Bi and love

[webber1998]

Bi and love..

Just wondering for the Bi guys out there( or girls ) .. Guys...do you think you could ever fall in love with another guy ? Girls feel free to chime in too...

 

[SweetCherry]

Well, I'm very mucha girl and very much in love with a girl. Does that count?

 

[Pookie]

I did. Twice. One was very intense for awhile. Things just didn't work out though for various reasons.

 

[webber1998]

Well, I'm very mucha girl and very much in love with a girl. Does that count?

Sure it does... I've been bi since early teen and never had any deep feelings for a guy, except my first experience. I don't know that may bisexual people and was just wondering what bi people thought about falling in love with a person of the same sex.

 

[Angel]

I'd like to think I fall in love with people, not with genatalia. Everyone I have been in love with so far just happens to have had danglies.

 

[Hooper_X]

Just wondering for the Bi guys out there( or girls ) .. Guys...do you think you could ever fall in love with another guy ? Girls feel free to chime in too...

Well, I don't consider myself bi, but I suppose that technically I could be considered as such.

No. I've never had any kind of emotional attraction or attachment to another male. In a perfect AIDS and hepatitis free world, I'd occasionally have sex with guys. But, I'm just not wired in a way that I'd ever want to kiss a guy or enter into a relationship with one.

 

[webber1998]

My first sexual experience was with a good friend of mine and quite unexpected. I can say that he is the only guy that I have ever had deep feelings for. The only guy that could ever make me sad or happy by his company. Maybe it was love or maybe it was just lust. We were a secret couple for about 4 years before going our separate ways, getting married, raising kids and joining the straight world.

I would like to think that a person with an open mind could fall in love with ANYONE but wanted to hear from some others on the subject.

Thanks for your input....

 

[Lovepotion69]

Though I do believe it's the person you fall in love with, I still have to say I have a hard time picturing myself in a proper relationship with another woman. Not that it might not happen, you never know about life, but at this point in time I can't picture myself doing it. I'm still trying to find a willing gal to help my bi-curiosity, so one thing at a time! LOL

 

[bottom boy]

I consider myself bi, but for me it is more about sex than love. At least thats the way it is now.

However, I must state the caveat that I have not had much same sex experience, so maybe I just haven't fallen in love.

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[Hooper_X]

I would like to think that a person with an open mind could fall in love with ANYONE

I tend to believe this is only the case with true bisexuals. There is a lot of hard-wiring in our brains that determines who we will or won't fall in love with.

 

[Mistress K]

Most Definitely

I'm bisexual and have been in love with both a man and woman.

As i've said in other posts and is discussed often on this board is "I fall in love with the person, no matter what gender they are".

At the moment I have a girlfriend who is the most wonderful person in the world. I've never felt love like I do with her, it's so much different than the love I had for my boyfriend. I don't really think the two can be compared - they are entirely different.

 

[lil ozzie sub]

Re: Most Definitely

I'm bisexual and have been in love with both a man and woman.

As i've said in other posts and is discussed often on this board is "I fall in love with the person, no matter what gender they are".

At the moment I have a girlfriend who is the most wonderful person in the world. I've never felt love like I do with her, it's so much different than the love I had for my boyfriend. I don't really think the two can be compared - they are entirely different.

Awwwww Sweetie, that was beautiful.

I am unashamedly in love with Mistress K. I've had two marriages that have failed. One of them lasted for 12 years and I was surprised that I could love a woman as much (nope... make that more so) than a man.

As Mistress said, it's different, but loving a woman is more natural than anything I expected. I'd had sexual relationships with women before, but nothing that was a 'knock your socks off' type of thing until now.