BI-GUY's WHO NEED SOME PRODDING...

[vacation_guy]

??????

 

[sseg]

With what?

With what would you like to be prodded? I have something long and hard, well, hard at any rate, here I can use.

 

[Reshbod]

I guess I could count in this. I have been curious for a few years now but have never had the guts to follow through. I'm not currently in a relationship and have been toying with the idea of actually having a non-straight relationship. The way I am morally and the fact that I am a bit of a germ-a-phobe means that anonymous or a one night stand are out of the question. I have been chatting with someone I met on a dating site for a little while. The idea of actually meeting was just brought up and I am torn between chickening out and ending it before it starts or actually going through with it. Right now, I don't think I will be able to do it, even though I have wanted to for quite some time.

 

[Johnny Rockets]

I'm feeling kinda slutty today

I don't think I need much prodding. I mean I really, really want some deep, long prodding but at this moment I don't think it would take much to convince me to just take it. The prodding that is. Or whatever, I don't know. Haven't had anyone try to prod me lately, other than my one firend who always manages to inform me he's got a "huge" cock. His words, not mine as I've never seen and he's never offered to prove. I don't even think he's into guys, but if he is and it is (his dick is really that damn big), I'd do whatever he wanted me to do right now.

 

[Guest]

I guess I could count in this. I have been curious for a few years now but have never had the guts to follow through. I'm not currently in a relationship and have been toying with the idea of actually having a non-straight relationship. The way I am morally and the fact that I am a bit of a germ-a-phobe means that anonymous or a one night stand are out of the question. I have been chatting with someone I met on a dating site for a little while. The idea of actually meeting was just brought up and I am torn between chickening out and ending it before it starts or actually going through with it. Right now, I don't think I will be able to do it, even though I have wanted to for quite some time.

It's just a meeting. Go. Pick some place neutral and quiet enough to talk, plan it to be short (coffee, a drink) and if it is good, you can extend it. If it's not, you can bail. But not going through will leave you always wondering and wanting. Take a step. It isn't over a cliff

 

[brw02]

where are the guys who want to do the prodding? it would seem to be a lot of effort for a gay guy to seduce a bicurious guy. other gay guys would seem like a better bet for them. there must be guys who like fresh meat, but i don't know where they are.

 

[brw02]

Maybe these guys with a "prod" are just an illusion. I don't see any coming forward. I read a lot of stories from guys who acknowledge a curiosity about other men but they have never been approached. I would think that a gay man could score pretty regularly if he took the time. I also think a lot of men die before they ever get the experience they fantasize about. Maybe I'm wrong, but that is the way it looks to me.

 

[brw02]

Nobody has made any response yet. Aside from sseg, I don't see many men who are interested in bicurious guys. I'm not really surprised because I read where a lot of guys are looking but still waiting. I still think an aggressive guy with a "prod" would make out real well.

 

[xxfactor]

...still waiting for that 'prod' as well. I've chatted with numerous men on line, but have not taken that 'final step' yet. Yet being the operative word.

 

[sseg]

prodding...

Nobody has made any response yet. Aside from sseg, I don't see many men who are interested in bicurious guys. I'm not really surprised because I read where a lot of guys are looking but still waiting. I still think an aggressive guy with a "prod" would make out real well.

I've introduced some people to new experiences and I've been the person pursued by aggressive men. I didn't particularly like the aggressive pursuit when I was still inexperienced, so I think that's one reason I don't want to push someone too hard. I'm going to take it slow and easy with anyone I know who is inexperienced, so it might take weeks or months of easing in to playing. That usually means I have to consider the person a friend, and that doesn't lend itself well to pushing someone hard to try something they are still unsure of.

 

[brw02]

That makes sense. The "prodding" does not have to be overly aggressive, which might drive some curious guys off. After reading a lot of the literature in here, it looks like there are a lot of men looking for someone like yourself.

 

[sseg]

poink!

That makes sense. The "prodding" does not have to be overly aggressive, which might drive some curious guys off. After reading a lot of the literature in here, it looks like there are a lot of men looking for someone like yourself.

I suppose so. I've had a number of male friends who, knowing I am bi, expressed curiousity to me. There's a lot of men who would like to try playing with another man but who for whatever reasons aren't really bisexual or even turned on by men.

 

[Etoile]

I am giggling about how people have given this thread a breath of life it did not start with. Go Team!

 

[OnHarry]

I've introduced some people to new experiences and I've been the person pursued by aggressive men. I didn't particularly like the aggressive pursuit when I was still inexperienced, so I think that's one reason I don't want to push someone too hard. I'm going to take it slow and easy with anyone I know who is inexperienced, so it might take weeks or months of easing in to playing. That usually means I have to consider the person a friend, and that doesn't lend itself well to pushing someone hard to try something they are still unsure of.

Like many I have actively chatted with guys online but a couple of times when they realized I was nearby they got very agressive, and while I really, really want to try this that agression really freaked me out and I left the chat. Of course I do realize that someone who is experienced and such proabably does not want to waste a lot of time with some newbie who can't summon the courage to take the next step.

Someday maybe.

 

[sseg]

prod prod

Like many I have actively chatted with guys online but a couple of times when they realized I was nearby they got very agressive, and while I really, really want to try this that agression really freaked me out and I left the chat. Of course I do realize that someone who is experienced and such proabably does not want to waste a lot of time with some newbie who can't summon the courage to take the next step.

Someday maybe.

If all you're looking to do is get a quick hook up then having to spend the time holding someone elses, errr, hand, and walk them through it is indeed a waste of time. It's an odds game, kind of like the guy hitting on women in a bar, spend a minute, then move on. Do this enough and you'll eventually score. This is especially important when you don't actually want to get to know the other person.

Of course, on the flip side, people looking for that person to be their first in a sensitive manner also tend to be not the most reliable. It sucks to put time and effort into getting to know someone only to have them disappear because they get cold feet.

People who are looking for a first experience are also often a little desperate, they are usually looking in places that aren't optimal, and the desperation tends to turn off people who aren't the odds-players but who might actually be what they are looking for.

Just my $.02...

 

[OnHarry]

If all you're looking to do is get a quick hook up then having to spend the time holding someone elses, errr, hand, and walk them through it is indeed a waste of time. It's an odds game, kind of like the guy hitting on women in a bar, spend a minute, then move on. Do this enough and you'll eventually score. This is especially important when you don't actually want to get to know the other person.

Of course, on the flip side, people looking for that person to be their first in a sensitive manner also tend to be not the most reliable. It sucks to put time and effort into getting to know someone only to have them disappear because they get cold feet.

People who are looking for a first experience are also often a little desperate, they are usually looking in places that aren't optimal, and the desperation tends to turn off people who aren't the odds-players but who might actually be what they are looking for.

Just my $.02...

I don't disagree with anything you say, I guess in a perfect world it would be ideal to find someoen with limited or no experience either who is willing to feel their way with you so to speak.

There is no easy solution particularily when so many males are interested but fear discovery by peers or mates. Sigh no one said life would be easy.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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