fisher]

Well, I have never acted on my bi-curious interest in the flesh. But I have spoken to guys online and in emails about what I want to do to them and what I am willing to let them do to me. It seems that I only watch sissy porn now and I absolutely love some of these "gurls" in the videos. Chanel Santini and Daisy Taylor and Ella Hollywood are my favorites. One day, I plan to act on my fantasies. And I think that day is coming soon......

Going back to my youth, early 20's and later, I never ever thought I would be in the situation I am in now (watching sissy vids). But if I had known about it then, I could have easily dressed and been passable. Not that I want to be passable now, but I do like to dress and play with toys.

I got a taste of cock very early on and was hooked on it instantly! I acted on it multiple times and then surprised my actions but not my desire because of societal and family "norms" - silly me! Even though I've always been a leader (family, work, neighborhood), I have always had a submissive side and a feminine side, and as I've gotten older, I've accepted and even LOVE those sides of me. Much like the originator of this thread, the cock was the only interest I had but I've since expanded that to much more. If a man wants to stuff his cock in me, he can also slide his tongue between my lips and suck my nipples or vice versa. I love to dress, love shemales, would love to be a cuckold to my wife and would LOVE for her to embrace and engage in my bisexuality. Unfortunately that's not going to happen but I applaud women (and men) who do!!

 

[sweettalk4u]

So much in common here except that a few years ago I got into the mental aspect of my kink and began to explore and discover how that makes me and my partner feel. It's all under the BDSM umbrella and it's like foreplay 24/7.

 

[spraybomb13]

After my separation and divorce, I began to finally explore my Bi side. For a few years I had some of the most amazing experiences and truly loved them. I am a total bottom, love serving men, wearing sexy lingerie and being submissive. I think of those times regularly.
I am remarried now, and do not play like I used to. My current wife knows of my past, but unfortunately, she doesn't get into those kinds of things. I still have the thoughts and desires, but they will have to stay as such.
If you are on the fence about exploring your bi or gay side, do it!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yes you can keep it as a secret fantasy or act on it but it’s not going away

 

[Hitchiker69]

My first few times with men I felt used or preyed upon. But getting me drunk and/or seducing me led to breakthroughs...first time receiving anal, first time kissing a man...and some of the best sex of my life.
As I got more gay experience I learned to enjoy it and eventually seek it out by going to gay hang outs, or gay bars. I've been lucky to live in very gay areas, where it's assumed every guy was at least available under the right circumstance, and bi.
At first I was naive, and surprised to learn some guys like rimming and anal sex. Using the ass for sex came as a surprise to me. But one guy in particular was so good at rimming me it changed my persuasion in one night. I still won't rim a guy, but anal sex is OK any other way we want it.
As I relaxed and learned to enjoy men, I learned I enjoy the male body, too. Hairy chests are a turn on for me, as well as tight asses, muscles, etc. So deliciously different from a female body!
I'm versatile, and love kissing the right guy, and especially getting fucked missionary, so we can kiss as we fuck.
I also love to top smaller guys missionary. Their small tight asses are divine!
I guess sucking him is my favorite overall, but I can get lost in 69'ing too. I could do it for hours.
It's been too many years since I've been with a man, but my desire and attractions are still strong. I'd love to seduce younger men, especially gay virgins

 

[Traveler99921]

More surprises

Here are a few more things that surprised me as I became bisexual.

My wife told me she preferred me to have sex with married guys. I thought that might limit my opportunities. It did not. There are many married men looking for sex with other men. Most of them seem to be getting little or no oral sex from their wives.

I AM mostly oral when it comes to sex with men. I have never asked a man to fuck me, however a few men asked if they could fuck me. These men were never well endowed, nor were they especially masculine.

 

[faraday69]

one of my secret fantasies is for a woman to tie up and blindfold her man. Then I enter and suck his cock as she watches.. maybe leading to more

 

[Traveler99921]

Sounds good

one of my secret fantasies is for a woman to tie up and blindfold her man. Then I enter and suck his cock as she watches.. maybe leading to more

I would have loved to have done that, but I think I would have preferred her watching as I sucked his cock.

 

[haventdonethat]

Well, I am an older male also. It has been waaaaay too long. I try not to dwell on it but guess I am living in the past a bit.

My first and biggest surprise was that my wife encouraged us. She participated to a degree, hands roaming our bodies and speaking words of encouragement. No cuck talk, we were all equal. And kissing us and licking our limp cocks afterwards.

The first mouthful of hard cock. So hard yet so soft and pliant in my mouth. I had to look twice to make sure he was still hard. He was.

The familiar taste of his cum. It was different than mine but also very similar. Warm and slippery.

WE enjoyed semi 69 the most. Lying on our sides, leaning in a bit, could easily suck each other simultaneously and still raise our heads to talk. Also gave wife a good view.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Your wife

is wonderful. You're a very lucky man, but I guess you know that.

 

[muycurioso]

the secret blowjob

I would have loved to have done that, but I think I would have preferred her watching as I sucked his cock.

it is a hot fantasy

 

[Sunnyade]

After my first Gay experience. I was surprised how different his cum tasted from mine. I now know that was probably diet related. Also surprised that none of my friends looked at me next day and somehow knew I had been with a man. My fears were unfounded.

 

[tallladiesman]

I had a surprise on one of the other threads today

 

[Escierto]

Well, I have never acted on my bi-curious interest in the flesh. But I have spoken to guys online and in emails about what I want to do to them and what I am willing to let them do to me. It seems that I only watch sissy porn now and I absolutely love some of these "gurls" in the videos. Chanel Santini and Daisy Taylor and Ella Hollywood are my favorites. One day, I plan to act on my fantasies. And I think that day is coming soon......

Going back to my youth, early 20's and later, I never ever thought I would be in the situation I am in now (watching sissy vids). But if I had known about it then, I could have easily dressed and been passable. Not that I want to be passable now, but I do like to dress and play with toys.

The three women that you named are all transgender women who make porn. Why are they considered sissy or gurls? Do you consider yourself a transgender woman?

 

[pokeyride]

I do not consider myself to be that. I think those women are beautiful from head to toe. If I could look as beautiful as they do, then I would live my life as a woman. The truth is, I can not pass as a woman and I don't really want to become a woman. I just love to dress a little and have fantasies of sucking cock. I have been talking (emailing) a guy or 2 about doing just that. I am just very nervous about being outed.

 

[gametime07]

I recently had my first male/male experience. Being married since I was 25, things were getting stale. After many years of wondering about what it would be like to suck a cock, I finally took the plunge. I use a particular website, but was always afraid of meeting with someone. Was horrified I would show up and know the person. So, I started chatting with a 30 year old (I’m 50) that lives about 45 minutes away from me. He turned out to be my first.
After walking into his house, we said a few words and he said let’s go upstairs. He stripped down and started playing with himself. I was frozen, but then told myself I drove this far to suck a cock, so do it! I crawled on his bed, gripped his cock, then swallowed it whole. He had a nice 7 inch slender cock.
We alternated sucking each other, did a sideways 69 for a while, and rubbed our cocks together. He ended up finishing himself while I shot on his cock. We cleaned up, quickly dressed, shook his hand and left.
On the ride home, I had no remorse, and was excited that I did it. I even masturbated that night to the thoughts of the interaction.
I have chatted with him several times about our experience, and he wants to meet again. He has a regular friend who wants to join also. So, could have my first threeway very soon.

 

[Pines]

I recently had my first male/male experience. Being married since I was 25, things were getting stale. After many years of wondering about what it would be like to suck a cock, I finally took the plunge. I use a particular website, but was always afraid of meeting with someone. Was horrified I would show up and know the person. So, I started chatting with a 30 year old (I’m 50) that lives about 45 minutes away from me. He turned out to be my first.
After walking into his house, we said a few words and he said let’s go upstairs. He stripped down and started playing with himself. I was frozen, but then told myself I drove this far to suck a cock, so do it! I crawled on his bed, gripped his cock, then swallowed it whole. He had a nice 7 inch slender cock.
We alternated sucking each other, did a sideways 69 for a while, and rubbed our cocks together. He ended up finishing himself while I shot on his cock. We cleaned up, quickly dressed, shook his hand and left.
On the ride home, I had no remorse, and was excited that I did it. I even masturbated that night to the thoughts of the interaction.
I have chatted with him several times about our experience, and he wants to meet again. He has a regular friend who wants to join also. So, could have my first threeway very soon.

Very hot recollection. Thanks for sharing your adventure.

 

[DayOldDoughnuts]

I just got out of a sexless marriage and am thinking about trying my first bi experience. Sorta told myself I should get back in the saddle with a woman first and then try and date some guys, but with the pandemic ongoing maybe I should just find a couple to pod with and knock out all of my fantasies at once. Not into cuckolding, and I've only ever been monogamous, but maybe a being the third in a triad is safest way to open up in a pandemic.