Bi people in relationships

[xxCrystal4314xx]

does your other-half know you're bi? Are they ok with it? Are they also bi?

I didn't know I was bi until after I got together with my (now) husband, and he has always been fine with it, encouraging me to be comfortable with my sexuality. He is also bi.

 

[Filly Gal]

does your other-half know you're bi? Are they ok with it? Are they also bi?

I didn't know I was bi until after I got together with my (now) husband, and he has always been fine with it, encouraging me to be comfortable with my sexuality. He is also bi.

Yes!
OH YES!
No!
was bi before, knew about it and still enjoy being bi!!

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Doh! Should I have asked whether or not said partner is the same gender or not as well? I can see me confusing myself and having to go for a lie down

 

[Linyari]

Yes, my husband knew I was bi long before we started seriously dating. He's always been okay with it.

Sadly, he is very straight. Ruining any guy/guy fantasies I have. *grin*

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Awwww I'm sorry you dont get to have the fun of the guy on guy stuff... we havent actually done that yet, but I can't wait to see it

 

[voir]

does your other-half know you're bi? Are they ok with it? Are they also bi?

I didn't know I was bi until after I got together with my (now) husband, and he has always been fine with it, encouraging me to be comfortable with my sexuality. He is also bi.

I didn't really realize I was bi until after I was married. My wife knows and loves the idea of me with another guy. She'd never actually go for it, but she loves the fantasy. She's bi as well, but she's so uncomfortable with her sexuality it would be hard to get her to enjoy it much. Basically, we end up with some dirty talk now and then and the rest is left to frustrated fantasies.

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

My husband still isn't as comfortable with it as he'd like to be. The furthest either of us have gone with anyone of the same sex was me kissing another girl for some photos we had done He and I often talk dirty about it, always keep an eye out for other newly bi couples to message with. I always think thats easier, because there isn't the physical contact etc.

 

[Linyari]

Awwww I'm sorry you dont get to have the fun of the guy on guy stuff... we havent actually done that yet, but I can't wait to see it

It's okay. We still get to do the girl on girl stuff which is fun. Plus, he has gay friends that get all flirty and fresh with him which I love to watch, even if it makes him blush. *grin*

 

[Calyph]

My husband still isn't as comfortable with it as he'd like to be. The furthest either of us have gone with anyone of the same sex was me kissing another girl for some photos we had done He and I often talk dirty about it, always keep an eye out for other newly bi couples to message with. I always think thats easier, because there isn't the physical contact etc.

Thats not quite true, actually... I've given a guy oral... only the once and if I had the choice I'd change who I did it with, but I'd still have done it.

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

ok ok, I conceed

You have done more than me Poor old me.

 

[ChainedRebel]

Yes
Yes
Yes

And yes, we've both played in each other's presence.

 

[Peg_Bundy]

Yes.

I told hubby on our first date that i was bi.


Yes.

He's totally ok with it.


Yes.

He's more of bi-curious. I asked him several years ago if he would ever be willing to try it himself and he said no. This past year he expressed interest in it cause he see's how much i enjoy sucking/fucking cock.

 

[Riley_James]

Known for years

My hubby has known that I was bi for our entire marriage. He encouraged it early and we shared a gf for ten years. The one think that you never count on is falling in love with another person when you started out just to "play." Life has a way of throwing you curves...that's for sure.

My inclination now is still 50/50 male/female, but I have lately been more interested in helping bi guys explore their sexuality. So much fun!!!

 

[RavenousRae]

I'm not in a relationship at the moment but for the ones I've been in my significant others have always been accepting. Although one man was slightly uncomfortable with the fact that we would both be checking out women, and one loved the fact. I think it helps to be with someone that is not only comfortable with their sexuality but trusting that you are in this relationship with them. Of course that kind of trust needs to be established in any relationship but for some people it gets even more complicated when you bring in both genders to the equation.

 

[jays78]

does your other-half know you're bi? Are they ok with it? Are they also bi?

I didn't know I was bi until after I got together with my (now) husband, and he has always been fine with it, encouraging me to be comfortable with my sexuality. He is also bi.

I'm getting bi feelings and no my other half doesn't know. I've never been w/ a man, but the thoughts are there.

 

[Bandit58]

does your other-half know you're bi? Yes

Are they ok with it? Yes

Are they also bi? No

I have a regular fem play partner. I play with her alone, a couple of times a month, with his blessing

My Husband and I have also been in a couple of threesomes (FFM). This is something we want to continue exploring, when we find the right person.

 

[Kierae]

Yes, I have always been up front with all my partners/relationships from the beginning (been chasing girls since I was 14). My husband is fine with it and has always been fine with me doing whatever I need/want to do (ie he doesn't have to be "involved"). Is he bi - hmmm only he could truly answer that one. I would say he is clearly an androgynous bicurious type who isn't adverse to anything since it is dependent upon the person presenting.

~kierae

 

[michaelinteas]

I am BI

My wofe is not and she is not accepting of my bi side.

OH how I miss it

 

[versatile1]

I told almost all the girls I dated that I was curious (once I realized that I probably was bi), so yes she knows and I let her know pretty early on.

Evidentally, she was okay with it, as she married me and we did manage a mmf 3sum once. This is not a simple question though. While it can be a turn on for her (the 3sum was), I think she would prefer that I not be bi. I suspect if the right person/persons and circumstances happened, she would be fine with another go. She certainly would not be fine with my going out on my own to have sex with a guy.

I can't say that she is bi, but again, she said she might be into experimenting with the right person/persons and circumstances.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I didn't truly realize I was bi or into BDSM until after my marriage. I did know the tendencies were there. Hubby is not okay with either thing. He thinks bi people just can't make up their mind and that BDSM people are insane.

Ivy

 

[michaelinteas]

I didn't truly realize I was bi or into BDSM until after my marriage. I did know the tendencies were there. Hubby is not okay with either thing. He thinks bi people just can't make up their mind and that BDSM people are insane.

Ivy

That's exactly what my wife said

 

[alltherage]

I am bi and with a woman at present. My husband knew when we got married and encouraged me to try to pursue my bi side inside the marriage. The catch was he wanted to be involved. I did nothing for a long time. We tried with his insistance to introduce another female to our sex life. Unfortunately his notion was that he would be the center of attention. When he was not he became very jealous and eventually violent. I left him soon after the first punch. I am bi, prefer women, but love no strings attached sex with men. Some people might say I am a slut. I am not, but I won't ever commit myself to anyone who does not accept me for who I am. I find most men can't.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

That's exactly what my wife said

LOL...It kind of sucks doesn't it?

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I am bi and with a woman at present. My husband knew when we got married and encouraged me to try to pursue my bi side inside the marriage. The catch was he wanted to be involved. I did nothing for a long time. We tried with his insistance to introduce another female to our sex life. Unfortunately his notion was that he would be the center of attention. When he was not he became very jealous and eventually violent. I left him soon after the first punch. I am bi, prefer women, but love no strings attached sex with men. Some people might say I am a slut. I am not, but I won't ever commit myself to anyone who does not accept me for who I am. I find most men can't.

Interesting. I'm the "opposite" in that I prefer men but want no strings attached sex with women (friendship would be nice though). I just find it fascintating how we are all "wired."

 

[michaelinteas]

LOL...It kind of sucks doesn't it?

Yes, It does suck