Bi curious or bi-sexual?

[Guest]

I have been finding myself attracted to women for quite some time. I have fantasized about kissing but nothing more. Does that make it a bi-curious thing or bi-sexual thing?
I don't have anyone IRL to talk to about this kind of thing. I am married to someone I do love and I like having sex with men, just have these strong attractions to females too...

 

[robbie_boy1]

I have been finding myself attracted to women for quite some time. I have fantasized about kissing but nothing more. Does that make it a bi-curious thing or bi-sexual thing?
I don't have anyone IRL to talk to about this kind of thing. I am married to someone I do love and I like having sex with men, just have these strong attractions to females too...

Thanks for sharing, I hope you do what makes you happy. Your husband may like the fact, perhaps he could join in....it's all good!!

 

[Reshbod]

I'm kind of in the same boat as you are. I have been thinking about men in a sexual way for the last few years. At first I only thought about one or two specific acts (oral). As time goes on I find myself thinking about more and more. I have also been spending more time on gay porn sites online and rarely visit hetro sites. I have also been active in gay oriented chat rooms exploring and learning. I'm not sure I could actually have a homosexual encounter, but if the opportunity presents itself I don't think I would turn it down.

I feel I am just bi curious, because I don't see myself ever prefering men to women. I think it is something I just want to try for some reason. Who knows, I may try one of these days and never look back.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

You are who you are. Don't get too hung up on putting a name to it.

I have had lovely sensual thoughts of women all my life but have known I am more drawn to men. I have my first date with a lady this evening... last night after talking to her for an hour and a half. I was so damn horny. Tonight is about having coffee and meeting each other. We both feel we want another woman but have neither been there with one. So conversation should be interesting...

 

[Seduce]

My opinion is that you cannot be sure untill you try for real.
Fantasies my be ok, but once you try them out you may find it is not the same thing....... so I would call myself bi-courious till I was certain I like something as much in real as I liked it in my imagination.

I know I am bisexual for I am having ocassional sex with women since I was 16...... and I like it very much but only phisycally....... I could never fall in love with a woman, I can just be friends with some of them.
I fall in love with men strictly...... although I may enjoy sexual relationship with a woman very much it never lasts long.

 

[Kariszma83]

I love everybody!!

 

[Hawkeye1956]

Curious or Bisexual

I tried it many years ago with my best friend. He unfortunately passed away shortly after. It was erotic and fun. Sometimes I wish I could find a friend like that and try it again.

I tried personals, looking for someone with little or no experience, but nothing has happened so far from these contacts.

 

[The Mutt]

Sexy is sexy. Why should gender matter?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

You are who you are. Don't get too hung up on putting a name to it.

I have had lovely sensual thoughts of women all my life but have known I am more drawn to men. I have my first date with a lady this evening... last night after talking to her for an hour and a half. I was so damn horny. Tonight is about having coffee and meeting each other. We both feel we want another woman but have neither been there with one. So conversation should be interesting...

Well last night was very sensual for me. The lady came around to my place and we talked of all types of things in general life and sexual things. We never touched or anthing, we were just like a couple of girls talking about themselves and the way they think. But knowing that she was bi-sexual and that we both talked and thought about being sensual with another woman. I was so damn turned on. I hope she likes me enough to want to get together another time.

Oh yes, the lovely thing also that happened was that she bought me a gift. How a man would buy a woman chocolates or flowers. She bought be two pillow covers for my couch. That was so cool I thought.

 

[Guest]

Well last night was very sensual for me. The lady came around to my place and we talked of all types of things in general life and sexual things. We never touched or anthing, we were just like a couple of girls talking about themselves and the way they think. But knowing that she was bi-sexual and that we both talked and thought about being sensual with another woman. I was so damn turned on. I hope she likes me enough to want to get together another time.

Oh yes, the lovely thing also that happened was that she bought me a gift. How a man would buy a woman chocolates or flowers. She bought be two pillow covers for my couch. That was so cool I thought.

I'm glad you two had a nice time- hopefully she does call to get together again!
And the gift was a nice touch!

 

[venuslvr69]

I feel the same way...although I fantasize about doing more than kissing. I began to feel this way about two years ago. I shared my feelings with my SO and he was very supportive. It has made our sexual relationship even hotter. Women are beautiful creatures so I feel like my attraction to them is natural. Everyone likes to look at beautiful things. See where these new feelings take you...it might be where you want to be.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm glad you two had a nice time- hopefully she does call to get together again!
And the gift was a nice touch!

We hooked up again last night and did the deed. It was the first time for both of us. It was very yummy indeed. But I did miss the hard cock part a bit.

 

[Harper2808]

Curious !!

I'm just curious from the UK !

Glad you had a good time ! - know any guys in the UK ???

 

[fedz]

I think im bi but im defn. curious.

 

[Johnny Rockets]

Well I've only been with one guy and that was 13 years ago, so I guess I'm curious, or am I bi in denial? Does it even matter what I really label myself, or why should I feel the need to? Do labels matter anymore, or did they ever matter?

 

[Harry sach]

I think labels do matter, to some people. it depends what your views are, i guess. Or on who you are talking to. I think i am in the same boat as some of the people who have posted on here. I have only experienced oral from another guy, but i have been starting to think about more. Yesterday i convinced myself that i shouldn't, because i would feel like i was cheating on my wife, but after reading this thread, i'm not sure again now. I always thought i would just try it once, to see what it was like. maybe i should, then i can stop thinking about it so much.

 

[cndallas]

My opinion is that you cannot be sure untill you try for real.
Fantasies my be ok, but once you try them out you may find it is not the same thing....... so I would call myself bi-courious till I was certain I like something as much in real as I liked it in my imagination.

I know I am bisexual for I am having ocassional sex with women since I was 16...... and I like it very much but only phisycally....... I could never fall in love with a woman, I can just be friends with some of them.
I fall in love with men strictly...... although I may enjoy sexual relationship with a woman very much it never lasts long.

Same here. I was curious until I went through with it. I know now that I bisexual.

 

[chrk1]

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I have been finding myself attracted to women for quite some time. I have fantasized about kissing but nothing more. Does that make it a bi-curious thing or bi-sexual thing?
I don't have anyone IRL to talk to about this kind of thing. I am married to someone I do love and I like having sex with men, just have these strong attractions to females too...

since you've never tried it, most likely, bicurious. if you think about it a lot then go for it. then you can decide which lable fits. maybe neither. but anyone who only makes it with members of the oposite sex are missing a lot of good sex.