Best Sex: At what stage in your life

[daughter]

At what stage has sex been most satisfying in your life? Please give a general age range and explain why. Was it in you 20s and you had more energy than the energizer bunny or in your 50s after the kids were grown, no fear of pregnancy, and you and your partner have been building your sexual synergy over the last 20 years?

Back with my own answer shortly. Got mommy duty at the moment.

Peace,

daughter

 

[MissTaken]

Mid 30's

Right now!

Seriously, I have been told that this is not unusual. By the time we reach the mid 30's we not only know what we like, but we have overcome inhibitions that are created by society's "taboo" concerning sexuality.

Self confidence and maturity coupled with the energy of a 25 year old makes for a wonderfully erotic adventure in my mid 30's.

 

[hellion69]

So far it's been right now. About thirty. I think it's more about who you're with rather than at what point it is in your life.

 

[Wiggles]

I'm only 19 now, and it's very good.
And from what I've heard around these boards, it just keeps getting better.

So, I can't wait.
But to answer you question. Now.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Fly_On_Wall]

this question has me thinking.

they say guys are in their prime from around 15-25 (that's what i've hurd) what's that mean. from the sounds of this board it don't mean that's when he is best, and it's also not when he's the hornyest.


(sorry for interupting daughter)

 

[daughter]

maybe I should use my full penname

Tiger_NJ:


I use a penname because I am a wannabe writer. My name is Rasputin's Daughter. Do you know the infamous mystic?

I am 36. I'm suppose to be cooking instead of reading.

I'll be back.

Peace,

daughter

 

[alltherage]

Right now. At 35 I know what I want and my appetite is larger now. I think being comfortable with yourself is the key, that and hormones. Pitty men reach there sexual peek so young.

 

[mig]

Tiger.

Has it right.

Now is best of all.The only problem is having the energy to do it
as often as I'd like.

 

[lovetoread]

Well being that I am still in my 20's, I have to say that my sex life<when I have one> is better now than it ever was. I am hoping that as I age it only gets better.

 

[koalabear]

*It just keeps getting better*

 

[Scabbers]

21

When I was one and twenty
I heard a wise man say:
"Give pounds and crowns and guineas
But not your heart away
Give pearls away and rubies
But keep your fancy free."
But I was one and twenty then
No used to talk to me

When I was one and twenty
I heard him say again:
"The heart out of the bossom
Is ne'er given in vain
'Tis paid with sighs a-plenty,
And sold for endless rue."
And I am two and thirty now
And oh, 'tis true, 'tis true.
A.E.Housman

 

[TigerClaw]

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[daughter]

Re: Mid 30's

Right now!

Seriously, I have been told that this is not unusual. By the time we reach the mid 30's we not only know what we like, but we have overcome inhibitions that are created by society's "taboo" concerning sexuality.

Self confidence and maturity coupled with the energy of a 25 year old makes for a wonderfully erotic adventure in my mid 30's.

Well, lately my energy is a bit low, but it doesn't stop us from making love. I have been happier after 30 in general. I had a lot of baggage and by 30, I was aggressively dumping the crap. Three decades was enough time to for being miserable by my standards. Exploring my sexuality was apart of the package.

In my 20s, I had plenty of sex all the time. I can't honestly say I ever was abstinent. What I discovered in my 30s is that quantity doesn't translate into knowledge, awareness or skill. And for all the sex I had in my 20s, what I didn't experience was intimacy and sexual satisfaction.

Different tune in the 30s. No fear about pregnancy nor pressure to have kids. By 35, I have a lover who is mature, patient, aware, sensitive. Trust is high and intimacy is blowing my mind. I wasn't inhibited before, more I was simply unaware. My lover has opened a new world to me. I like to play and explore.

Can't wait till the munchkins are gone. Then I won't have to be quiet. LOL

Peace,

daughter

 

[LukkyKnight]

Synergy

daughter, it plain and simple just keeps getting better. No two ways about it. Looking back I can see some dips when I'd have answered differently.

Sitting here in the mid40s I would not go "back" for even a moment.

 

[Cath!]

late 30s

Actually, my spouse asked me this question last night...

I have found that the last few years have been the best in quantity and quality...