Bend Over Boyfriend....

[Baskin Robbins]

I would LOVE my girl to be open to this.

Does anyone have anything (advice) open for this?

PLZ talk to me. My wife is very open to MISSIONARY!! and that's about it!!

ANY ADVICE is welcome!!!!!!

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Talk to her, Sweetie...

I would LOVE my girl to be open to this.

Does anyone have anything (advice) open for this?

PLZ talk to me. My wife is very open to MISSIONARY!! and that's about it!!

ANY ADVICE is welcome!!!!!!

 

[Programmer Cat]

I would LOVE my girl to be open to this.

Does anyone have anything (advice) open for this?

Start by talking to her. I wouldn't start by saying, "Darling, I want you to fuck my ass," though. I myself started after watching The Thomas Crown Affair with my wife. She was turned on by the scene where Pierce Brosnan is lying face down with Rene Russo draped over his back. I let her do that to me, and asked her if she'd like to take it a little further.

 

[Tom Collins]

You could slowly work her up to it by getting her to finger your hole. If she doesn't understand why you would want that, then find some sites online that explaine about the prostate and intercorse. If she comes to understand all the joy it would give you, it might open her up to doing it for you. From there, just start using toys that don't strap on. Slowly build to the ones that do. It's worth a try, IMHO.

 

[lastingpassion]

So Baskin, if and when you learn of the "magic words" to convince a woman
(for her experience as well), please send help and guidance for the rest of
us poor fellas.......

 

[simple cruise]

Bend Over Boyfreind

Hi,, get this dvd,, accidently leave it in player.. then watch it together.
Enjoy.

http://www.puckerup.com/?cPath=1&products_id=123&tpid=8

 

[Baskin Robbins]

Has anyone ever opened up a very "restrained" female!

I'm very open!!

 

[namaste7]

I don't think there is a universal solution to your situation, but this has worked for me in the past.
Figure out what sorts of dirty little fantasies *she* has, even if they're small things that you don't consider taboo or risque. I know you said she's 'missionary', but most people, at least that I know, have at least somewhat of a kinky side. At first, it's usually easiest for me to get my partner talking during fore-play, especially if there's a mutual understanding that it's only talking... no pressure to do anything- ever. Start slow and pay attention to what is getting her off, both by what she says and how her body reacts. Then start indulging her kinky side, both in bed (or in public, if that's her thing) and in conversation. At the same time tell her what interests you, again taking it slow and including her. There's always a chance that she'll be completely unwilling to indulge your fantasy, and you'll have to respect that. However, at least for me, if you can get someone to enjoy playful, fun, kinky sex, from their end first, there's a pretty good chance they will play your perverted games too.

 

[Samuelx]

Man, reading this post brings back memories. Last year, I was dating a bi-curious female who liked shemales and strap-ons. Even though I've slept with guys, I have never been anally penetrated and the idea of anything, be it a dildo or a cock going inside me is a turn-off. I'm a top,
thank you very much. That being said, she asked me to try the strap-on. I told her that I'd love to....but she'd have to let me try her backdoor first. She agreed. It was fun. She didn't get to try my backdoor because I broke up with her soon after. My ass remains a virgin. I think she hates me now. The whole strap-on thing wasn't the only reason why I split with her. She was white and I am black. Normally, that shouldn't be a problem but she always introduced me as "just a friend" to her friends and family members, never as a boyfriend. I'm a bisexual black man who's very proud of his african heritage so that wasn't cool
with me. Oh, well.

 

[Etoile]

You could just get the video...

 

[killallhippies]

You could just get the video...

i want that one. i saw it in a catalog and thought about buying it, but it was too much and i was worried it would too boring though possibly useful.


i ordered a hardcore dvd about that and it sucked. barely any strap-on fucking at all. some light bondage and spanking though. still, when i buy a dvd that's supposed to contain women fucking men up the butt with strap-ons i want to see women fucking men up the ass with strap-ons.


which reminds me. i need to go to the video store. last time i went they had one of those types of movies, but it was out. i need to see if it is still there.

 

[Etoile]

The one from Fatale is the good stuff, definitely.

 

[Bishonen]

Of I were you, I'd talk to her about WHY she doesn't want anything but missionary.

 

[bibphi]

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[Baskin Robbins]

Hello Etoile,
Is Fatale secure? I don't want a bunch of emails or solicitations coming by mail. I would order things online but want my privacy respected.

 

[Etoile]

Yes, Fatale is definitely a reputable shop. Their ordering is secure, and they ship discreetly. They only send their own e-mails if you actually buy from them (or if you ask to receive them) and they will take you off that list at any time. They don't sell their e-mail list or their street address list.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

Very cool! I will buy from them!!

 

[killallhippies]

i download a clip from BOB off of bearshare and now i want it even more. that was actually mildly hot. better than that crap i bought at least which is sad. i'm seriously jonesin' over here. the clips i downloaded called men in pain were also good, but that has nothing to do with anything besides the fact that they involved women fucking men up the butt.

 

[Etoile]

i download a clip from BOB off of bearshare and now i want it even more. that was actually mildly hot. better than that crap i bought at least which is sad. i'm seriously jonesin' over here. the clips i downloaded called men in pain were also good, but that has nothing to do with anything besides the fact that they involved women fucking men up the butt.

So more of a stroke video than an educational one? Maybe the thing to do is get both?

I think there are also "Bend Over Boyfriend" kits you can get. Not sure if they are specifically endorsed by Fatale Media but they come with the movie, a harness (often nylon), a dildo (usually jelly), and lube. Check Good Vibrations, I think they have them.

 

[killallhippies]

So more of a stroke video than an educational one? Maybe the thing to do is get both?

I think there are also "Bend Over Boyfriend" kits you can get. Not sure if they are specifically endorsed by Fatale Media but they come with the movie, a harness (often nylon), a dildo (usually jelly), and lube. Check Good Vibrations, I think they have them.

not really, but there's definately a stroke like quality to it. from the little clip i watched it almost seemed like a porn infomercial.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I've bought the hardcore strapon videos like "Girls who fuck guys in the ass" and "Babes ballin' boys" but they haven't led to anything at all. I've told her about the prostate massage and mind-blowing orgasms.

I think she thinks I'm going to "turn gay"...

I've never been into guys, she's my high school and college sweetheart (we split up for a while before marriage). She asked me if I'd ever tried it with anyone else. She is really the only person I've ever opened up to... esp. this far!

I told her it's the effect and not how we get there as long as we get there.

She still seems "gay paranoid"...

 

[Etoile]

Oh, btw, "Girls Grindin' Guys" is not worth getting.