Bi Women......HELP PLEASE

[24bigirly]

I am bi curious and I need help. I can't seem to find any bi women. I don't want to go to a lesbian bar and I am not even sure I have any near me. I have looked on the adult friend finder sites and have emailed back and forth a little but nothing has come of it. I really want to find a feminine looking women who wants to explore her bisexuality with me. Please share your stories of first experiences or best places to look for another biwoman....pretty please! Thanks in advance for your help! I envy you girls that have been lucky enough to have had the experience.....or experiences (luckier)! Should I have some kind of Gaydar or something....i can never tell if a woman would be down for.........going down I guess.....lol!

 

[24bigirly]

No reply?

C'mon Ladies, help a girl out.....lol! What do I do or where do I go? Is there any tell-tale signs I should look for? I am anxiously awaiting the reponse of some experienced bisexual women, and I don't think this community is lacking in that department! So, please....guide me to your world!
thanks

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

C'mon Ladies, help a girl out.....lol! What do I do or where do I go? Is there any tell-tale signs I should look for? I am anxiously awaiting the reponse of some experienced bisexual women, and I don't think this community is lacking in that department! So, please....guide me to your world!
thanks

if you hear anything please let me know. LOL...

 

[24bigirly]

Nocturnal Angel,
Do you have any experience with other women? I have traveled to the Jersey Shore where you say you are from. Beautiful women there at the beach! Where do you pick up women? I have trouble believing that other women can't help me out here with some advice!!! C'mon girls....

 

[24bigirly]

I am starting to be convinced...

that there may not be that many women with bisexual experience on this board. Either that, or the women here don't have any advice on how to find other women willing to go bi. I do find both hard to believe....where does a girl gets some advice on scoring with other girls?

 

[anne27]

that there may not be that many women with bisexual experience on this board. Either that, or the women here don't have any advice on how to find other women willing to go bi. I do find both hard to believe....where does a girl gets some advice on scoring with other girls?

There are quite a few bi girls on the board, myself being one of them. I'm not the most experienced person in the world with women, but the ones I have been with have been either RL friends and 'net buddies.

My suggestion to you would be to do a search for local woman's groups and see what you can find. I found a bi woman's group just an hour from here, and that's in rural Tennessee.

Best of luck to you in your search!

 

[Ladyinnocentus]

Bi- advice

The only time I've managed to find a "friend" was through a local website. I'd been thinking on and off of trying out a "bi experience", but I'm not bold enough to try the "bar scene" or anything like that. I have housemates, so everything has to stay "private".

I did luck out and met a woman on a "friendfinder" website, and we got together a couple of times and did some mutual fondling, playing with each other's breasts. I found that I liked it *alot*, but she was actually looking for a partner, and I just wanted the *experience*....

All I can say is keeping "plugging away", and you never know???

 

[BallinaB]

Nocturnal Angel,
Do you have any experience with other women? I have traveled to the Jersey Shore where you say you are from. Beautiful women there at the beach! Where do you pick up women? I have trouble believing that other women can't help me out here with some advice!!! C'mon girls....

Do you spend much time at the Jersey Shore? I'm there all the time and while not bi...I am curious

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

Nocturnal Angel,
Do you have any experience with other women? I have traveled to the Jersey Shore where you say you are from. Beautiful women there at the beach! Where do you pick up women? I have trouble believing that other women can't help me out here with some advice!!! C'mon girls....

i just got out of a long relationship with an asshole of a man so i haven't been with a girl in a long time. but i have been with 2 women. i don't pick up women. i'm not the kind of person that goes to a bar and sees someone and is like "how you doin?" (in my best Joey Tribiani voice LOL) i wish i could do that but it's not me. if i talk to someone i like and something happens it's great. i'm not much of a beach person either.

if you can get some advice please give me some because there is some sort of a dry spell going on over here!!

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

we should all have a bi/lesbian conference and everything would be easier! everyone on the board! we'll just all come from all over the country and meet in times square and get naked and see what happens!

 

[24bigirly]

I'm in.....

Noct...
Count me in for that Times Square naked conference. It seems like I am not alone in that I am very interested in doing this. Also, I don't think I am alone, either with women trying it for the first time or women looking to do it again, in having trouble finding women. It seems like adult friend sites are the only answer other than lesbian bars. We bi women (or bi-curious) should take over something across the country to congregate and meet others (like Starbucks or something like that!). That way, those of us that are curious can go to our local ________(Starbucks?) and chat with (bi)women with comfort and knowledge. OK, now I'm rambling......I just wish it was easier!

BallinaB -
While I love the Jersey Shore, I am there on scattered weekends throughout the summer....and it's always last minute. If I am there.....would ya?

Please keep this post going ladies.....we seem to be generating some good responses. At least it is a place to vent about the frusterations of meeting other biwomen!!!!

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

Noct...
Count me in for that Times Square naked conference. It seems like I am not alone in that I am very interested in doing this. Also, I don't think I am alone, either with women trying it for the first time or women looking to do it again, in having trouble finding women. It seems like adult friend sites are the only answer other than lesbian bars. We bi women (or bi-curious) should take over something across the country to congregate and meet others (like Starbucks or something like that!). That way, those of us that are curious can go to our local ________(Starbucks?) and chat with (bi)women with comfort and knowledge. OK, now I'm rambling......I just wish it was easier!

BallinaB -
While I love the Jersey Shore, I am there on scattered weekends throughout the summer....and it's always last minute. If I am there.....would ya?

Please keep this post going ladies.....we seem to be generating some good responses. At least it is a place to vent about the frusterations of meeting other biwomen!!!!

where do you live? are you near NJ? or NY? is anyone from the NY/NJ area? i'm serious, we should go out and do something...instead of talking about wanting to all the time and doing nothing!

 

[BallinaB]

Noct...
Count me in for that Times Square naked conference. It seems like I am not alone in that I am very interested in doing this. Also, I don't think I am alone, either with women trying it for the first time or women looking to do it again, in having trouble finding women. It seems like adult friend sites are the only answer other than lesbian bars. We bi women (or bi-curious) should take over something across the country to congregate and meet others (like Starbucks or something like that!). That way, those of us that are curious can go to our local ________(Starbucks?) and chat with (bi)women with comfort and knowledge. OK, now I'm rambling......I just wish it was easier!

BallinaB -
While I love the Jersey Shore, I am there on scattered weekends throughout the summer....and it's always last minute. If I am there.....would ya?

Please keep this post going ladies.....we seem to be generating some good responses. At least it is a place to vent about the frusterations of meeting other biwomen!!!!

I am going to be at the shore most weekends for the rest of the summer...I am so in!

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

I am going to be at the shore most weekends for the rest of the summer...I am so in!

see! who else wants to come? LOL...

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

Please keep this post going ladies.....we seem to be generating some good responses. At least it is a place to vent about the frusterations of meeting other biwomen!!!!

well we have the 3 of us right? hehehe....we should take over like the olive garden or something not so trendy...ok it's official. any woman that goes to the garden is bi. that's the new spot to meet women! that would be nice. soup, breadsticks and vaginas. LOL...

 

[rainbow_panties]

oh I wish I could be there lovelies! But I am on the other side of all you ladies

have fun though

do report back though on how it went!

 

[24bigirly]

Noct.....

I know I love breadsticks.....lol
and I know I want to make love to a vagina....

so it sounds like an idea!
I am getting excited just thinking about you ladies.

I live just west of Philly and I go where ever my business takes me. I travel often! I do love the beach so Jersey is my scapegoat when I have the opportunity! Even if I can't make the first meeting, it seems like Nocturnal and Ballina could get these dates going and report back. What do ya think girls?

 

[-phreak]

*sighs in frustration*....why do you all live so far away from me

 

[BallinaB]

I'm in, now what?

 

[baremama]

I would be in too, but...

Missouri is soooooo far away!!! DAMMIT!!!

Baremama

 

[Nocturnal Angel]

I'm in, now what?

who else? come one girls!!! this is getting interesting....

 

[Buffytasamoto]

Bi-Women vs Lesbians

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I thought I'd throw in my two-cents. I grew up in New Orleans (we say N'Awlins) and there are MANY bi-girls/lesbians there. I'll warn ya, though...I'd stay away from some of them because there are a few who can get downright scary. Too, anyone can tell you that you can never tell WHAT a person is until you investigate (New Orleans - Where the Men are REAL Mean and some of the Women are Men, too!). Also, for some reason we "Bi's" are generally shunned by the straight community (Those Perves!) and the Lesbians (Breeders!)
It is very easy meeting people online (Chatrooms, Forums like this one, etc). You can find many that cater to the Lesbian scene (not so many towards us bi-women, though), but you're also going to run into fakes and doubters and guys pretending to be women because they get their jollies off the idea of two women having sex. Personally, I don't make eye-contact with anyone unless they have a well thought-out profile, seems resonably intelligent, and is willing to get to know a person online before jumping to the "Let's meet somewhere" stage.
I might also get some feedback on this, but I personally (usually) don't bother with people with names that include numbers (esp "69") or sexual direction/description/etc , esp when it comes to other women, and it could be that the lack of response might be because your name, "24BiGirly" just SCREAMS "Hey, I'm a guy pretending to be a girl", esp given your lack of profile info, etc. Nothing personal, really. But then that's the way I think and I cannot speak for others.
Oh, and about the comment you made...

I know I love breadsticks.....and I know I want to make love to a vagina....

....er....gimmee clitorial stimulation instead, hee hee.

Good luck on your hunt! I wish nothing but the best for you. Work on that profile a wee bit more and try a few other places (www.gaydargirls.com, www.lesbianation.com).
Oh yeah..the Olive Garden is generally packed with snobby housewives and gay men, Coffeehouses (Starbucks anyone?) are more our speed (I met my GF Miranda at a Barnes and Nobles with a Starbucks)

Lisa
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[Xectxny19X]

I've always liked craigslist, because there's not too much e-mailing back and forth. You either decide to meet or not w/in 3 e-mails. hehe, at least, that's how it works for me. I've been on a couple of dates, but I haven't found the one yet. I don't think you'll have any trouble finding some NSA fun on there though. Goodluck!

BTW talking about the jersey shore, I was there for my b-day. I enjoyed the eye candy very much! *innocent look*

May I also suggest joining a yahoo group in your area dedicated to the glbt community? I've met a couple of girls that way as well.

 

[24bigirly]

"24BiGirly" just SCREAMS "Hey, I'm a guy pretending to be a girl", esp given your lack of profile info
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Wow...."Buffy" .....thanks for your incredible insight....and welcome to Lit darling! Regardeless of what my Lit name "SCREAMS" to you, the "Vagina" between my legs "SCREAMS" female babe. As far as my lack of a profile goes, I prefer to intrigue people with the info I have given them and hope that it warrants them to inquire further about me. If I tell people everything they need to know about me in a profile, then I feel too much judgemnet can be passed before someone can get to me and I will have no way to express myself other than the few words listed. Soooooo, thats my feeling on profiles and my ever so masculine name. "Nothing personal, really," I have my period and your post rubbed me the wrong way! Anyway....."clitoral stimulation" anyone?
Joni (aka....24bigirly)

 

[Buffytasamoto]

No Problem

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Oh, no problem...I wasn't really out to "Rub you the wrong way", just giving you the heads up as to why the response to your advertisement might have been under par. Personally speaking I haven't judged you one way or another. Would you have rathered I posted something like, "Oh Baby, I'll take you and show you what it's like to be with a woman!"? Nah, I don't think so. I expect you'd rather someone who'll actually address you as a person rather than a fantasy..but then who knows?
Interesting opinion on the lack of profile...going for the "Mystery" angle, eh? And there I was thinking that the reason people don't bother with their profiles is that they either they are too lazy to create one, not clever enough to come up with something to say, or have something to hide. My Bad Just remember that as much as you're trying to avoid judgement by not posting anything you are also being judged by that lack.. It really is a tough call, though. What do you think? When you look at what people post and find someone's post you like and think maybe they're worth knowing, then you go to their profile and there's nothing...does it encourage you or does it make you think "Hmmmm".
And don't take it as a personal affront, really. I already kinda sorta like you and I wouldn't have bothered posting in the first place if I didn't Just thought I'd give you the little advice I actually have to give. I've been a moderator for many LGF Chatrooms (Lesbian/Gay Forums) and I've seen enough to know what's what. It's advice only, and not to be seen as an affront.
Peace and happiness!

Lisa (aka Buffytasamoto)
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