Bi with wifes blessing?

[Cardinal]

Have any men ever had a bi experience with their wife's or SO blessing, understanding, or encouragement?
How did she react during or after?
Who's idea was it?

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

My wife is very understanding about me being Bi. My first experience was with a friend my wife and I. Was a very hot time although I am sure if I was a little more experienced it would have been a lot better. Afterwards my wife was ok but my friend and I didnt talk for several months as there was an awkwardness about it at first. Now though everything is back to normal. IF you have any questions for me just ask.

 

[maleorfemale]

My wife is also very understanding about it,luvs to watch me
with another guy.And then join in she always has as much fun
as I do.

 

[Mistress L]

If you would like a womans point of view let me know.

 

[Cardinal]

yeah, I'd like a womans point of view!

 

[Mistress L]

I had thought for a long time that my husband had a real interest in sucking a cock and we had fantisized about it for awhile, but I never really thought it would happen. But this past summer we were at a nude beach and a man walked up to our blanket and offered his cock to me. I looked at my hubby and he nodded his head so I started sucking the guys cock. He invited us back to his house later so we could finish what had started. Later that evening we went back to his house and began to play with him and his girlfriend. I was very excited and so was hubby. The next thing I knew hubby was beside me licking the mans cock with me, I actually stoped so that I could watch. Wow what a turn on!! I just couldn't stop stairing, my hand went to the back of his head and started guiding his head down onto the mans cock. I was soaked just watching. We finished the evening with the guy cumming in my ass and then we went home. Hubby did not cum. But when we got home we had the best sex we have ever had. As the action is happening you are in total lust mode but to be honest the next day I had wierd thoughts. Yes the thought of hubby leaving me for another man crossed my mind in the beggining but it no longer does. We have had several more experiences since last summer and they have all been great! Hubby and I are closer now than we have ever been. It has brought a hightened level of communication to our relationship, more open and honest discussions. We have been married for 22 years and the past year has been the best. The more secure you feel in your relationship ahead of time is a big part of how someone feels before, during and after those lust filled evenings. We have many fantasys to fullfill yet and it can only get better.

 

[mac_crazy]

I was dating a woman for 9 months or so, but finally broke up with her about a month ago. I had several reasons for doing so, but one of the more important ones was that I could not bring myself to tell her that I am bisexual. Just didn't get the feeling that she would be accepting of that part of me.

Skip to the present day. I've met a new woman, who I really like, and who really likes me. We have awesome, passionate sex, and we've talked about letting our relationship get more serious. However, I didn't want to go any further this time without letting her know about my bisexual past. So I finally got up the courage to tell her one night. She was shocked, but it didn't "scare her off"... however, she was/is somewhat worried about me leaving her for another man. I did my best to convince her that I'm not interested in being in a relationship with a man, my bisexuality is purely of a physical nature. I think I got through to her, because we're still together, and she's accepted the fact that I've had sex with guys in the past, although she says she is not open to anything like that happening in the future. However, she's told me that since we've been having sex, she has realized how good sex can actually be, and she thinks about doing things that she never would have thought about before.

So, maybe, if I'm lucky, one day she'll widen her horizons and I'll get to enjoy my bisexuality again, with her blessing. MistressL's story sounds wonderful, I'd love to be in that situation!

 

[jadestar]

When I got with the guy I'm currently seeing, I knew he was bi. Me being bi myself woulda made it pretty hypocritical of me to judge him. *grin*

To be honest, I think it's hot. Having him tell me stories of his sexual encounters with guys gets me just about ready to tear his clothes off.

I'm totally up for the idea of a M-M-F tryst, and last New Year's, we had one planned but it fell through. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, though!

 

[Cardinal]

bump

 

[CNDPhD]

Im very curious, my wife suspects but doesnt know for sure..

 

[Netzach]

We're both queer and as long as he's safe and has fun I'm all for it.

 

[versatile1]

My wife is okay with it as long as she gets to play too. We only had one experience which was mostly my idea, but she hinted earlier that she thought he would like to join us.

I loved sucking his cock while they made out. We are open for more, but it has to be the circumstances which are rare. I am hoping to arrange for circumstances that may work out this summer--who knows? We'd love finding another guy or couple to play with as a semi-regular thing.

 

[CNDPhD]

My wife is okay with it as long as she gets to play too. We only had one experience which was mostly my idea, but she hinted earlier that she thought he would like to join us.

I loved sucking his cock while they made out. We are open for more, but it has to be the circumstances which are rare. I am hoping to arrange for circumstances that may work out this summer--who knows? We'd love finding another guy or couple to play with as a semi-regular thing.

that sounds delicious

 

[bi_m_4_cpls_630]

I had thought for a long time that my husband had a real interest in sucking a cock and we had fantisized about it for awhile, but I never really thought it would happen. But this past summer we were at a nude beach and a man walked up to our blanket and offered his cock to me. I looked at my hubby and he nodded his head so I started sucking the guys cock. He invited us back to his house later so we could finish what had started. Later that evening we went back to his house and began to play with him and his girlfriend. I was very excited and so was hubby. The next thing I knew hubby was beside me licking the mans cock with me, I actually stoped so that I could watch. Wow what a turn on!! I just couldn't stop stairing, my hand went to the back of his head and started guiding his head down onto the mans cock. I was soaked just watching. We finished the evening with the guy cumming in my ass and then we went home. Hubby did not cum. But when we got home we had the best sex we have ever had. As the action is happening you are in total lust mode but to be honest the next day I had wierd thoughts. Yes the thought of hubby leaving me for another man crossed my mind in the beggining but it no longer does. We have had several more experiences since last summer and they have all been great! Hubby and I are closer now than we have ever been. It has brought a hightened level of communication to our relationship, more open and honest discussions. We have been married for 22 years and the past year has been the best. The more secure you feel in your relationship ahead of time is a big part of how someone feels before, during and after those lust filled evenings. We have many fantasys to fullfill yet and it can only get better.

I alway enjoy watching the wife as her susband sucks cock for the first time......the excited look of her face and the way they play with their pussy while watching is always a big turn on. It's always nice to see them kiss and swap my cum afterwards.

 

[fenderman68]

I've just recently admitted to my wife my desire to be with another guy. She was very supportive, saying the idea is a turn-on for her as well. Though I haven't had any experiences to this point, the idea is still a great turn-on for us both and and is the basis for many fantasies and shared orgasms. Plus the fact that I've finally admitted that I'm curious has been very liberating for me. Now I can express all those fantasies that I've kept hidden for so long. I think it's strengthened our relationship as well, which is probably the most important result.

 

[Tedwar]

this is a very helpful thread, thanks to all

 

[Cardinal]

Has anyone had their wife say no to the other man but allow other fantasy that fulfills your desires? TV play around the house, you being the woman etc.?

 

[Samuelx]

Hmm.


I am not married nor am I in a relationship with a girl. I've had fleeting sexual encounters with 5 females and 1 or 2 males in the past.


The girls i've been with dont know i am bi and the males i've experimented with consider themselves straight and have girlfriends/wives, ect.


At this point, I just want someone to love.

I keep on having recurring dreams about two people. The first is Andrew. Andrew is a beautiful boy I went to school with 5 years ago. I used to fantasize about him but was in denial and considered myself to be straight then. I still dream/think of him. He is the most beautiful boy I have ever seen. The second is Lauren B.


I met her at my school in Boston. She is cute. 5'5. dark brown hair. caucasian. pale brown eyes. She is direct and honest and seems to have a good head on her shoulders. easy to talk to. I used to feel like I could tell her anything and that scared me because I dont like to blab my business to girls because they tend to overreact and if you are bi, that cant be good. people can hate/want to kill you.


Lauren was interesting and we talked a lot. She had a boyfriend. She was pretty cool though and more than one night I lay down thinking about her with my cock in my hand. I dated a few other girls at school.
I still play it straight. There was a gay guy named Henry who liked me but he was real femmy and I dont like that. I am big and tall and black. I dont like the fem guys for some reason.


I still think of Lauren and Andrew fondly.

I want a love of my own and need sex and/or love this summer. It's been forever since i did anything sexual with anyone and I hate it and occasionally feel depressed. I am not out to anyone. Except maybe someone at the GLBT place in Boston where I do some volunteer work.

Peace.

 

[BigGuyPA44]

isn't everyone?

Isn't everyone a little curious at least? I would never be able to talk to my wife of 20 years about it though

Had a GF who liked the idea, but never had the opportunity

B

 

[Samuelx]

I once worked up the courage to ask a girl i liked a lot what she thought of bisexuals, gays and lesbians. She said she thought they were cool. I asked her if she would date one (bi guy) she said hell no that shit is nasty.

I just said ok. I didnt talk to her again. She came onto me and touched me and stuff. she was hot and i was attracted and wanted to fuck her but she was so narrow-minded that she disgusted the hell out of me.


I didnt return her calls.


Dont mess with my team (Gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transexuals and
open-minded heterosexuals).

Peace.

 

[WetDenise]

As a wife who recently discovered her husband is bi, I can tell you this: if you're honest with her and make it clear you're not being replaced and you won't exclude her, she may be fine. But you'll never know if you don't discuss it. Whatever you do, don't act on your impulse behind her back.