Best Phone Sex Opening Lines

[raindognyc]

Hi, I've had a number of phone sex encounters. Some have been mind-blowing, a few have been duds. I wonder why the discrepancy. Is it that everything depends on the opening? I like to gauge the chemistry, talk about non-sexy things at first, find the chemistry, not rush into it but get a feeling for the woman on the other side of the telephone. I'm into asking about the weather, how her day went, what has been going on to sense her state of mind, her responsiveness, how well she can express how she is feeling. And of course, I share how I am feeling. If the energy is good, and I feel that connection, the conversation will naturally find its way to more arousing topics such as when was the last time you masturbated? What are you wearing? Have you had phone sex before? Do you like to touch yourself when you're on the phone?

My question is..... do some women get turned off if the "get-to-know-you" part is not sexual? I have felt that sometimes a woman just wants to get right down to it, and if I'm not right there from the get-go, that's a deal-breaker. Just wondering if some ladies might share personal preferences for how to get things rolling. Please let me know your advice....

 

[Lurnk]

Hi, I've had a number of phone sex encounters. Some have been mind-blowing, a few have been duds. I wonder why the discrepancy. Is it that everything depends on the opening? I like to gauge the chemistry, talk about non-sexy things at first, find the chemistry, not rush into it but get a feeling for the woman on the other side of the telephone. I'm into asking about the weather, how her day went, what has been going on to sense her state of mind, her responsiveness, how well she can express how she is feeling. And of course, I share how I am feeling. If the energy is good, and I feel that connection, the conversation will naturally find its way to more arousing topics such as when was the last time you masturbated? What are you wearing? Have you had phone sex before? Do you like to touch yourself when you're on the phone?

My question is..... do some women get turned off if the "get-to-know-you" part is not sexual? I have felt that sometimes a woman just wants to get right down to it, and if I'm not right there from the get-go, that's a deal-breaker. Just wondering if some ladies might share personal preferences for how to get things rolling. Please let me know your advice....

I enjoy the "get-to-know-you" part. How else should we gauge each other's moods and decide when and how we're gonna want it?

Unless I've talked to the guy previously, I seriously doubt I'll be hot and dripping for him as soon as the phone rings. I've yet to do enough "phone" to have that kinda Pavlov conditioning.

And I can't leave without asking a few questions: Are you expecting the responses you get will help guarantee you a 100% success rate from now on? Why do you think you're not supposed to get duds? Some women will like your approach, others won't. That's the way (female) individuality works.

 

[raindognyc]

100 percent not attainable

Hi Lurnk, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm not expecting a perfect connection every time. It's just that the last two connections I've had which proceeded to the telephone level did not turn out to be perfect connections. I was a bit disappointed, but of course not every connection is fated to work out perfectly. I don't expect that. It's just that two in a row made me worry that I was not putting the pedal to the metal, and maybe that is what was expected. I've had enough experience to know everyone's motor revs at different speeds, but I felt like the get-to-know-you phase was pretty universal. But there are some women who just want to talk about sex right out of the gate -- I like to build up a little rapport. Not that I'm into getting the whole life story, just to get a sense of her personality, her energy. It can take one minute, it can take fifteen, it's just a nice way to get a rhythm going that can add so much. Otherwise it can feel a bit cold -- nothing against the wham-bam dirty talk, just is more interesting when there's a connection to savor. I guess I'm curious what women can share about their own preferences for how phone sex starts, just to help me understand......

 

[Lurnk]

Hi Lurnk, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm not expecting a perfect connection every time. It's just that the last two connections I've had which proceeded to the telephone level did not turn out to be perfect connections. I was a bit disappointed, but of course not every connection is fated to work out perfectly. I don't expect that. It's just that two in a row made me worry that I was not putting the pedal to the metal, and maybe that is what was expected. I've had enough experience to know everyone's motor revs at different speeds, but I felt like the get-to-know-you phase was pretty universal. But there are some women who just want to talk about sex right out of the gate -- I like to build up a little rapport. Not that I'm into getting the whole life story, just to get a sense of her personality, her energy. It can take one minute, it can take fifteen, it's just a nice way to get a rhythm going that can add so much. Otherwise it can feel a bit cold -- nothing against the wham-bam dirty talk, just is more interesting when there's a connection to savor. I guess I'm curious what women can share about their own preferences for how phone sex starts, just to help me understand......

Ah. Cool, I get it.

Good luck.

 

[pickax]

What has worked for me ,cybersex to get them hot and horny,just wet. then they beg to call me and we go from there.But i like to get to know them first.hey might be lieing,but who knows

 

[raspberries]

Hi Raindog

I prefer chat sex to phone sex but I like it when it starts friendly and slow...for me it's all a bit jarring and a bit difficult to jump straight into that next level of intimacy...can be done, but I have to work pretty hard! And the friendly chatty bit doesn't have to be long, just a few minutes of establishing some kind of feeling of connection with the person and then I'm ready to roll! I'm sure, though, that there are other women who just want to get straight down and dirty...I think the best thing to do is just go with what makes you feel most comfortable - you will be at your sexiest and most interesting then! Might not always work out but when it does, it will be very cool!