Bi-sexuality

[gt_bear]

Hello everyone out there. this is my first forum so first off i would like to share a little about me. I am 21 years old, i live in Las Vegas for the winter and Amsterdam in the summer. I am currently married to a beautiful girl, but i also have 5 other girlfriends and a boyfriend. All of us live together and all of us are lovers, that is my wife has sex with my boyfriend, he has sex with another girlfriend and those girlfriends have sex with each other and me, you get the point.
The point of my post is to ask the question, do you all believe that us bi-sexual people are jsut confused or like lesbian and homosexuals we are just born different?
I personally believe that we are just born like this, i my self have been bi since i can remember, so when others say i'm just confused i get pissed.
If you also want to talk about polygamy in all its forms, you can ask, please not haters alright i already got a few wounds on my body from haters i dont need any more.

 

[iswallowloads]

Hello everyone out there. this is my first forum so first off i would like to share a little about me. I am 21 years old, i live in Las Vegas for the winter and Amsterdam in the summer. I am currently married to a beautiful girl, but i also have 5 other girlfriends and a boyfriend. All of us live together and all of us are lovers, that is my wife has sex with my boyfriend, he has sex with another girlfriend and those girlfriends have sex with each other and me, you get the point.
The point of my post is to ask the question, do you all believe that us bi-sexual people are jsut confused or like lesbian and homosexuals we are just born different?
I personally believe that we are just born like this, i my self have been bi since i can remember, so when others say i'm just confused i get pissed.
If you also want to talk about polygamy in all its forms, you can ask, please not haters alright i already got a few wounds on my body from haters i dont need any more.

I know I've always had pretty much the same fantasies and tastes I have now. I've experimented a lot and my tastes haven't changed - so I know I was born the way I am, sexually. I'm sure it depends on the individual though. I had an ex-gf that thought going down on another woman would be gross, until she tried it (unfortunately after we broke up). Now she's bi. People are people, life's about discovery and experience.

And for what it's worth - you'll get nothing but love from me for your lifestyle. After reading your profile though, how old is your daughter? Is she old enough to ask questions about all the people in your life? I'm just curious how you handle it. Or how you will handle it when she is old enough.

 

[gt_bear]

First, thank you, second my daughter is 15, yeah i know how does that work. My daughter is actually my wives little sister, i saved her and my wife from their abusive father and i fell in love with my wife and her sister just ended up calling me father, daddy actually.
She asked when she was about 12, and then she understood it. Hell she has more than once encouraged me to get another boyfriend, she is a lot like me somehow.
When she was little i guess she just thought i had a lot of friends around, but one of the girls sat her down after she asked why she was here all the time and she explained it.

 

[iswallowloads]

First, thank you, second my daughter is 15, yeah i know how does that work. My daughter is actually my wives little sister, i saved her and my wife from their abusive father and i fell in love with my wife and her sister just ended up calling me father, daddy actually.
She asked when she was about 12, and then she understood it. Hell she has more than once encouraged me to get another boyfriend, she is a lot like me somehow.
When she was little i guess she just thought i had a lot of friends around, but one of the girls sat her down after she asked why she was here all the time and she explained it.

That's cool that she's OK with everything. That's important. Congrats on finding yourself and turning your situation around. Sounds like you have life right where you want it.

 

[gt_bear]

Oh my life is awesome, most of the time. Sure its complicated, and i wish my parents and brother understood. I am the major black sheep of my family, i mean major. My parents are catholic, and my brother is going to become a priest.
I am a bisexual polygamist who fucked his ex-girlfriend in the Vatican Bathroom! To them i am Lucifer himself, and that hurts.
If God created us all, he created me to be just as i am! haters don't seem to get that, especially the ones with guns....Sometimes it sucks being such a big target lol.
But what about you iswallowloads, according to your biography you are not gay but have some gay tendencies....how does that work? i'm not judging, i am just curious. And so is my girlfriend Sam

 

[iswallowloads]

Oh my life is awesome, most of the time. Sure its complicated, and i wish my parents and brother understood. I am the major black sheep of my family, i mean major. My parents are catholic, and my brother is going to become a priest.
I am a bisexual polygamist who fucked his ex-girlfriend in the Vatican Bathroom! To them i am Lucifer himself, and that hurts.
If God created us all, he created me to be just as i am! haters don't seem to get that, especially the ones with guns....Sometimes it sucks being such a big target lol.
But what about you iswallowloads, according to your biography you are not gay but have some gay tendencies....how does that work? i'm not judging, i am just curious. And so is my girlfriend Sam

That's a bummer about your family. I guess you and me are opposites, yet the same, when it comes to that. I'm kind of a black sheep, too. I'm from a big family and my dad was kind of the patriarch. I got into a lot of trouble growing up so they kind of saw me as his successor, but now I'm a bit of a loner and only hang with family when I really have to. So, they're not sure how to feel about me. Plus, they know I can see through all their shit and that scares them, so they don't know how to deal with that either. Like you said, it hurts, but you have to be who you are. Honesty's the foundation of everything that matters in life.

As far as the cock sucking goes, it's basically kind of a fetish. I'm pretty open-minded, so I've experimented a lot. I've tried BDSM with women (both dom and sub), crossdressed, fucked guys and been fucked. Mostly I just like women, everything about them. But I really like going down on men. I just like the way a dick feels in my mouth and smells, and I love cum, but I'm not really attracted to anything else about men.

Congrats on the Vatican thing! I was in Rome on x-mas eve about eleven years ago and passed up the Pope's midnight mass because I hooked up with a hot Italian chick. But we went to her place, not the Vatican bathroom!

 

[gt_bear]

Yeah thats how i started out too, but when i met my boyfriend Jonny all that changed, i fell in love with the hot little Irish Emo! lol, course he is more like a chick than anything. Oh Italian chicks oh dear lord! god i love them, and yeah pick a holy site or city and I've fucked in it! Believe me when i say i like adventurous sex

 

[texharley]

Hello everyone out there. this is my first forum so first off i would like to share a little about me. I am 21 years old, i live in Las Vegas for the winter and Amsterdam in the summer. I am currently married to a beautiful girl, but i also have 5 other girlfriends and a boyfriend. All of us live together and all of us are lovers, that is my wife has sex with my boyfriend, he has sex with another girlfriend and those girlfriends have sex with each other and me, you get the point.
The point of my post is to ask the question, do you all believe that us bi-sexual people are jsut confused or like lesbian and homosexuals we are just born different?
I personally believe that we are just born like this, i my self have been bi since i can remember, so when others say i'm just confused i get pissed.
If you also want to talk about polygamy in all its forms, you can ask, please not haters alright i already got a few wounds on my body from haters i dont need any more.

I think bisexuals enjoy the best of both worlds. Want to trady places? just kidding I have a wonderful wife.

 

[gt_bear]

I think bisexuals enjoy the best of both worlds. Want to trady places? just kidding I have a wonderful wife.

Lol believe me for all the bliss i enjoy it is still hard to push back against some of the stereotypes out there. For one i am not FDLS! In fact real polygamists hate FDLS they are perverted bigamists, real polygamist men never choose to have more than one wife, the first wife does it for them lol We men are just a bonus.

 

[iswallowloads]

Yeah thats how i started out too, but when i met my boyfriend Jonny all that changed, i fell in love with the hot little Irish Emo! lol, course he is more like a chick than anything. Oh Italian chicks oh dear lord! god i love them, and yeah pick a holy site or city and I've fucked in it! Believe me when i say i like adventurous sex

Hot little Irish EMO, very cool. I guess if a dude was really fem, I might think different too.

Yeah, Italy's definitely got bragging rights when it comes to the ladies. Give me a woman with jet black hair, olive skin, and pouty lips and I'm there!

 

[banes27]

When you consider that about 10% of either sex is gay or bi and the other 90% of either sex is straight, being bi at least means you get the 90% of the opposite sex and 10% of your own. You basically just shifted your odds to to 1 in 2 of finding someone who likes your biological sex

Seriously though, my gf's bi and has been with women in the past and I think bi women (all of the ones I've known) are generally more into sexual experimentation. They know how to work with both sexes and know what they like from both sexes too, at least within what they've already experiences. I think for me that was a definite strike of lukc with some of the things I like The first time we met was the first time we slept with each other too. She went home with a large number of bruises on her neck and shoulders and stratches on her back too from the scratching and biting. She'd never experienced anything like that before and now we've been going out for ages. Plus she's said she wouldn't mind a 3some with any gender, so that's one step closer to that. (I'm also into a bit of experimentation, but I don't think I'd ever go with a guy)

 

[iswallowloads]

When you consider that about 10% of either sex is gay or bi and the other 90% of either sex is straight, being bi at least means you get the 90% of the opposite sex and 10% of your own. You basically just shifted your odds to to 1 in 2 of finding someone who likes your biological sex

Seriously though, my gf's bi and has been with women in the past and I think bi women (all of the ones I've known) are generally more into sexual experimentation. They know how to work with both sexes and know what they like from both sexes too, at least within what they've already experiences. I think for me that was a definite strike of lukc with some of the things I like The first time we met was the first time we slept with each other too. She went home with a large number of bruises on her neck and shoulders and stratches on her back too from the scratching and biting. She'd never experienced anything like that before and now we've been going out for ages. Plus she's said she wouldn't mind a 3some with any gender, so that's one step closer to that. (I'm also into a bit of experimentation, but I don't think I'd ever go with a guy)

I'd say 10% are gay or bi, the other 90% are just in denial.

You really should try MMF though, you might like it, and a lot of women like seeing guys mess with each other. You don't hear about it as much, but it's fairly common. Just make sure the other guy's bi and not gay, that way if you start but don't dig it, you can just double up on her!

 

[gt_bear]

When you consider that about 10% of either sex is gay or bi and the other 90% of either sex is straight, being bi at least means you get the 90% of the opposite sex and 10% of your own. You basically just shifted your odds to to 1 in 2 of finding someone who likes your biological sex

Seriously though, my gf's bi and has been with women in the past and I think bi women (all of the ones I've known) are generally more into sexual experimentation. They know how to work with both sexes and know what they like from both sexes too, at least within what they've already experiences. I think for me that was a definite strike of lukc with some of the things I like The first time we met was the first time we slept with each other too. She went home with a large number of bruises on her neck and shoulders and stratches on her back too from the scratching and biting. She'd never experienced anything like that before and now we've been going out for ages. Plus she's said she wouldn't mind a 3some with any gender, so that's one step closer to that. (I'm also into a bit of experimentation, but I don't think I'd ever go with a guy)

Ur right, Bi chicks are way into sexual experimentation, and congrats on making her hungry for that kind of sex. And yeah it does increase chances of getting laid, know that one for a fact lol And on the guy thing, yeah its not for everyone maybe just chicks and then move into guys very slowly. If u don't like it, stop. i mean no one will judge you

 

[gt_bear]

I'd say 10% are gay or bi, the other 90% are just in denial.

You really should try MMF though, you might like it, and a lot of women like seeing guys mess with each other. You don't hear about it as much, but it's fairly common. Just make sure the other guy's bi and not gay, that way if you start but don't dig it, you can just double up on her!

Good point! lol Denial, yeah they pry are, at least 85% of them are, the other are just freaks lol

 

[bivachick]

Both my boyfriend (30) and I (28) are bi and we are very happy with our lifestyle. We were both bi when we met over 3 years ago. In the begining of our relationship we spent most of the time with bi coouples. However, now we enjoy 3 somes eithe MMF or FFM. The only requirement is that the 3rd has to be bi. I still get very excited watching my man with another guy. I don't know if you are born straight or bi but i wouldn't have it anyother way execpt to be bi.

 

[JHarrison01]

Let me just say that I am not being judgmental...these are only my very general opinions and observations

I think the biggest problem with polygamy is the confusing emotional connections that are bound to arise between participants. As you grow older, I believe sooner or later you will be facing having to make choices that are going to create hurt feelings among some of those in your group. We humans are drawn to forming emotional attachments and they are usually very strong. I'm not saying it can't work, it's just more complex than being married to a single person.

I am not sure what you expect from your Catholic family members - your lifestyle is the polar opposite of theirs. If you told them you had sex in the Vatican bathroom, then...yeah...they are going to pretty upset. Don't expect them to understand your choices - they are so contrary to what they can comprehend.

IMO Bisexuality is just a label that means an individual likes having sex (of some form) with both males and females - there is a full spectrum behaviors that can be associated with that term.

 

[gt_bear]

Let me just say that I am not being judgmental...these are only my very general opinions and observations

I think the biggest problem with polygamy is the confusing emotional connections that are bound to arise between participants. As you grow older, I believe sooner or later you will be facing having to make choices that are going to create hurt feelings among some of those in your group. We humans are drawn to forming emotional attachments and they are usually very strong. I'm not saying it can't work, it's just more complex than being married to a single person.

I am not sure what you expect from your Catholic family members - your lifestyle is the polar opposite of theirs. If you told them you had sex in the Vatican bathroom, then...yeah...they are going to pretty upset. Don't expect them to understand your choices - they are so contrary to what they can comprehend.

IMO Bisexuality is just a label that means an individual likes having sex (of some form) with both males and females - there is a full spectrum behaviors that can be associated with that term.

What kind of complications do you see come up in polygamy? i'm just curious

 

[gt_bear]

Hot little Irish EMO, very cool. I guess if a dude was really fem, I might think different too.

Yeah, Italy's definitely got bragging rights when it comes to the ladies. Give me a woman with jet black hair, olive skin, and pouty lips and I'm there!

Oh god yes! i also like French chicks, i got both right now. Sierra is French, and Alana is Italian, and believe me it is awesome

 

[banes27]

IMO Bisexuality is just a label that means an individual likes having sex (of some form) with both males and females - there is a full spectrum behaviors that can be associated with that term.

Generally speaking, you are right about there being a spectrum. I can't remember what the name of it is, but it is interesting. I know according to this bisexuality is described as having no favourite leanings in terms of attraction to men or women, with various people falling between this point and hetero/homosexuality. Personally though, liking sex with a certain biological sex is too small a factor in sexuality. A person can be sexually attracted to a person of a certain sex, but not enjoy sex with any member of them, slightly confusing the issue with sex vs. attraction. Even then it can be further confused by mere non-sexual attraction to a member of any sex.

Overall a persons sexuality can be simple if you look at just liking sex or complex if you take into account attraction. My gf is bi, but prefers sex with men, even though she likes sex with both. I'm straight but can be non-sexually attracted to a very small number of men but have never been sexually attracted to men or shown interest in having sex with men. So the whole idea of sexuality is complicated.

 

[gt_bear]

Beyond complicated really. With subtle feelings and emotions that most miss or deny. As you said one can be attracted to the same sex but not like sex with that person, or you may not be attracted at all and like the sex.
Being bisexual is INCREDIBLY complicated and takes a keen and open mind to enjoy it all.

 

[banes27]

Beyond complicated really. With subtle feelings and emotions that most miss or deny. As you said one can be attracted to the same sex but not like sex with that person, or you may not be attracted at all and like the sex.
Being bisexual is INCREDIBLY complicated and takes a keen and open mind to enjoy it all.

Good point. Although I don't think an open mind is needed to enjoy it all being bi. I think you have to have a mind that has accepted that you ar bi and that you do in fact enjoy it. Same for homosexuality. I know some people really struggle with their sexuality, i.e. they know what they like, but they deny it, even to themselves and utterly dislike what they let themselves do. They only really enjoy what they like when they admit to themselves the truth. Open-mindedness though, I must admit, is the best way to test what you like

 

[gt_bear]

But to go back a bit in the post a little. The reason i fucked in the Vatican was because my family alienated me. I told them i was bi and that was it, i was pure evil. i tried to come home and introduce them to my wife but they figured out pretty fast that she was Bi too, staring down my cousins shirt and up her skirt kind of gave her away....
As it is haters are more plentiful than lovers these days, as seen by passing of prop 8 in California, the GLBT home base.

 

[banes27]

But to go back a bit in the post a little. The reason i fucked in the Vatican was because my family alienated me. I told them i was bi and that was it, i was pure evil. i tried to come home and introduce them to my wife but they figured out pretty fast that she was Bi too, staring down my cousins shirt and up her skirt kind of gave her away....
As it is haters are more plentiful than lovers these days, as seen by passing of prop 8 in California, the GLBT home base.

I think non-heterosexual people in the US generally get it worse than in the UK and probably even worse than in some European states like Sweden. I think it's just a social attitude. The US seems to be steeped in its own history and greatly affected by it founders and the revolution they led, creating a nation which live with the values of that revolution and have unfortunately tended towards the Bible and religion as a source of moral values while making sure that the US changes as little as possible to keep it as the US, much in the same way the leaders of the USSR and then its people (some of them anyway) tried to work according to the revolution.

European states on the other hand have never really had the ideas of a revolutionary way. We've had revolutions, but they only fought for freedom, no ground rules were really set and generally we have just become more liberal over time, so a lot of different sexualities are accepted.

As for the Vatican, good on you. If they think you're evil straight of with no attempt at understanding and the very fact you are who you are is the worst thing in the world today, then through it in there faces even more

 

[JHarrison01]

As it is haters are more plentiful than lovers these days, as seen by passing of prop 8 in California, the GLBT home base.

This is something that continues to baffle me...why anyone would object to promoting the love between two (or more) people is beyond me. Perhaps they see it as a decay of our "moral society" while ignoring the outright corruption and greed that has become so prevalent and almost acceptable.

I think polygamy gets complicated when an individual in the relationship shows a preference (emotional and/or physical) toward one, leaving one or more of the others wanting.

 

[iswallowloads]

I think non-heterosexual people in the US generally get it worse than in the UK and probably even worse than in some European states like Sweden. I think it's just a social attitude. The US seems to be steeped in its own history and greatly affected by it founders and the revolution they led, creating a nation which live with the values of that revolution and have unfortunately tended towards the Bible and religion as a source of moral values while making sure that the US changes as little as possible to keep it as the US, much in the same way the leaders of the USSR and then its people (some of them anyway) tried to work according to the revolution.

European states on the other hand have never really had the ideas of a revolutionary way. We've had revolutions, but they only fought for freedom, no ground rules were really set and generally we have just become more liberal over time, so a lot of different sexualities are accepted.

As for the Vatican, good on you. If they think you're evil straight of with no attempt at understanding and the very fact you are who you are is the worst thing in the world today, then through it in there faces even more

That's a pretty good observation. Well put. Ironically, what this country needs is another revolution. One where people actually take it back it from the government, not just vote for people that promise, promise, promise and never deliver.