Big Guys

[fatdude6969]

Hi,

Just wondering whether any women find larger men attractive at all? always heard about the BBW but is there such a thing as BBM?

From my experience there isnt

 

[fatdude6969]

BUMP

 

[1sexylady]

Well I for one like men with meat on their bones. I need something to hold onto. I am not into very skinny men at all....

 

[Woodmiester]

interesting

Thread was posted over 12 hours ago, only 41 views so far and only one lady honest enough to answer/reply.....

wonder if everyone is truly busy, or could it be something more so on the shallow side..... guess time will tell

 

[SmilinAngel]

It doesn't really matter to me about body. I'm really attracted to personalities and faces ... I know everyone 'says' that, but i really mean it. I've dated guys of all shapes, and found each shape uniquely attractive. I do think a guy with a little meat on the bones is easier to be attracted to, though. I don't like seeing bones through skin.

 

[ZeldaT]

Hi,

Just wondering whether any women find larger men attractive at all? always heard about the BBW but is there such a thing as BBM?

From my experience there isnt

It all depends on how they carry themself...regardless of size if I guy is an ass he is an ass... If a guy is nice he is nice... If a snob than a snob... I know I have ran into guys I thought would be right down assholes just based on their looks, but I got to know them and they were really great...

I know my biggest problem isn't my weight because I see gals that are WAY bigger than me that have a guy and or married... For me I am such an introvert that I push people away from me.

 

[pleasteasme]

Is this where the "size does not matter" quote come in? Ok, I am just kiddin a little here, don't take it other than a joke!

Anyway, about big guys. . . .I acctually am attracted to bigger men, tall and stout. I like to be with a man that if he were to get in a fight, he would win *ok, joking again, sorry* But seriously, I like guys that are more filled out than stick skinny. I don't even mind if they are carrying around a bit more weight than they need to. Aside from the 'physical' side of attraction, I still believe it is the size of the heart in the man, not the size of man with a heart.

 

[ZeldaT]

sorry double post computer is being an ass tonight

 

[Woodmiester]

For me I am such an introvert that I push people away from me.

Been there done that. Damn, still doing it!!!!!!!!


Oh well, off I go

 

[pleasteasme]

Re: Re: Big Guys

Zelda~

I can relate with you on the introvert part and pushing people away. . .as a matter of fact, I have perfected this in the last 30 years. . . .and now, of all times, when I know how to keep people away, I really WANT a particular person. . . .wow, is it ever aggravating!!

I had myself so damn convinced I didn't need anyone else in my life but me and then BAM, it is like running into a door or a brick wall. . . .crazy, but true, it happens when you least expect it!

I know my biggest problem isn't my weight because I see gals that are WAY bigger than me that have a guy and or married... For me I am such an introvert that I push people away from me.

 

[fatdude6969]

wow i didnt get a reply for a while and thought no one wanted to comment..

i hear alot of ladies say things like that but i wonder if they really mean it (sorry not doubting your comments)

 

[Nikkitta]

wow i didnt get a reply for a while and thought no one wanted to comment..

i hear alot of ladies say things like that but i wonder if they really mean it (sorry not doubting your comments)

Stout ,husky , something to hold on to i guess almost every one posting in here so far used those terms before , i for one could not handle skin and bones in my bed .........that dont mean i only like FAT since there is deff a difference between the husky built and the plain ol obese build .Where to say no is a hard question, i guess it all comes down to the personalty there and what someone likes and yes there is women that like big man just like there is guys that like big women .

 

[babydoll2u]

BBM...............

I am a BBW who loves BBM....
I think that men with some weight on them...are sexy.

I'm in FLorida.....pm me if your interested

 

[1sexylady]

wow i didnt get a reply for a while and thought no one wanted to comment..

i hear alot of ladies say things like that but i wonder if they really mean it (sorry not doubting your comments)

Now why would we bother if we didn't mean it. I am not heavy but I am not skinny either and as I said before I like a man with meat on his bones. I also like a man to have a great personality too, which is even more important to me.

 

[bigcpl4fun]

wow i didnt get a reply for a while and thought no one wanted to comment..

i hear alot of ladies say things like that but i wonder if they really mean it (sorry not doubting your comments)

Ok, here's a reply from a guy who has been there.

You seem to be talking from your doubts rather than those of the ladies. Sure there are shallow women, just like there are shallow men, but you seem to be priming yourself for failure.

You really do have to get a person interested in you for WHO you are, not what you weigh. Talk to some of these lovely ladies and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. If you do, you can and will get hurt (we all do), you'll also develop some wonderful friendships that will, most probably, lead to more.
For years I thought no woman would be interested. I was really surprised that it didn't make a difference with most women if I made the effort to get to know them and let them get to know me. I was always surprised when any woman found me attractive until I found out I was the one who was being dumb.

Chances are, if you don't like you, people will pick up on that. Be friends with the ladies, treat them like the jewels they are and let what happens happen. It's all in your attitude and your sincerity. Try it.