Better Sex

[ffswife]

I just fell upon your website and thought this would be the perfect place to ask my question!

As a teenager of course my sex drive was high, because it was "forbidden". After getting married and having children my sex drive became ZIP. I only wanted it once in a blue moon. I would even force myself into at least once a week so my poor husbanc wouldn't go crazy. He is very much oppisite of me, high sex drive, I guess what man doesn't.

Anyway, lately I have really been getting into it. It's even been real enjoyable. However, I can never seem to have a vaginal orgasm. I can by oral stimulation. I really want to experience the BIG O or more then just one. Does anyone have any tips or advice on how to make sex BETTER? My husband would be willing to do anything for me.

Thanks for the help.

 

[Dusty Farkworth]

First off, welcome to Lit. Now as for your problem, as I'm a man and can only go on the insites I've been given by my wife, I suggest you relax and enjoy the fact your sex drive has incressed. You'll find once you've quit worring about the final goal of reaching a big "O" ,as you call it, will happen. Worrying has an adverse effect when it comes into love play, our minds won't let us enjoy the feelings our bodies are having. So I suggest enjoying the feelings and not worry so much. I do believe once you've done this the rest will come naturally.
Good luck and have fun.
Dusty

 

[Native Alien]

that and read a thread by Mr.GGG titled "try this and report back".

that should get ya started... or maybe yet you and hubby can read that thread together...

 

[capricious_chic]

Welcome ffswife.

Yeah.. what Native said. MrGGG has a great thread, and there are many useful idea's there, as well as postitions and such.

Remember, the more you try to have the Big O.. the less likely it is you will relax and have a good time. That is what is most important, that you enjoy being with your mate and sharing the physical side of marriage.

Good Luck!!! Experiment with many different positions, and toys.. dildo's, vib's and such.. to find just what angle works best to hit all those wonderful spots inside your vagina. Stimulate your clit while you are having sex, usually if you cum by clit stimulation while having sex.. it can be a chain reaction.

CC

 

[Puppi]

He is very much oppisite of me, high sex drive, I guess what man doesn't.

Many men don't. My Fiance and I are the exact opposite. I am the one with the high sex drive. And, I am the one who is used to sex several times a day EACH day...