"BI-SEXUALS": SEXUALLY FREE or POSERS?

[budget-nudist]

I just came up with this last night, so don't bite my head off. It's just a subject of discussion.

Last night while out with a girl I'd met a few days ago I had an epihany. We were sitting across from eachother at a restuarant and she was babbling on and on about how sexually adventourous she was, and how most men are intimidated by her bi-sexuality. It went on and on. Sitting ther I began to think about the other "Bi-Sexuals" I've known, and I have come up with a theory that I'd like to put to all of you good people.

BI-SEXUALITY IS A COP OUT.

I've come up with a few catagories that I've noticed most of the "Bi sexuals" I've met in my short time on this shit ball of a planet could be put into.

1) Too chickenshit to admit they're homosexual. Which is understandale considering the shit homosexuals are put thorough.

2) So completley screwed in the head from past sexual traumas that they are unable to decipher they're own sexual impulses.

3) So caught up in the chic of being "sexually free". A poser in other words.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Eat me, cheap skinny.

 

[freakygirl]

I think you need a flaower







Where is Rainbow Brite when we need her most? I'm really sick of doing her job

 

[scylis]

i think somebody could use a hug.

and somebody else a buckshot enema.

i'll let you figure out who gets what.

 

[budget-nudist]

I sense a bit of anger. That's good, a bit misdirected, but it's honest. As i've said before I just began mulling this idea over. It's entirly possible that it was just the shitty date that's talking.

I'm not (believe it or not) being judgemental. It's just a conversation point.

Not meant to offend.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

1) Too chickenshit to admit they're homosexual. Which is understandale considering the shit homosexuals are put thorough.

2) So completley screwed in the head from past sexual traumas that they are unable to decipher they're own sexual impulses.

3) So caught up in the chic of being "sexually free". A poser in other words.

1) I crave a man's body and his manly outlook on life with a full blown (no pun ) relationship and comitment. I would love to spend sensual time with a woman with the shopping trips and movies thrown in with the friendship....

2) I have no past sexual traumas, infact maybe that is why I am so open to both sexes.....

3)Yes, I am sexually free, but the only person I pose for is my man and if some sexy lady ever wants to spend sensual time with me then I'll pose for her........

 

[budget-nudist]

Re: Re: "BI-SEXUALS": SEXUALLY FREE or POSERS?

1) I crave a man's body and his manly outlook on life with a full blown (no pun ) relationship and comitment. I would love to spend sensual time with a woman with the shopping trips and movies thrown in with the friendship....

If you were told you could only have one, what would it be?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Re: Re: "BI-SEXUALS": SEXUALLY FREE or POSERS?

1) I crave a man's body and his manly outlook on life with a full blown (no pun ) relationship and comitment. I would love to spend sensual time with a woman with the shopping trips and movies thrown in with the friendship....

If you were told you could only have one, what would it be?

Ummmmm read what I just wrote there, I'm sure that might give you a clue...

 

[RainbowBright]

I think you need a flaower
Where is Rainbow Brite when we need her most? I'm really sick of doing her job

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Hea'res a flawoeur four uo Freakigerl.

 

[budget-nudist]

Just verifying T.H Ought, because I think that's kind of my point.

 

[VanB]

Bisexuality

Not for me but whatever creams your twinkie

Who gives a flying fuck if someone wants to be bisexual so be it.

 

[Rhys]

Re: Bisexuality

Not for me but whatever creams your twinkie

Who gives a flying fuck if someone wants to be bisexual so be it.

I'm with him. Who gives a shit...

 

[bluespoke]

Re: Re: Bisexuality

I'm with him. Who gives a shit...

Indeed, but is budget-nudist's post a cry for help?

 

[VanB]

Re: Re: Re: Bisexuality

Indeed, but is budget-nudist's post a cry for help?

Ah, now Blue - you could be on to something LOL

 

[Guest]

4.) Some people are sexually attracted to both genders and have been intimate with both and love the sex with both.

 

[Pyper]

I don´t believe sexuality is a black and white issue. Sexual preference is a fluid thing with many gray areas. I believe nearly everyone is just a little bit bisexual, but only the ones who come right down the middle we actually label as such. I, for example, in my sex life, am strictly heterosexual, but if men disappeared from the earth, I would probably hook up with a woman.

 

[warmlips]

Hmmm, this isn't the BEST site to slag bisexuals off on, is it, nudist? I mean, you are rather outnumbered . . .

Personally, I just find certain individuals very attractive, and their gender doesn't matter; it's their personality, their sexiness, their loving nature, a spark between us . . . really, I mean I love cocks and muscles, but also pussy and tits!!

take it easy, nudist . . . and have some sex!! Chill out!

 

[VanB]

Hmmm, this isn't the BEST site to slag bisexuals off on, is it, nudist? I mean, you are rather outnumbered . . .

Personally, I just find certain individuals very attractive, and their gender doesn't matter; it's their personality, their sexiness, their loving nature, a spark between us . . . really, I mean I love cocks and muscles, but also pussy and tits!!

take it easy, nudist . . . and have some sex!! Chill out!

Warmlips

 

[MissTaken]

4.) Some people are sexually attracted to both genders and have been intimate with both and love the sex with both.

Thanks, Tiggs!

The thread would have received a better response if budget-nudist had included #4.

I am sure there are people who fall into all FOUR categories. I also believe there are a large number of legitimate, fun loving, intelligent and erotic bisexuals at lit.

If they are "posers" or in any way not bi sexual or seemingly not legitimate, who gives a rat's ass?

 

[Guest]

Hee hee hee...

Anytime! And...Amen about "who gives a rat's ass"!!

 

[CarolineOh]

I sense a bit of anger. That's good, a bit misdirected, but it's honest. As i've said before I just began mulling this idea over. It's entirly possible that it was just the shitty date that's talking.

I'm not (believe it or not) being judgemental. It's just a conversation point.

Not meant to offend.

Throwing out prejudiced statements and then protesting that you don't mean to offend is disingenuous.
I spent twenty years struggling with the idea that there was something wrong with me because I felt attraction to both men and women, and you figure it's because I'm either a pathetic victim or a devious pretender?
Pyper stated it perfectly, sexuality is fluid. No one should ever feel compelled to define themselves in a hurtful and restrictive way.
Apparently your date was right, you were so intimidated by her bisexuality you had to come online and express your condecension towards us.

 

[kotori]

Huh?

Why would anyone else care about my motivations?

"Hey man, that was really good sex, but I think you're just trying to be cool."

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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[BustyTheClown]

Hehe, believe it or not, this is one of the few issues I honestly don't have an opinion on. Whatever makes bisexuals happy is fine by me, no matter what their reasons are.

 

[BustyTheClown]

Re: Happily bisexual

I look beyond their sexual organs, and see into the mind and heart, and hope that person will open their soul with me. True love is more than a penis or vagina, it's sharing of essence, of soul. And I can love either.

Just to play devil's advocate -- I know you're not saying this, but that could be read to say that bisexuality is "better" than hetero- or homosexuality, right? Looking past sexual organs and loving the person inside.

Don't flame me, because I know you weren't saying that at all... just pointing something interesting out.