Big Heart for Babygirl -- Offline, California and beyond

[nathan122]

Are you a very bright, attractive, alive young woman, with perhaps slightly kinky interests in an older man, and a daddy/daughter-style love relationship? If you only respond to one ad in your life, you should make this the one.

Exceptional 43-year old man, very loving, non-abusive, self-aware, big-hearted, kind, creative, and with a ton to offer to the right girl... seeks a very special someone. I'm smart and confident, grounded, solid and engaging, not egotistical.

Really, until recently, I never believed that this relationship was possible. A dream? Yes. But a reality? I didn't think so. And then, by some minor miracle, I met an amazing young woman online. It was not meant to be for us, ultimately, to bring that relationship to real life... complications in her life made that not make sense. But I learned something invaluable from the experience... many things, actually.

I learned that it was better than I had imagined! I learned that to be able to love someone on so many different levels, is a perfect match for the gifts I bring to the party. I learned that to love someone in a fatherly way, while also in a mentor-like way, as well as in a romantic way, and as true friends... is a truly amazing, and possible, kind of relationship to have. I want nothing less.

Is it a little kinky? Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with that. Am I talking about a relationship of domination and submission, or d/s (BDSM)? It is certainly an option for us to do that, in our own way, but it is not a requirement. Something for us to discover, discuss and explore together, to see how we want to build our relationship.

I'm a single, professional, very fun, uniquely wonderful, loving and easygoing guy, with a ton of love, wisdom, kindness and encouragement to offer to a most deserving young woman. I have silver hair, blue eyes, stand 5'7", and am fit and athletic. I'm active, enjoy the outdoors, exercising, travel, arts / performing arts / music, good food of many cultures, politics, sports, doing good in the world, and much much more.

You'll be surprised by just how wonderful this can be, surpassing your fantasies. I am especially interested in meeting a fabulous young woman, 21-30, but am open to adult women of all ages. Please be a non-smoker, and not an active addict; be healthy, disease-free, relatively fit, and ready for an amazing loving relationship.

If you've found yourself drawn to older men for their maturity, charm, devotion, and many other outstanding qualities, this one will be quite a find for you!

We're not all just dirty old men... some of us are the most tender, loving, fun, and interesting people you'd ever want to meet (in addition to being dirty old men)!

I know that responding to a post like this takes courage. We don't need to rush things, but you do need to write me if we are to explore what might be possible between us. I promise you will not regret it.

Note: What do I mean by California and beyond? I'm located in California, and would certainly prefer to meet someone nearby. I also realize, however, that to meet someone for the truly exceptional kind of relationship I seek, it may come from further away, and that's OK too. Wherever you are, if what I have written speaks to you, please drop me a line.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Are you a very bright, attractive, alive young woman, with perhaps slightly kinky interests in an older man, and a daddy/daughter-style love relationship? If you only respond to one ad in your life, you should make this the one.

Exceptional 43-year old man, very loving, non-abusive, self-aware, big-hearted, kind, creative, and with a ton to offer to the right girl... seeks a very special someone. I'm smart and confident, grounded, solid and engaging, not egotistical.

Really, until recently, I never believed that this relationship was possible. A dream? Yes. But a reality? I didn't think so. And then, by some minor miracle, I met an amazing young woman online. It was not meant to be for us, ultimately, to bring that relationship to real life... complications in her life made that not make sense. But I learned something invaluable from the experience... many things, actually.

I learned that it was better than I had imagined! I learned that to be able to love someone on so many different levels, is a perfect match for the gifts I bring to the party. I learned that to love someone in a fatherly way, while also in a mentor-like way, as well as in a romantic way, and as true friends... is a truly amazing, and possible, kind of relationship to have. I want nothing less.

Is it a little kinky? Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with that. Am I talking about a relationship of domination and submission, or d/s (BDSM)? It is certainly an option for us to do that, in our own way, but it is not a requirement. Something for us to discover, discuss and explore together, to see how we want to build our relationship.

I'm a single, professional, very fun, uniquely wonderful, loving and easygoing guy, with a ton of love, wisdom, kindness and encouragement to offer to a most deserving young woman. I have silver hair, blue eyes, stand 5'7", and am fit and athletic. I'm active, enjoy the outdoors, exercising, travel, arts / performing arts / music, good food of many cultures, politics, sports, doing good in the world, and much much more.

You'll be surprised by just how wonderful this can be, surpassing your fantasies. I am especially interested in meeting a fabulous young woman, 21-30, but am open to adult women of all ages. Please be a non-smoker, and not an active addict; be healthy, disease-free, relatively fit, and ready for an amazing loving relationship.

If you've found yourself drawn to older men for their maturity, charm, devotion, and many other outstanding qualities, this one will be quite a find for you!

We're not all just dirty old men... some of us are the most tender, loving, fun, and interesting people you'd ever want to meet (in addition to being dirty old men)!

I know that responding to a post like this takes courage. We don't need to rush things, but you do need to write me if we are to explore what might be possible between us. I promise you will not regret it.

Note: What do I mean by California and beyond? I'm located in California, and would certainly prefer to meet someone nearby. I also realize, however, that to meet someone for the truly exceptional kind of relationship I seek, it may come from further away, and that's OK too. Wherever you are, if what I have written speaks to you, please drop me a line.

It's nice to see such a sincere post... And not just someone blathering about how they need to "cum tonight!"... Not to say that those posts don't have their place here too, however.
Just wishing you luck, I hope you find the special lady you are looking for.

 

[nathan122]

Thanks

It's nice to see such a sincere post... And not just someone blathering about how they need to "cum tonight!"... Not to say that those posts don't have their place here too, however.
Just wishing you luck, I hope you find the special lady you are looking for.

Thanks, TCBC! Much appreciated. What are you looking for? Maybe I can be your virtual wingman

nathan

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Thanks, TCBC! Much appreciated. What are you looking for? Maybe I can be your virtual wingman

nathan

lol, thanks for the offer, but to be honest, I'm not really on the lookout for anything special. I'm in a steady(ish ) relationship, and I have friends to talk to... Although, one can never have too many of those! I mostly just hang around here for the entertainment, and sometimes I meet some interesting people that are fun to get to know and make friends with.

 

[baby_blue0230]

good luck

Just wanted to wish you luck with your search. I personally enjoy the company of an older man (for the maturity aspect, and the level of respect that they show), however the daddy/daughter relationship isn't really something I think about. Anywhoo, I'm sure you'll find someone who is interested.

 

[nathan122]

Talk about love

Just wanted to wish you luck with your search. I personally enjoy the company of an older man (for the maturity aspect, and the level of respect that they show), however the daddy/daughter relationship isn't really something I think about. Anywhoo, I'm sure you'll find someone who is interested.

Hi Baby blue,

Thanks for your good wishes. Words, as well as we might use them, sometimes fail to truly convey the emotional connections and experiences we have. For me, what I'm looking for has more to do with the qualities of the love exchanged, than with any particular roles. Role playing can be fun, and can be an interesting avenue to explore and expand trust and experiences, but at the end of the day what makes a relationship work is how the people really feel about one another, not about what roles we may choose to take on at times, or what we call things.

All the best,

nathan

 

[nathan122]

Daddy is here

bump

There's got to be a babygirl who just wants to be loved in an extra special way...

Daddy is here, and still looking.

nathan

 

[nathan122]

Sincere babygirls

There must be more sincere babygirl's looking for a sweet and loving daddy on here, no? Maybe I should just go bump myself

nathan

 

[nathan122]

not to be missed

Pardon the bump...

but there must be more real young women looking for a extra special relationship... something more than simple online titillations.

Write me. Explore and come to understand a very special love... not pretend, but the true, deep love of an older, mature, strong, reliable, fun and caring man.

I don't know how to say it any better.

nathan

 

[koneko-nea]

Are you a very bright, attractive, alive young woman, with perhaps slightly kinky interests in an older man, and a daddy/daughter-style love relationship? If you only respond to one ad in your life, you should make this the one.

Exceptional 43-year old man, very loving, non-abusive, self-aware, big-hearted, kind, creative, and with a ton to offer to the right girl... seeks a very special someone. I'm smart and confident, grounded, solid and engaging, not egotistical.

Really, until recently, I never believed that this relationship was possible. A dream? Yes. But a reality? I didn't think so. And then, by some minor miracle, I met an amazing young woman online. It was not meant to be for us, ultimately, to bring that relationship to real life... complications in her life made that not make sense. But I learned something invaluable from the experience... many things, actually.

I learned that it was better than I had imagined! I learned that to be able to love someone on so many different levels, is a perfect match for the gifts I bring to the party. I learned that to love someone in a fatherly way, while also in a mentor-like way, as well as in a romantic way, and as true friends... is a truly amazing, and possible, kind of relationship to have. I want nothing less.

Is it a little kinky? Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with that. Am I talking about a relationship of domination and submission, or d/s (BDSM)? It is certainly an option for us to do that, in our own way, but it is not a requirement. Something for us to discover, discuss and explore together, to see how we want to build our relationship.

I'm a single, professional, very fun, uniquely wonderful, loving and easygoing guy, with a ton of love, wisdom, kindness and encouragement to offer to a most deserving young woman. I have silver hair, blue eyes, stand 5'7", and am fit and athletic. I'm active, enjoy the outdoors, exercising, travel, arts / performing arts / music, good food of many cultures, politics, sports, doing good in the world, and much much more.

You'll be surprised by just how wonderful this can be, surpassing your fantasies. I am especially interested in meeting a fabulous young woman, 21-30, but am open to adult women of all ages. Please be a non-smoker, and not an active addict; be healthy, disease-free, relatively fit, and ready for an amazing loving relationship.

If you've found yourself drawn to older men for their maturity, charm, devotion, and many other outstanding qualities, this one will be quite a find for you!

We're not all just dirty old men... some of us are the most tender, loving, fun, and interesting people you'd ever want to meet (in addition to being dirty old men)!

I know that responding to a post like this takes courage. We don't need to rush things, but you do need to write me if we are to explore what might be possible between us. I promise you will not regret it.

Note: What do I mean by California and beyond? I'm located in California, and would certainly prefer to meet someone nearby. I also realize, however, that to meet someone for the truly exceptional kind of relationship I seek, it may come from further away, and that's OK too. Wherever you are, if what I have written speaks to you, please drop me a line.

Wow, nice post. You seem like a very cool guy. A girl would be lucky to have you as her 'daddy'. Good luck finding her, hun!

 

[nathan122]

Wow, nice post. You seem like a very cool guy. A girl would be lucky to have you as her 'daddy'. Good luck finding her, hun!

Why, thanks very much, koneko-nea!

Good people are good to find.

nathan

 

[koneko-nea]

Why, thanks very much, koneko-nea!

Good people are good to find.

nathan

You're welcome much, hun!

It's so very true though, good people are hard to find. Unfortunately most good people get overlooked...

 

[nathan122]

thanks

Ah, yes, it's true... I know too many good people who, at times, feel overlooked.

The whole love/chemistry/relationship thing works in mysterious ways. It's easy to feel overlooked when you're single, and looking for someone to love, and to be loved by.

Personally, I think it is always more difficult in the first person, than in the third person -- pardon the literary reference. What I'm saying is that looking at relationships from the outside, we truly see very little, and can imagine that perhaps things are easy for them. When we dive into real connections and intimacy, the waters are often a bit more murky, and many get scared away. My experience of Lit. so far is that most here are looking for some light diversion. On rare occasions, however, one can find exceptional people... full of passion, open minds and open hearts, ready to explore romance and intimacy on levels that most shy away from.

I hope you have that kind of love in your life or, if you don't, that you soon find what you seek.

Cheers,

nathan

 

[naughtyinNC]

i'd love to exchange emails with you, though our locations wouldn't allow for much more than that

 

[koneko-nea]

Ah, yes, it's true... I know too many good people who, at times, feel overlooked.

The whole love/chemistry/relationship thing works in mysterious ways. It's easy to feel overlooked when you're single, and looking for someone to love, and to be loved by.

Personally, I think it is always more difficult in the first person, than in the third person -- pardon the literary reference. What I'm saying is that looking at relationships from the outside, we truly see very little, and can imagine that perhaps things are easy for them. When we dive into real connections and intimacy, the waters are often a bit more murky, and many get scared away. My experience of Lit. so far is that most here are looking for some light diversion. On rare occasions, however, one can find exceptional people... full of passion, open minds and open hearts, ready to explore romance and intimacy on levels that most shy away from.

I hope you have that kind of love in your life or, if you don't, that you soon find what you seek.

Cheers,

nathan

Too feel overlooked and to be overlooked are two different things. I have been in the overlooked category. Never ever being in any real relationship, ever in my life, kinda makes me feel overlooked but actually means in a way that I am being overlooked. But after a while you get used to all that, and choose to find other ways of getting the attention you crave. I've learned it's loads easier to help my friends find something stable for themselves. I've pretty much given up on myself in that aspect. I've got other ways to get by...

Enough about me, on to your other statement. Since I'm always the person on the outside looking in, I think I do know a bit more about relationships than I should, not having experienced them myself at all. When you're on the outside you can, in a way, see things from both sides. I can watch the reactions of both the male and female, see the good and bad that each are doing, and figure out the why's and how's of everything going on in their relationship. And no relationship seems easy, not to me anyway. Most of the time the ones that seem like they have the best, actually are the worst. Too many people don't communicate correctly. Scared to speak their minds. Voice their wants. Fulfill their needs. It's the main reason I think some people visit to sites like this. A place to get what we crave without having to 'rock the boat' in our offline lives.

Anyway, I do hope you get a chance to find what you want and need. It's good that you are so open, hopefully another like yourself will find her way here and to you. Oh, and I hope she's really close to you so you don't have to leap across the globe to get to her.

Have a wonderful weekend hun!

Nea

 

[nathan122]

Too feel overlooked and to be overlooked are two different things. I have been in the overlooked category. Never ever being in any real relationship, ever in my life, kinda makes me feel overlooked but actually means in a way that I am being overlooked. But after a while you get used to all that, and choose to find other ways of getting the attention you crave. I've learned it's loads easier to help my friends find something stable for themselves. I've pretty much given up on myself in that aspect. I've got other ways to get by...

Enough about me, on to your other statement. Since I'm always the person on the outside looking in, I think I do know a bit more about relationships than I should, not having experienced them myself at all. When you're on the outside you can, in a way, see things from both sides. I can watch the reactions of both the male and female, see the good and bad that each are doing, and figure out the why's and how's of everything going on in their relationship. And no relationship seems easy, not to me anyway. Most of the time the ones that seem like they have the best, actually are the worst. Too many people don't communicate correctly. Scared to speak their minds. Voice their wants. Fulfill their needs. It's the main reason I think some people visit to sites like this. A place to get what we crave without having to 'rock the boat' in our offline lives.

Anyway, I do hope you get a chance to find what you want and need. It's good that you are so open, hopefully another like yourself will find her way here and to you. Oh, and I hope she's really close to you so you don't have to leap across the globe to get to her.

Have a wonderful weekend hun!

Nea

Hi again, Nea,

Thanks for your thoughts and well wishes. I'm very sorry to hear the extent to which you've been overlooked. Personally, I don't understand much about giving up... on the things I care most about, but I suppose that, at least in theory, it is at times the right decision. I'm rather tenacious, and pride myself on coming up with creative solutions to very challenging obstacles... not that I look for very challenging obstacles to overcome!

Thanks again for the good wishes. I hope she and I find each other too.. and that somehow, miraculously, you find yours too.

nathan