Bisex

[Shy Tall Guy]

Good point. You hire a hetro movie the chances are it has girl/girl action in it, BIG chance it will not have guy/guy action in it. Goes to show who the biggest target viewer is maybe?

Yes; the target audience is largely male, and either due to phobia or just not finding it desireable, men do not want to guy/guy sex in their porn, while girl/girl sex is a fantasy of most guys. Simple economics and men win again.

 

[snowbond]

So how many women have tried to introduce the idea to their mates, with toys or videos because they really want to see them with a guy? And for the guys how many times have you kinda let someone know you are bi and how did they react?

 

[zantac666]

snowbond

The only time i say i'm bi is on lit and they all respond in kind want to know what it's like it just show's lit has a lot of open minded pepole.

 

[ZoeKat]

hmmm

ok so i'll preface this by admitting i'm a nut

gay action involving obviuosly gay men, turns me off..i have too many gay male freinds who annoy me no i'm not homophobic..
just totally over the "in your face" stuff..it's old and pathetic.
BUT,
an ex bf of mine liked me to use my strap on, on him whislt swearing to be completely straight he really disliked gay men eyeing him off.
(prolly cos of the personality of the gay community around here..screaming queens..very annoying)

and he, the ex, had a freind, jon, who i *think* was bi, who was very male..but also i could see how other men/my ex, coulda been attracted to him..very sensual, intelligent intense person..think henry rollins, give him more of a sense of humour, then make him look like a youngish kenneth branaugh(sp?) with long hair and you've got jon

the thought of them together gets me very excited i don't know why..maybe because i thought jon was worth sharing my prize with? maybe because i like jon and would like to touch them both while they are touching each other? maybe cos i'm sure jon could have given him alot of pleasure in a different manner to me? therefore i wouldn't be jealous?

so i guess my answer is..yes its sexy if the guys are bi, and there's a woman in there somewhere

 

[Guest]

very first post - I hope the hazing isn't too bad

I have always considered myself to be a straight male. Very straight. I have never had an experience with a man under any circumstances and in the past would never have even entertained the idea. But over the past year or so, my desire to please women within what I consider to be very broad boundaries and some discussion with woman friends has made me realize that sex with a man and a woman together - or even if she just wanted to watch - is not out of the realm of what I would gladly do to please a woman who would be as open with me as am willing to be with her. Knowing she gets off on it would make it fine for me.

Now, that said - I still have no interest in gay or bi sex in a strictly male environment. I don't consider myself BI, but were i to actually have such an experience, I am sure that other people's perception of me would change if they knew... maybe not people here, you tend to me a different sort , with no offense intended (atually, quite the contrary).

I laughed when I read the post referring to "men in denial" as part of the group of those of her favorite kinds. Even though I don't think I am in denial, it's that yearning to be in that group that make me so sure everything would be fine. Does this make any sense to anyone or do I need more analysis than I realize?

 

[monster666]

last post (unregistered)

the last post (unregistered) was mine. sorry.. i had some cookie switch off. who knew tossing cookies could do that.

 

[ZoeKat]

you sound fine to me but i'm nuts..

You sound fine to me just curious, the ex i mentioned LOVED my strap on and it gave him different kinds of orgasms he said..
I loved it too, it made me feel very close to him to fuck him in that way
i should imagine a real man being involved would,
add in the whole novelty experiment vibe, but i agree with you on the discretion thing, sadly in my observation, alot of "broadminded" people can't keep secrets, so do be carefull

I'd call you bi-curious if i HAD to label you.

 

[monster666]

actually, more curious about my limits than about same sex sex...

It's really more about having limits pushed and doing things to please my female partner. I get off in a major way when I can please by being pushed - even while engaged in activity I would never do for myself. It's not an orientation thing as much as the rush I get from a push of any type. I guess it's a submission kind of thing more than anything, though I am far from a lifestyle-type sub. I think. I can be very controlling at times too, I am told.

 

[ZoeKat]

you sound like LOTS of fun hope you find a worthy female partner, there's plenty of women in here who'd LURRRVE you
you really should check out the personals if you havn't already.

Hmm so what other kinds of things could you be 'pushed" into doing for your mistress, that you wouldn't consider on your own?

I'm very curious and i'll bet i'm not alone..fess up awww go on, you Know you want to*giggle*

 

[monster666]

The neat thing about women is that they can come up with things I wouldnt even think of. I don't even know what other things until they are on the table. If you want to know something specific, ask! It's proabably cool, as long as i am gonna look the same at work the next day. I like hearing different ideas.

 

[talk2024]

I actually bought several videos of just men together because I was curious to see how they were together. Not so much WHAT they did to each other, but rather HOW they did it...whether they responded to each other the way a man and woman respond to each other (I hope that makes sense).

And,what did you think? From the male/male videos I've seen, all of it is very wham/bam-thank you man... not much to hold one's attention. Women suck cock much sensuously and erotically than men... unless you happened upon some good videos?

 

[ZoeKat]

And,what did you think? From the male/male videos I've seen, all of it is very wham/bam-thank you man... not much to hold one's attention. Women suck cock much sensuously and erotically than men... unless you happened upon some good videos?

Butting in.. yeah talk2024 i had noticed that too, i've watched a fair bit from the aforementioned gay freind's collection..i find it funny and he puts them on at dinner parties..ROFLAO!!

and i had noticed that the guys tend to be very"machine gun fellatio" (also the name of a great aussie band btw)

i.e..fast, lots of head bobbing, not much deepthroat or caressing of the balls/cock/anal region..and i gotta say the way gay men fist in porn is downright scary!!! it's very hardcore physical, or looks like it to me

but when i perform fellatio on the bf there's lots of carressing, sucking, stroking, kissing, licking, watching him watching me..ect..it's like pashing his genitals i love it, my way of expressing how much his particular brand of gentle"maleness"
brings out tender eroticism in me

and from talking to other girls who Like to do it,
and watching video's..i think the difference is..
women suck cock like we're kissing a man's soul..with the right guy
..and that's what guy's like most..so that's what porn actresses try to imitate..

whereas gay men tend to like the whole "random encounter" scenario more..so it's all about haste, and getting off in a big, intense rush.
just my opinion

monster666 - hmmm, well you are interesting
can't think of anything specific right now, don't know you well enough and i'm pretty tame but i really like dress up's*giggle*
I'd prolly wanna dress you up.

 

[snowbond]

I agree, I have no doubt about that, in some of the newer bi-videos I have seen there has been a little more sensuality displayed by the guys. I personally like sensuality a lot in blow jobs.

 

[monster666]

Zoe: gawd.. dress up, eh? Never done that. I'd look so awful. Definitely not my thing, but I'd do it for my partner if she wanted and it would be cool. Thats a push.

 

[ntp]

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[MidnightAngel]

*sigh* Ok, I'm different.

I admit it, I'm different. The thought/idea/image of 2 men together does absolutely nothing for me. No, I'm not homophobic. Nor do I have anything against gay/lesbian/bi people. Actually, I think that 2 women together looks kind of hot (never tried it). I don't know what the "difference" is, or why the 2 men thing turns me off. Perhaps just simple personal preference?