Im looking for some advice or experiences to help me ease into my hubby being with another man. I have never been involved with a guy that is bisexual and I am really leary because I dnt know if I will enjoy it and I don't want it to ruin our relationship. please help!
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webshooter69
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Hi JLT,
I am an older Bi guy, now single, but both of my exes were comfortable with me being Bi. My second wife and I actually played together with several other Bi men. I would suggest you start with some Bi porn, at home in private, and talk about it. Honesty is essential here, so look into each others eyes and try hard. From there you might, if they are around, try adult bookstores with booths, especially with holes. That still allows him to suck another guy and you can find vout what your reactions are and how you feel, without really involving anyone else. If it is a problem for either of you he just stops, and you go home and talk about it. No apologies or pressure from another guy.
I recently was at a booth with a hole, and could tell there was a woman with a guy on the other side. He sid thru, and I went down on him for a while. He pulled back and she stood facing the wall so I could play a little bit with her, actually licking her clit a bit. I heard them talking about it all andconvinced them to go to one of the large booths where I serviced them both to multiple orgasms!
As we were all getting dressed, she shared with me that it was their first time together. He apparently had explored a little by himself. I have since been to their house and they to mine twice.
I hope this helps a little.
I am an older Bi guy, now single, but both of my exes were comfortable with me being Bi. My second wife and I actually played together with several other Bi men. I would suggest you start with some Bi porn, at home in private, and talk about it. Honesty is essential here, so look into each others eyes and try hard. From there you might, if they are around, try adult bookstores with booths, especially with holes. That still allows him to suck another guy and you can find vout what your reactions are and how you feel, without really involving anyone else. If it is a problem for either of you he just stops, and you go home and talk about it. No apologies or pressure from another guy.
I recently was at a booth with a hole, and could tell there was a woman with a guy on the other side. He sid thru, and I went down on him for a while. He pulled back and she stood facing the wall so I could play a little bit with her, actually licking her clit a bit. I heard them talking about it all andconvinced them to go to one of the large booths where I serviced them both to multiple orgasms!
As we were all getting dressed, she shared with me that it was their first time together. He apparently had explored a little by himself. I have since been to their house and they to mine twice.
I hope this helps a little.
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Left out? Why "left out"? It's called sharing. Find a guy that you can both enjoy. My ex loved to watch and/or direct. She loved for him to watch us and me to watch them. She also thoroughly loved being the center of attention as he and I shared her together and she loved it when she and I shared him together. Trust me, if the situation is right, no one should be "left out".
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