Bi guys (or gals)--how often do you crave cock vs. pussy?

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Do you desire them both equally, or do you go in phases?

I'm currently single with no partner, but as far as fantasy and desire goes, I seem to go in stretches.

There will be a week when all I can think about is sucking a big cock or getting a good ass-fucking, and then I'll have a few days where all I can think about is burying my face in a nice hairy, wet pussy for hours on end.

Although I've never had any emotional/romantic attraction to men, when it comes to sex I think I'm a true bisexual, as sex with men and women appeals to me pretty equally. I don't think I could say that I prefer one over the other, although the desire for one over the other seems to randomly shift for me during the course of a month.

I'm curious as to other people's take.
 
Every once in a while I'll mull over the idea of wanting a boyfriend, sometimes I want a nice dick to suck. I much prefer women to men, and transmen and transwomen over cis.
 
Its closer to 80/20 for me. 80% leaning more toward women. I love pleasing a woman. I love everything about women. I cant see myself ever being in a relationship with a man. other then some occasional physical fun.
 
When I was actively bisexual I seemed to feel the need for cock about every 6 months more or less.

Fortunately it was easy to find guys for a satisfying one night romp.

I need a lot more pussy to keep me happy. Several times a week is about right
 
Now that I have discovered transgender women, I am only interested in them. I absolutely love sucking cock and being fucked but I am only attracted to women.
 
Hmm

I crave cock and cum every day luckily I have one and it seems to have an endless supply of cum
I crave pussy too, mostly on weekends when she is home from work and teases me in her yoga pants
 
hey...

When I am craving sex, I'm not just craving that release I need the entire experience. I don't focus on women over men or vice versa, I just get in an accepting attitude of whatever comes my way to relieve my discomfort .
I also never blow one off because something else came up...UNLESS it was my wife then---! I drop EVERYTHING and tend to her.
 
The desire and urge for a nice hard cock is a daily struggle for me.
I need one to play with, kiss it, and invite him to my mouth. Please cum in
 
Swings and roundabouts

I go through phases most definitely.
Just now it’s all about the cock to put it plainly.
But a couple of years back I went through a very lesbian phase. But I also class my self as non-binary and just now my feelings and emotions are more feminine, I look more feminine etc. When I was going through my lesbian phase I was quite the boi, had my hair like Pink and definitely more masculine in nature.
 
About 80/20 for me, probably more through convenience. I have a regular partner for MM but feel the occasional urge for pussy.
 
Do you desire them both equally, or do you go in phases?

I'm currently single with no partner, but as far as fantasy and desire goes, I seem to go in stretches.

There will be a week when all I can think about is sucking a big cock or getting a good ass-fucking, and then I'll have a few days where all I can think about is burying my face in a nice hairy, wet pussy for hours on end.

Although I've never had any emotional/romantic attraction to men, when it comes to sex I think I'm a true bisexual, as sex with men and women appeals to me pretty equally. I don't think I could say that I prefer one over the other, although the desire for one over the other seems to randomly shift for me during the course of a month.

I'm curious as to other people's take.

I'm in the same boat. In fact, all of my life i have had sex with both men and women, but have only been interested in women emotionally. I just gravitate to them naturally. With men, it's an erotic thing. I don't feel in any way drawn to having a relationship with a man. As fo0r meandering lust, it depends on the week. Sometimes I'm totally obsessed with sucking a big beautiful cock, while other weeks I'm just as obsessed with a big hairy pussy. I have no idea what drives all of this, but it hasn't changed since I was a teen and I'm now almost 60.
 
I tend to absolutely crave men every few months. But usually I am about 55% straight. An ex liked to tease me about barely being straight, but she was a huge fan of watching gay porn together, so it never hurt.
 
I'm in the same boat. In fact, all of my life i have had sex with both men and women, but have only been interested in women emotionally. I just gravitate to them naturally. With men, it's an erotic thing. I don't feel in any way drawn to having a relationship with a man. As fo0r meandering lust, it depends on the week. Sometimes I'm totally obsessed with sucking a big beautiful cock, while other weeks I'm just as obsessed with a big hairy pussy. I have no idea what drives all of this, but it hasn't changed since I was a teen and I'm now almost 60.

Yep, I'm in my early 50's, but exactly the same for me since I was a teenager.

It seems like when most straight guys go through puberty a bright light goes on for them that says "wow, breasts, pussies, and asses are awesome!". I got that as well, but I also got "and so are cocks and balls!" And it's never changed.
 
Well I'm fortunate enough to be getting pussy on a regular basis. So I tend to fantasize about having a bi experience almost daily. Probably the excitement of something different.
 
is there a correct answer to this ?

To be honest it's definitely both .... but lately its been pussy! Love to wake up in the morning craving a wet/ delicious pussy in my mouth !!!
 
I get all the pussy I want pretty much whenever I want as my wife is usually game. So craving wise is more cock as that is more of a rarity. Some strap-on play does serve as a relief valve in between finding bi threesomes.
 
During a Cumulus Breezy Engagement, which is few x week. I immediately lust for some Firmed Fleshsicle!!
 
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