Best Friends wife keeps flashing me?
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southern_gal
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My best friend in the world has a wonderful husband. The four of us have spent several weekends together in one camper going to races so add some drinking and close quarters and yeah you hear and see a lot. Her hubs has flirted with me a few times thru the years and especially since my husband took a job that has him away from home often. I think that the flirting may be innocent really and for his benefit more than mine but one thing is for certain. I would never, ever jeopardize my friendship with her for anything in this world. True best friends take time to develop and worth a lot more (to me anyway) than sex.
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Sounds like your best friend has a whore for a wife. I'd tell her to stop as you don't value horrible women.
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I am really sorry for the loss you are feeling especially this time of year when others have loved ones around them but please make careful choices. If it is just female companionship you want, remember that we out number you. There are lots of women around that just want someone to go to dinner with and sit and talk and get to know. Someone to spend time with and laugh with. I would think about how much your best friend means to you and how you could miss that friendship WHEN he finds out.
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Thats what I think too. I'd go ahead and hit it.
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Like another person posted, maybe her hubs is into that......goodness knows that on here half the men seem to want to watch their wife with another man, but how do you find out? Do you have a beer in the mancave with him and ask......hey bud, your wife has been flashing me. You good with me poking her? Wanna watch?
Might be me but not sure how that would go over. If he is into it then you've hit the jackpot. If not, does he own guns? Every man around here has like a zillion and they shoot things just for something to do.
So yeah, be cautious. IF (and boy that's a big IF) he is into it I am sure that sooner or later he will give you a nudge and a wink or whatever it is guys do when they want their friends junk inside their wife but until then........proceed with caution.
And thanks for the sweet remark that I sound like a nice person. I am as long as I keep my evil twin in her cage.
From my experience, those kind of events never work out. Besides I believe she would do it with women but not a guy. she was on skating teams and way it looked to me they were all very friendly. And our trainer got her to pose after getting pretty fit. I would never pose for another guy.
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It could be an invitation, or she could just be an exhibitionist. It could be a little teasing game she and her husband play. The least likely scenario--but not entirely impossible--is that she is truly clueless about what she is doing. In any event, there's no reason not to enjoy it.
Several years ago I worked with a woman around my age. She was kind of cute in a trailer trash kind of way. She had a slim body with a really nice set of tits. One day we were both approaching a corner from opposite directions. We turned and nearly crashed into each other. I threw up my hands at the last second to lessen the contact--and my hand landed right on her tit. We both smiled at one another, too embarrassed to discuss what had happened. Six months later we were packing up the office to move, and there was clutter everywhere. She stood up to let me pass, and lost her balance. I put up my hands to catch her, and once again I got a palm full of tit. We laughed and acknowledged the fact that my hands kept finding her tits, and then went our separate ways. The contact was completely innocent on my part, and I assumed on hers as well.
Two years later I found out she was fucking her boss. To this day I still wonder how innocent she was.
Several years ago I worked with a woman around my age. She was kind of cute in a trailer trash kind of way. She had a slim body with a really nice set of tits. One day we were both approaching a corner from opposite directions. We turned and nearly crashed into each other. I threw up my hands at the last second to lessen the contact--and my hand landed right on her tit. We both smiled at one another, too embarrassed to discuss what had happened. Six months later we were packing up the office to move, and there was clutter everywhere. She stood up to let me pass, and lost her balance. I put up my hands to catch her, and once again I got a palm full of tit. We laughed and acknowledged the fact that my hands kept finding her tits, and then went our separate ways. The contact was completely innocent on my part, and I assumed on hers as well.
Two years later I found out she was fucking her boss. To this day I still wonder how innocent she was.
Agreed. You're not doing anything wrong or immoral. She's probably an exhibitionist and you're the "victim" here. If you do nothing to encourage her, your hands are clean.
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I'm guessing you need to figure out the intent behind all the glimpses she is giving you. If she is doing this in private, the next time it happens you should call her on it.
Just say, "Pardon me Martha but do you realize your vagina is showing?"
Her answer will either be yes or no. If it's yes, tell her it makes you uncomfortable so you'd appreciate her putting it away. If she says no, then say you had no intention of embarrassing her but you thought she'd want to be aware of what is available to be seen from people around her. Finish with, "if my fly was open, I'd want you to tell me and spare me the embarrassment of going out like that in front of strangers."
My advice is based on the assumption you trying to avoid a situation where you are tempted to betray your friend. If you're considering actually hooking up with this lady, I'd still be direct and let her know you see what she is showing and want to see a little more.
Either way, take charge of the situation and you'll garner her respect by showing her you aren't afraid of the circumstances.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Just say, "Pardon me Martha but do you realize your vagina is showing?"
Her answer will either be yes or no. If it's yes, tell her it makes you uncomfortable so you'd appreciate her putting it away. If she says no, then say you had no intention of embarrassing her but you thought she'd want to be aware of what is available to be seen from people around her. Finish with, "if my fly was open, I'd want you to tell me and spare me the embarrassment of going out like that in front of strangers."
My advice is based on the assumption you trying to avoid a situation where you are tempted to betray your friend. If you're considering actually hooking up with this lady, I'd still be direct and let her know you see what she is showing and want to see a little more.
Either way, take charge of the situation and you'll garner her respect by showing her you aren't afraid of the circumstances.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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i agree , just enjoy the show.
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southern_gal has been right on this all along. If your friends want to include you, they'll figure out a way to invite you that doesn't require you to betray your friend. Even then, it is still your decision. Sorry for your loss, Halan.
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I also think she probably has hubby's permission. As far as how far they intend to go with this, I don't know. If interested, maybe you should just ask her the next time it happens. Sorry for your loss. Maybe they are trying to send you a message they are available for some friends with benefits if you aren't ready to jump into the dating pool just yet.
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Talk to her about it, its the best way to get to the bottom of things. If she is doing it on purpose she will let you know. If they want you to join in/get involved in anyway they will probably let you know. If you want to avoid it all together just be straight up honest with her. Tell her "hey i'm not sure if you were flashing me on purpose, but if you were i kindly ask for you to stop. I'm still grieveing and i'm not ready for anything of that nature yet. " good luck and i'm sorry for your loss.
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Enjoy the show and keep enjoying the show. Let her see you watching. If she has something to say she will do so and if not you get a good show.
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I think the word you are looking for is maybe Slut......and it doesn't make her a horrible woman. You have no idea the context of her actions or her husbands perspective .
Maybe they have an open marriage and she is offering a great kindness.
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