Bi switch female in UK seeking meaningful kinky connections

Starra

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37 year old bi switch female living in Derby, UK seeking local people aged 20 - 35 ONLY for fun times or a possible relationship. PLEASE NOTE: You MUST be from the UK, as I am not looking to do the online chat thing, I'm looking to MEET regularly.

First, some things about me:

I'm described by my friends as caring and considerate if a little weird (though they all consider themselves weird too). I have a kinky side that only some get to truly enjoy. My friendships mean the world to me, and I place great value on frank and honest relationships, in whatever form they may take.

What I'm looking for:


I tend towards skinny emo/alt guys and alt/goth/punkish style girls, though that isn't a must, just a common interest and attraction. A must is no manly men, I like my guys to be pretty. So no big muscles, hairy bodies or stocky frames for me, sorry. I prefer younger people than myself (around 20 - 35) and obviously I'd like to meet someone fairly local to me.

I have had two long term relationships with abusive men. Truthfully, this has left me somewhat jaded about life and right now I am quite broken. I would love for an honest, genuine and kind person to help put me back together again. I am open-minded about who I meet, but I need more than a basic connection in order to sleep with someone, so understand that I won't meet 'on a promise'. I have also come to the conclusion that I'd prefer a monogamous relationship, should something develop along those lines.

I need to see a face pic, obviously, and I don't cyber or cam so if you're after that, you may want to pass me by.

Thanks for reading, now get in touch :D
 
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37 year old bi switch female living in Derby, UK seeking local people aged 20 - 35 ONLY for fun times or a possible relationship. PLEASE NOTE: You MUST be from the UK, as I am not looking to do the online chat thing, I'm looking to MEET regularly.

First, some things about me:

I'm described by my friends as caring and considerate if a little weird (though they all consider themselves weird too). I have a kinky side that only some get to truly enjoy. My friendships mean the world to me, and I place great value on frank and honest relationships, in whatever form they may take.

What I'm looking for:


I tend towards skinny emo/alt guys and alt/goth/punkish style girls, though that isn't a must, just a common interest and attraction. A must is no manly men, I like my guys to be pretty. So no big muscles, hairy bodies or stocky frames for me, sorry. I prefer younger people than myself (around 20 - 35) and obviously I'd like to meet someone fairly local to me.

I have had two long term relationships with abusive men. Truthfully, this has left me somewhat jaded about life and right now I am quite broken. I would love for an honest, genuine and kind person to help put me back together again. I am open-minded about who I meet, but I need more than a basic connection in order to sleep with someone, so understand that I won't meet 'on a promise'. I have also come to the conclusion that I'd prefer a monogamous relationship, should something develop along those lines.

I need to see a face pic, obviously, and I don't cyber or cam so if you're after that, you may want to pass me by.

Thanks for reading, now get in touch :D

Unfortunately I'm not skinny and am definitely not hair free so haven't sent any message myself :cool: but you sound very interesting and compelling so I don't think I will need to have to wish you luck with your search!
 
37 year old bi switch female living in Derby, UK seeking local people aged 20 - 35 ONLY for fun times or a possible relationship. PLEASE NOTE: You MUST be from the UK, as I am not looking to do the online chat thing, I'm looking to MEET regularly.

First, some things about me:

I'm described by my friends as caring and considerate if a little weird (though they all consider themselves weird too). I have a kinky side that only some get to truly enjoy. My friendships mean the world to me, and I place great value on frank and honest relationships, in whatever form they may take.

What I'm looking for:


I tend towards skinny emo/alt guys and alt/goth/punkish style girls, though that isn't a must, just a common interest and attraction. A must is no manly men, I like my guys to be pretty. So no big muscles, hairy bodies or stocky frames for me, sorry. I prefer younger people than myself (around 20 - 35) and obviously I'd like to meet someone fairly local to me.

I have had two long term relationships with abusive men. Truthfully, this has left me somewhat jaded about life and right now I am quite broken. I would love for an honest, genuine and kind person to help put me back together again. I am open-minded about who I meet, but I need more than a basic connection in order to sleep with someone, so understand that I won't meet 'on a promise'. I have also come to the conclusion that I'd prefer a monogamous relationship, should something develop along those lines.

I need to see a face pic, obviously, and I don't cyber or cam so if you're after that, you may want to pass me by.

Thanks for reading, now get in touch :D
Hi Starra,

Sorry to hear about your lack of luck and previous experiences in abusive relationships. One thing that gets my blood boiling with rage thinking about abusive so called men. They all need a slap from their mothers if you ask me.

I'v just joined this site and I hope to find a connection with a like minded chilled out female. My ideal is that this lady will allow me to adore, worship and revere her in a way befitting of a Queen. I am submissive and I firmly believe in female supremacy. You need spoiling and treating like a Goddess, you need a good man. Whether a submissive man twangs your strings or not I don't know!

You are very beautiful by the way and I'd be happy to email you a picture of myself if we get on.
 
I don't give out my email address. Do they allow attachments to private messages on here? If so, you could send me a pic that way. Have you taken note of the kind of guys I'm attracted to because if you are not like that, chances are high it won't be worth the time to be honest.

Secondly, fireman, I'm rigid on age range so sorry I would not interested.
 
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