Bi-Fem to play with Fun, Erotic, Flaming Redheaded Fiance

[Indulgence]

The thread name pretty much covers it. My fiance and I have been together close to 2 years. We are very secure, and have shared each other with real friends of the opposite sex, with the outcome being even more understanding and loyalty for having found a mate in one-another that actually is who they say they are. Those times have been null as of late with both of us concentrating on our own future, but we are wanting to play a little again.

The ideal female would be one that would chat/interchange and enjoy my woman first and foremost, but would also include me within her, in fantasies and associations as well as part of the whole interchange. Translation, I don't need another woman's attentions to validate my own sexual ego / prowess as my own more than covers that area, however, there doesn't need to be an extreme sway from you, prospective fun, sexy, spirited, naughty woman, to either one of us over the other, and yet I want to observe her enjoying herself with you immensely because I will enjoy our real togetherness as she enjoys you. I will in fact be your "remote actual" doing to her what you are fantasizing, chat/phone, etc. Which speaks fairly since I'm not a sub, but rather an attentive dom when it comes to her and I having fun. Still, a dom male should know how to let his sub woman select her temperaments of control and sexual interests of the moment, without going into great explanation , (pick up on her particular "desired weaknesses" of the time), and help her achieve the fulfillment of the man/woman in charge.

An added benefit, she too will turn the tables and delightfully reciprocate any roles, fantasies, and desires of myself and you the female of interest for mutually gratifying and stimulating times.

This isn't a bogus offering, and there really is the two of us, and proof could be provided if once the two of you have chatted/talked on the phone, to insure this isn't just another one of those "men who want this" ads. Too rebutt our actuality would be a red-flag as distrust is a strongly real sign of a negativity, which is way beyond what is acceptable for us, as the same should be for your own self-esteem and presence. In sum, if you come across doubtful or hesitant in regards to the validity of our advertisement, then you must realize that you would be a distraction at best while we are seeking to enjoy interactions without all the "bs smelling of each others butts first" syndrome that equates on dogs of different backgrounds. It's really simple, if you are interested then please let us know, as she is just as much a part of "Indulgence" at all times, present or not on her part, as has always been the agreement. In return we promise you extraordinary cyber fun, and while that doesn't set a limit off the course of real fun sometime, it simply shows we are anonymous and assuring of your privacy and need to live out sexuality without fear of discovery, flashback, or any later regret.

This is the explanation to achieve for ourselves and those women possible interested what to expect. Now, we don't expect anything, and yet we are anxious to let her have fun with you. It can be as innocent as a teasing flirtation, or as wild as the nastiest of sexual decadencies. The sooner the better, because we've already given up on Adult Freak Finders

Contact us soon. And, pass the word to one who would be a good party if not yourselves. Hug; (a hug spelled out in the cyber world is a very warm sign).

 

[Indulgence]

Addendum

Surely this is just an observation of unclarity over the last few months, and yet I must ask this question [as if an answer will boom forth from the skies any moment]. Has Literotica turned into nothing but a place for men needing attention, or wanting to see if they can get their own fantasies fulfilled, even under guise of what they offer, and women who already have the connections they want in place, or... is there women available here who are seeking substance in a couple for which sexuality, and dare we say, even friendship can find foundation? This isn't a dare, or a rebuff of these forums we come to interchange within. Simply a question worthy of a poll that wasn't designed when this thread was posted. I've been here for over 3 years, though I have changed names to suit my new life, relationship, and pursuits within in a more discreet fashion - and this place really needs a jump start badly when it comes to social/cyber/sexual interaction. In as much as we seek our own mutually stimulating times herein, my gal and I are definitely a move in the right direction in recovery from the backward steps that scream of notice.

 

[Brandy1969]

Threesome or a Novel??

I take it you are just looking for another woman to join the two of you for a threesome, correct? Just making sure. After reading that novel you wrote (which was well-written by the way), I wanted to double-check.

 

[Indulgence]

I take it you are just looking for another woman to join the two of you for a threesome, correct? Just making sure. After reading that novel you wrote (which was well-written by the way), I wanted to double-check.

Not necessarily. Someone for her to play with is the primary pursuit, however she will want to include me in some fashion at some point, whether it's me acting out things the other woman is describing to her, or to allow the FFM experience to take form, or perhaps just to help the two of them enhance their own bi-sexual interchange. For example, it just depends on what her and you desire at the time, or if it's transparent to you, what involvement with her she expresses to me. I will enjoy it as an observer, or a perverter, either way.

 

[Guttergoddess]

an idea of WHERE might help I totally understand that you're just looking for a female...wish ya'll were lookin for a couple...while BF will on occassion allow me to play on my own...I love having him there as well.....it always makes my pleasure multiply.

 

[Indulgence]

an idea of WHERE might help I totally understand that you're just looking for a female...wish ya'll were lookin for a couple...while BF will on occassion allow me to play on my own...I love having him there as well.....it always makes my pleasure multiply.

Well actually we do want to meet a couple, rather than an extra single necessarily. Last night I wanted her to get a special treat if possible from another woman so I posted this thread for her. It turned out to be fun for her when a girl pm'd me, and I told my girl to take over my place and just enjoy herself. Still, as some chats go, after they were through chatting, I believe it would have been better to have had more "leading up to" interchange to build a fantasy setting, because she's so used to me building a story around the seduction/scenario which get her focused and able to envision more realistically. It was certainly worth while for her and she was one wet horny slut in heat when we headed to the bedroom. (interesting history next post)

 

[Indulgence]

Back to the couples thing, yes, we would like to share experiences with another couple very much, whether it's online or in person. We were a part of AFF for 4 months, gold, but we never hooked up with anyone, because she was more interested in finding a female to join us for my pleasure, and hers if she were bi. She's an awesome love, as well as lover. In person would be great except there needs to be a level of comfort in getting to know them at least a bit before sharing and so on. Her first husband wanted them to swap with another couple they knew, and she wasn't really into it with the other husband, but did it more than anything to keep from being a party pooper and make her husband happy. As it turned out the other wife and her husband really just wanted to have an "affair" as they slept together all night, and then the next morning were hesitant in rejoining their own mates.

It took a lot of understanding, and a year of my helping her realize that I have never been, or ever will be, a man that wants to have an open relationship for any reason other than sexual desire, no feelings possible. Over the year she got more and more into the fantasies we shared, and began to believe in me for who I said I was. She shared me with a couple of girls we know about 3 months apart last summer and we grew so much closer together. She is very comfortable with everything, feels more loved, and I certainly gained more love and respect from her for being real about everything. She didn't have a chance to enjoy another man in her own threeway until about 3 weeks ago. It was great and there was never a question about anything afterwards, let alone any worries or questions. We've talked and she is wanting to meet a couple now, something she was very nervous about when we met, because of how hurt she was over 20 years ago.

I wrote all of this to create an understanding for anyone here at lit that would be curious how the sharing works, and how to approach it with someone who's not as sure, but is willing to learn from someone such as myself that has been in open relationships more than not my entire life. This ad was originally for her to experience something, at least in a cyber sense that she's grown quite an urge for in recent months, girl-girl, and while it's not a qualification, we are needing a couple that is equally connected and able to let sex be sex. Another bad experience for her in such a foursome would most likely ruin what we've established in our ability to play seperately in fantasy only, while we experience the real such adventures always together, regardless of another woman, man, or couple.

My instincts say you and your bf would be a great couple to get to meet, and have fun with. We may be in Georgia and you in New Jersey, but that's never stopped anything before. Another lover and I once drove 1200 miles round trip to enjoy one fantastic 3 day weekend with another couple, we had only met through an ad, and talked to on the phone a few times before. Who knows?

 

[Guttergoddess]

I owe you a really good, long detailed answer...but at the moment...I'm hungry...and just heard him stirring upstairs...so I'm gonna go get a snack

 

[Indulgence]

I owe you a really good, long detailed answer...but at the moment...I'm hungry...and just heard him stirring upstairs...so I'm gonna go get a snack

GG you don't "owe" me anything, but I look forward to hearing from you soon. It's been so boring at this cyber-city, so I've stayed away and just checked in from time to time. I just noticed something that isn't a first. I advertised for women of any age, build, sexual preference, etc to pm or drop a line if they were interested in email or chat (another ad I started last night for the times I'm wanting entertaining time with someone when she is into her own things and has had fun already), and I've got 0, none, replies or pm's, but some guy puts "Filthy Whore Wanted" and within 20 minutes, someones responded either new, or as an alt (and I'd even take an alt if someone's wishing to keep their kinks away from their normal s/n). Now if I had put that same thing "Filthy Whore Wanted" about 2 or 3 women would have probably replied, "then go pay for a hooker asshole". I'm just "cleansing", not upset, I've grown used to being invisible even though I'm not. See ya soon.

 

[Guttergoddess]

Back to the couples thing, yes, we would like to share experiences with another couple very much, whether it's online or in person. We were a part of AFF for 4 months, gold, but we never hooked up with anyone, because she was more interested in finding a female to join us for my pleasure, and hers if she were bi. She's an awesome love, as well as lover. In person would be great except there needs to be a level of comfort in getting to know them at least a bit before sharing and so on. Her first husband wanted them to swap with another couple they knew, and she wasn't really into it with the other husband, but did it more than anything to keep from being a party pooper and make her husband happy. As it turned out the other wife and her husband really just wanted to have an "affair" as they slept together all night, and then the next morning were hesitant in rejoining their own mates.

It took a lot of understanding, and a year of my helping her realize that I have never been, or ever will be, a man that wants to have an open relationship for any reason other than sexual desire, no feelings possible. Over the year she got more and more into the fantasies we shared, and began to believe in me for who I said I was. She shared me with a couple of girls we know about 3 months apart last summer and we grew so much closer together. She is very comfortable with everything, feels more loved, and I certainly gained more love and respect from her for being real about everything. She didn't have a chance to enjoy another man in her own threeway until about 3 weeks ago. It was great and there was never a question about anything afterwards, let alone any worries or questions. We've talked and she is wanting to meet a couple now, something she was very nervous about when we met, because of how hurt she was over 20 years ago.

I wrote all of this to create an understanding for anyone here at lit that would be curious how the sharing works, and how to approach it with someone who's not as sure, but is willing to learn from someone such as myself that has been in open relationships more than not my entire life. This ad was originally for her to experience something, at least in a cyber sense that she's grown quite an urge for in recent months, girl-girl, and while it's not a qualification, we are needing a couple that is equally connected and able to let sex be sex. Another bad experience for her in such a foursome would most likely ruin what we've established in our ability to play seperately in fantasy only, while we experience the real such adventures always together, regardless of another woman, man, or couple.

My instincts say you and your bf would be a great couple to get to meet, and have fun with. We may be in Georgia and you in New Jersey, but that's never stopped anything before. Another lover and I once drove 1200 miles round trip to enjoy one fantastic 3 day weekend with another couple, we had only met through an ad, and talked to on the phone a few times before. Who knows?

BF and I started our relationship as an affair. Not something I'm proud of, but we're honest about where we came from. We were both in unhappy marriages, but mostly were looking for sexual interation when we started seeing one another. It wasn't a simple decision, matter of fact, it was logistically a nightmare, as he lives in PA, and I lived in North Jersey at the time. I hated lying and sneaking around. I prolly told my ex much sooner than BF would have preferred, but I couldn't easily lie. We went from the affair to living together. We did that for 2 years at a very stressful time of life for both of us. When a job opportunity came up in NJ, I took it knowing the space would be good for us to work through any issues we may have, and quite honestly, the money was too good to pass up. So now I commute to PA every other weekend (or so) to spend it with him, fulfilling our fantasies...or just cuddling, something we both miss entirely too much.

We discussed and decided to try a 3some. We invited a guy I had flirted with while I lived in PA (I flirt with anyone over the age of 18, male or female, it's just my personality) The poor guy almost had a heart attack when BF approached him, as BF is known for his possessiveness. Guy thought he was dead right there. So when I showed up to pick him up and bring him back to our place, I spent the ride convincing him I wouldn't let him get killed....I might make him think he'd died and gone to heaven...but he'd come down from that eventually.

We tried another MFM threesome before inviting a girl to join us. We were extremely happy with the results of the FFM threesome, and look forward to doing that again. Part of our fantasy life has revolved around a couple, as BF adores watching me suck cock, and I want to see him sucked at the same time...and if the girl is bi...well that opens up the combinations even more.

BF is well aware of all my activities on Lit..and if anyone interests me (as you have) he gets detailed accounts of my conversations. We both have MSN, so if you and your GF would like to arrange a time for a conference (I assume MSN has that capability, as you know I tend to hate anything Microsoft) let me know, and I'll see what we can do.

 

[Stegral]

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[Indulgence]

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Well now that you figured it out, perhaps you can let us all know? lmao

 

[Indulgence]

BF and I started our relationship as an affair. Not something I'm proud of, but we're honest about where we came from. We were both in unhappy marriages, but mostly were looking for sexual interation when we started seeing one another. It wasn't a simple decision, matter of fact, it was logistically a nightmare, as he lives in PA, and I lived in North Jersey at the time. I hated lying and sneaking around. I prolly told my ex much sooner than BF would have preferred, but I couldn't easily lie. We went from the affair to living together. We did that for 2 years at a very stressful time of life for both of us. When a job opportunity came up in NJ, I took it knowing the space would be good for us to work through any issues we may have, and quite honestly, the money was too good to pass up. So now I commute to PA every other weekend (or so) to spend it with him, fulfilling our fantasies...or just cuddling, something we both miss entirely too much.

We discussed and decided to try a 3some. We invited a guy I had flirted with while I lived in PA (I flirt with anyone over the age of 18, male or female, it's just my personality) The poor guy almost had a heart attack when BF approached him, as BF is known for his possessiveness. Guy thought he was dead right there. So when I showed up to pick him up and bring him back to our place, I spent the ride convincing him I wouldn't let him get killed....I might make him think he'd died and gone to heaven...but he'd come down from that eventually.

We tried another MFM threesome before inviting a girl to join us. We were extremely happy with the results of the FFM threesome, and look forward to doing that again. Part of our fantasy life has revolved around a couple, as BF adores watching me suck cock, and I want to see him sucked at the same time...and if the girl is bi...well that opens up the combinations even more.

BF is well aware of all my activities on Lit..and if anyone interests me (as you have) he gets detailed accounts of my conversations. We both have MSN, so if you and your GF would like to arrange a time for a conference (I assume MSN has that capability, as you know I tend to hate anything Microsoft) let me know, and I'll see what we can do.

This is coool as can be. I'll have to fill you in on how I originally got into this sort of stuff, and for now let it be said it was one of my ex-wives that pursued me to get involved in such matters. I was brought into a world I never knew existed (or else I would have probably auto-erotica'd myself into a brain-lock state by the time I was 16). I was "incensed" as Ray Stevens once put in a song. (No I Did Not Say Incessed folks)

We are very much looking forward to hearing more from you both, and though I'm here more often, she feeds off of my energy and mood here, which I will say with complete compliments, has got her juices going as of late, and now she's finally after this being my 3rd attempt in the past year, getting more involved with all of this online, because of finally getting some interaction. Strike 3 would have been "Lit is Dead and Gone" for me as well in all likelihood.

Which is why I've been trying so much to get people to associate with me here -- if I'm not having fun, she's not going to take much stock into this being a place for us, as she'd feel we're just wasting our time. She prefers I get things lined up whether it's for myself, herself or us. Yes she's a spoiled squirtin flirtin cum-quat queen but I'm a very very lucky man that she even shares me period, so there ya go. She'll get involved right away, IF (should be in 1 inch letters) it's got her attention, and she'll do a little casual chat as well about other things, but she's as I repeat, NOT an online chatting, spend-a-lot of time like this keyboard molester does.

 

[Indulgence]

(re my last post, about my girl's shorter keyboard time than myself, I should have put

Because she can't stop playing with herself, and someone has to have their hands on the steering wheel!

Well it's the truth. I've seen and joined, and took a break, and seen, then joined again, and another break, this girl go for 8 to 10 hours at one time, building and getting off. It's a trip to experience, let me tell you.