Bi-Ladies in Straight Relationships

EuroGalSal

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as you can guess by now, i think i may be a bi-lady in a straight relationship. if any similar ladies are out there reading this, are there any tell tale differences between sex with a guy and sex with another lady. i just want to know if i'm really bi or just bi-curious, i'm not looking to experiment.
Sal.
 
EuroGalSal said:
as you can guess by now, i think i may be a bi-lady in a straight relationship. if any similar ladies are out there reading this, are there any tell tale differences between sex with a guy and sex with another lady. i just want to know if i'm really bi or just bi-curious, i'm not looking to experiment.
Sal.
Sal,
Your question isn't even answerable. Sex with a guy and sex with another woman are two entirely different things. There is a sort of continum. Lesbianism on one end and Heterosexualism on the other. In between is a thing called PREFERENCE:

Bi-curious - I'd like to know more about it and maybe try it.
Bi - I've done it both ways

Personally, I'm Bi but I have a strong preference for women. However, if a really great guy came along I wouldn't hesitate to have sex with him.

But answering your question is really impossible because they are so different.

(Guys... Put your little weeners back in your pants and don't get any ideas and stay out of my pm box.)
 
Jenny_Jackson said:
Personally, I'm Bi but I have a strong preference for women. However, if a really great guy came along I wouldn't hesitate to have sex with him.
*puts on some cool porn music*

(Guys... Put your little weeners back in your pants and don't get any ideas and stay out of my pm box.)
*Throws porn CD against the wall, shattering into a million pieces*

Damn... I almost felt like I had a shot for a minute.
;)
 
*waves* Hi to all here...Sal (nice to see you again), Jenny and RawHumor!

Bi is bi when you've done it and enjoyed it I think. I'm in the bi-curious realm and probably will stay there in RL. But I'll play around at Lit with this! LOL.

Gotta go...*poof* Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee... :catroar:
 
I'm not sure if I would do it in RL either but I have to admit, I do fantasize about it...quite often.
 
s.desire01 said:
I'm not sure if I would do it in RL either but I have to admit, I do fantasize about it...quite often.

I feel the same way. I am still young, but am tired of the way guys have treated me. I am very curious about the emotional as well as erotic side of a relationship with another woman.

I also must confess that I have those fantasies, too! Some get quite steamy!
 
I was involved once as a sub to another female. It was new and exciting! I loved the feeling of being dominated and controlled in every way....my dress, my actions....sex! Once, she ordered pizza and made me answer the door completely naked! I was so embarrassed.....and turned on at the same time!

Eventually it went further and she would control me in front of other people and let them touch me if they wished.

She made me serve at a party of hers wearing nothing but a maids apron! I stayed wet the entire evening!

Its been over ever since she moved away but, oh, the memories!
 
EuroGalSal said:
as you can guess by now, i think i may be a bi-lady in a straight relationship. if any similar ladies are out there reading this, are there any tell tale differences between sex with a guy and sex with another lady. i just want to know if i'm really bi or just bi-curious, i'm not looking to experiment.
Sal.

YES, there are incredible differences. But its only when you allow yourself to experience them, meaning with a woman can you truly appreciate them! The example that seems to fit is the difference between yin and yang, as 1 is male and the othe female.
Have fun exploring your sexuality and enjoy your self!!
 
EuroGalSal said:
as you can guess by now, i think i may be a bi-lady in a straight relationship. if any similar ladies are out there reading this, are there any tell tale differences between sex with a guy and sex with another lady. i just want to know if i'm really bi or just bi-curious, i'm not looking to experiment.
Sal.


I'm a bi man, so it might be different for me than it would be for you. However, yes, there are enormous differences between sex with a man and sex with a woman. One very nice thing about the <b>good</b> single-sex relationships that I've had is that there is a very nice symbiosis--you know what each other want, and how to give it to each other--there are no mystery roles to decode, no "how does this feel", just a sense of knowing what's going on.

Of course, then, there's the general assholedness of most men that makes them pretty undateable, not to mention a general aggressiveness in the bedroom that is a huge problem for me.
 
Interesting comment

FrenchMustard said:
I'm a bi man, so it might be different for me than it would be for you. However, yes, there are enormous differences between sex with a man and sex with a woman. One very nice thing about the <b>good</b> single-sex relationships that I've had is that there is a very nice symbiosis--you know what each other want, and how to give it to each other--there are no mystery roles to decode, no "how does this feel", just a sense of knowing what's going on.

Of course, then, there's the general assholedness of most men that makes them pretty undateable, not to mention a general aggressiveness in the bedroom that is a huge problem for me.


French mustard you made two intersting comment sin your last paragraph. Can you expand on the two. thanks

C
 
thanx

thanx for the reactions to my thread and hello to all the familiar names.
i think there are a lot of bi-curious ladies out there but on the other hand doesn't everyone agree that us ladies are the more attractive sex anyway so is it just appreciation of beauty?
Sal.
 
DimplesCharlie said:
French mustard you made two intersting comment sin your last paragraph. Can you expand on the two. thanks

C

as to the first, I've just seen guys have a general problem with calling the next morning, or being clear about anything that is non-sexual. By no definition of the term, other than the sexual one, the guy's I've dated have all been horrrible signifigant others (though I've only regularly dated 3 men).

As to the second, let's just leave it at when I stop moving, and say "I'm getting <b>really</b> sore, please stop" or "I'm not into piss play" I shouldn't have to say it a second time before the sentence has the desired effect.
 
EuroGalSal said:
thanx for the reactions to my thread and hello to all the familiar names.
i think there are a lot of bi-curious ladies out there but on the other hand doesn't everyone agree that us ladies are the more attractive sex anyway so is it just appreciation of beauty?
Sal.

I think there are really as many bi/bi-curious men out there as there are women--just waaaaay more closeted bi men.
 
I agree with both Eurogal Sal and FrenchMustard. There probably are as many bi curious guys as women BUT it appears women are more open and bi women are more accepted than biguys. I guess it is a "guy thing".

Macho men just don't with guys, but they sure like to see the ladies. Double standard.

C
 
spreadwide said:
I was involved once as a sub to another female. It was new and exciting! I loved the feeling of being dominated and controlled in every way....my dress, my actions....sex! Once, she ordered pizza and made me answer the door completely naked! I was so embarrassed.....and turned on at the same time!

Eventually it went further and she would control me in front of other people and let them touch me if they wished.

She made me serve at a party of hers wearing nothing but a maids apron! I stayed wet the entire evening!

Its been over ever since she moved away but, oh, the memories!

We need a few drinks over by the fireplace......;)
 
I'm a bi-woman in a straight relationship and I agree, there are many differences. But I have to say that I'm dead center. I love them both equally. ;)
 
spreadwide said:
I was involved once as a sub to another female. It was new and exciting! I loved the feeling of being dominated and controlled in every way....my dress, my actions....sex! Once, she ordered pizza and made me answer the door completely naked! I was so embarrassed.....and turned on at the same time!

Eventually it went further and she would control me in front of other people and let them touch me if they wished.

She made me serve at a party of hers wearing nothing but a maids apron! I stayed wet the entire evening!

Its been over ever since she moved away but, oh, the memories!

Sounds like you two had fun! :D
 
I'm married, and bi-curious. I want to know more, and am interested in finding a friend to help me learn more, both through talking and... whatever.
I've had bi friends, but never really came to think about it until they moved away... and I've regretted not talking to either of them ever since.
The best way to find out about anything is to ask someone with experience with what you want to learn about. If you have bi friends who are open about their relationships, and you aren't shy yourself, ask them questions. My friends were more than willing to answer the few questions I felt comfortable asking... it wasn't until they moved that I realized I had so much more I wanted to know.
 
I don't know what I am and I don't care...

I am happily married with two children and a great husband. So great that when I told him about some of my fantasies (which sometimes included women) he was all for me acting on it.

I did not really have any girl-girl fantasies until I was on a woman's rowing team in college and we girls slept four to a hotel room. Some things happened there, not much (at least with me), but that is another story. But I replayed those hotel room memories so many times in my head with with many different endings that I just had to reach into my panties if hubby was not around.

With the green light from my hubby and in my mid-30s, I got to play with several woman and still can if I want.

So am I a happily married heterosexual lady? Yes, I luv my hubby and luv his cock in me. Am I bi? Well I love the taste and the feel so call me what you want.

I feel like a normal suburban mom who has has some guilt free fun in bed with other women.
 
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