Bi experience only with a woman present

Daveinport

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I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.
 
I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.

I feel your pain...
 
I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.


I feel your pain.... I feel the same way....maybe becuase it would seem "less gay"?...not that there's anything wrong with that
 
I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.


I feel your pain.... I feel the same way....maybe becuase it would seem "less gay"?...not that there's anything wrong with that
 
I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.

Absolutely I'm with you 100%
 
I know there are similar threads such as "Straight but curious" and "Married and curious", but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.

For me, it's a huge fantasy, however, if I ever try it (and I would very much like to) there would have to be a woman involved.



I would consider it in that context... and others. I think that would be hot.
 
That's the context I'd try it out in first, then go from there. About a month ago I started to deal with the fact that I might be bi, or at least bicurious, but this is definitely the first time I'd test it, having a gf who's also bi definitely helps but we've not had an MMF or MFF 3some.
 
That is my biggest fantasy as well. I would love to suck my first cock with a woman watching, joining, or directing the action. I have never done anything with a guy before, but if a woman was into it I would suck in a minute. I have been searching for a woman or couple to do this with but so far no luck.
 
I know how you feel, as I used to feel that way, but now I've come to realize I wouldn't be against a one on one encounter.

Though a woman in the mix would add a tremendous amount to it.
 
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That's the context I'd try it out in first, then go from there. About a month ago I started to deal with the fact that I might be bi, or at least bicurious, but this is definitely the first time I'd test it, having a gf who's also bi definitely helps but we've not had an MMF or MFF 3some.

Well, before you go full into that, why not have your girlfriend, who does sound quite open-minded, wear a strapon and have her play the man? Here's the thing, why I say this... you cannot unfuck yourself. If you and she do invite a man, and you do things with the guy, things you later come to regret, etc... Here's another random analogy: Seems like every other day some guy posts something here or there about "I wanna watch a big stud fuck my [wife/girlfriend/SO/whatever], and almost invariably someone suggests playful banter with a toy.

Having said that, one of my more erotic experiences was in "making" my then-boyfriend suck another man for a little bit before they both did things that would have gotten us arrested in 2/3 of the Bible Belt.
 
Well, before you go full into that, why not have your girlfriend, who does sound quite open-minded, wear a strapon and have her play the man? Here's the thing, why I say this... you cannot unfuck yourself. If you and she do invite a man, and you do things with the guy, things you later come to regret, etc... Here's another random analogy: Seems like every other day some guy posts something here or there about "I wanna watch a big stud fuck my [wife/girlfriend/SO/whatever], and almost invariably someone suggests playful banter with a toy.

Having said that, one of my more erotic experiences was in "making" my then-boyfriend suck another man for a little bit before they both did things that would have gotten us arrested in 2/3 of the Bible Belt.

Good point. I've told her already that I'd be open to it if she wanted to try it, and she knows I'd moe than likely go through with it, so it's not like it's out of the question, but yeah, that all makes a lot of sense (and tbh, I've done things during sex that I could get arrested for throughout most of the Western World :p )
 
but I wanted to find out if there were others like myself who aren't really looking for a bi experience and would only consider it in the context of a MMF threeway where the woman requests or initiates it.
I have no desire to have a mm encounter, but if my g/f wants to see it AGAIN, I will have all the mm sex she wants to watch, so yeah I guess you can say there are others like yourself.
 
That is my biggest fantasy as well. I would love to suck my first cock with a woman watching, joining, or directing the action. I have never done anything with a guy before, but if a woman was into it I would suck in a minute. I have been searching for a woman or couple to do this with but so far no luck.

Exactly. Anything to please and turn on my wife. If she instructed and guided me through it i'd be all over it
 
Thanks everyone for the replies so far. Not that I didn't believe there others out there like myself... just wanted to start the dialog. For the record, I'm not feeling any pain because of my predicament (if you could call it that), just that it is something I think I would really enjoy trying.

Also for the record, my significant other is bisexual and we have had a couple of MFF threeways. That may sound great to some, however, I assure you it was only mildly amusing as the two were (in both cases) way more into each other than then with the gathering in general. Secondly, my significant other, since we first got together, has expressed her extreme dislike for anything remotely involving bi or gay men. So, I have kept my feelings to myself and although I would rather not cheat, I would strongly consider it for this one desire. Sort of a item I would like to check off the punch list.
 
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