Bi sexual wife with a Not so Bi hubby.

[fatbottomgirl78]

Hello all, new to Literotica but not new to the BDSM, GLBT, Swinging and swapping lifestyle. Hopefully this will be a forum I can stick with. Been on others but they were lame or became lame.

My hubby and I play around a pretty fair amount, lots and lots with eachother, other couples, singles, and even on are own at times. I'm very bi and gay sexually open. I have a couple girlfriends, and even a bi male couple I spend time with. And I love each one for their own reasons, a lot of it sexual. But I don't connect with anyone better than my husband, which is why hes my husband. We don't keep any secrets, he knows when I'm of with so and so and I know when he's off with so and so. All of his "so and so's" are all girls or MF couples, which is fine. He's met all my extras and I've met all his. But 90% of the time it's just us and very close couples.

For the past two year I've deeply fantasied about seeing my husband with me and another man and them with eachother. I know he's comfortable being in contact with other men's genitals and fluids, I know a lot of men aren't. Personally since we've been together I've done more to him than another man or men could in a normal 3 some/4 some.

So do I simply tell him my fantasy and what I'd like him to do, and hope he doesn't just say no. We've both made some kinky requests and over 10 years neither of has really said "no". Do I pull the "it's my turn to be D" here's a cock or two and just get my fantasy checked off. Slowly introduce him to actual male intercourse. I think the closet he come to gay sex was once a guy was sucking his balls and shaft while he was half in me, but I don't think he knew who it was because I was blocking his view.

This all sounds so screwed up from a vanilla view.

 

[sexymanlick69]

keep trying

U might want to start off either a transexual if she looks hott and she has a dick who could resist sucking her cock? And anal play

 

[Y_Diner]

Y'all cum take a vacation in New Orleans! He'll like it when i'm licking his cock, with my finger massaging his prostate, while he goes in and out of you, and my tongue is moving between being on his dick as it enters your vagina, and some quick licks on your clit. ...prob. need my other hand to diddle your clit, huh? : -)

 

[tmmmbrrr]

For what it's worth, sometimes all it takes is time for any of us to get used to a different idea or perception and gradually come around to it.

Probably more on the order of years than weeks, but we're all evolving all the time and what would be more important to you -- that your hubby goes through the motions to please you or that he finally wants what you want and totally owns it?

 

[freakynova]

Just talk to him..... You two seem to have a pretty awesome relationship and what you want isn't that much of a stretch from what you're already doing. Tell him how much it turns you on and make sure he understands that it would never change the way you look at him. When I first told a woman that I cared about that I was bisexual I was terrified that she would think negatively of me, but with her reassurance our relationship grew significantly. Again, just talk to him.