Bestfriend

TexasOilfield

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The past few nights I've had uncontrollable fantasies and thoughts about my female best friend. She's one of the sexiest girls I've seen and sometimes I want more than just our close friendship. I've fallen asleep with them on my mind and woken up from dreams where she's fulfilling those fantasies. The issue is she's for the most part rather prude and a virgin so the chances of these even coming true are slim. Any other guys or girls have this issue? I'd love to exchange stories and fantasies with different people on lit. Or maybe somebody who is willing to at least 'rp' about my fantasies. PM me if this interests you!
 
The past few nights I've had uncontrollable fantasies and thoughts about my female best friend. She's one of the sexiest girls I've seen and sometimes I want more than just our close friendship. I've fallen asleep with them on my mind and woken up from dreams where she's fulfilling those fantasies. The issue is she's for the most part rather prude and a virgin so the chances of these even coming true are slim. Any other guys or girls have this issue? I'd love to exchange stories and fantasies with different people on lit. Or maybe somebody who is willing to at least 'rp' about my fantasies. PM me if this interests you!

As much as it sounds to be a case of the proverbial "Easier said than done", you may choose to simply tell her how you feel. You could even preface your "confession" to her by explaining that it's something that, while you're not necessarily expecting anything to come of it, you felt that it was necessary to honestly tell her. Yes, it may very likely change the future outlook of your friendship, but as long as you don't say anything that can directly be perceived as startling or shocking or leave her feeling really uncomfortable, I doubt it would have negative repercussions that would terminate your friendship.

I think you may also be failing to consider the possibility that she has developed her prude demeanor and maintained her virginity because she has the same feelings towards you. Yes, it could feel tragic to confess your feelings to her and discover directly, face to face, that she doesn't feel the same way, but how much more tragic would it be if she actually does have, or has always had, the same feelings towards you, and you never find out because you never ask?

Also, adding to that (but not to put the cart before the horse), suppose that is indeed the case. Who better to help make her feel comfortable in her sexuality and help her explore it further than her best friend? You two may have developed the social relationship that just may very well make for an incredible physically-intimate/sexual relationship when the time comes that she's ready for that. Even if you are more sexually experienced than her, it could prove to be a learning experience for you as well, as you may be able to learn along with her. And not to sound too mooshy, but that could ultimately result in one hell of a love life between you two, or at the very least, some pretty steamy nights in the bedroom.

This may be an unusual analogy, but here's how I think of situations like yours where two people spend years being best friends and have wanted it to be more, but never discussed it, because they were worried the other person didn't feel the same way at all.

You can have the greatest TV show in the world that airs on Channel 672 at 2:00 a.m. on Saturday mornings, but if viewers don't know that your show exists, they'll never have the chance to see it.
 
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Just throw out some hints to her like get caught sniffing her panties. Good luck
 
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