Being someone's first

[mrbimystery]

so have you been someones first? what was it like? did you get impatient with them or did you like the opportunity to teach?

 

[iswallowloads]

Not sure if it's what you're looking for, but I was the first man to suck-off one guy. He said that his wife wasn't really good at it because she considered it a chore. It was nice to show him how good it can be.

 

[gaymm]

so have you been someones first? what was it like? did you get impatient with them or did you like the opportunity to teach?

A few times that I know of, and a few times that I suspected, sure. Impatient...no way...it was like shaking a bottle of soda and suddenly popping the top...all those repressed feelings coming out at once!

I don't actively seek guys who are new or first timers, as they can sometimes freak out too, but sometimes I get a good feeling about a guy and well, wow, they are like kids in a candy & toy store, they want to try everything....twice and at the same time

Having experience is a plus, as their enthusiasm needs to be directed at times. Especially if they want to try anal and have never had anything bigger than a finger up their ass, or if they are trying to deep throat, or are getting their teeth involved a bit too much. Don't really want to teach, more like subtle direction. The key is to enjoy. If they have never tasted another guys cum, probably not the time to cum in their mouth for their first time sucking cock...honestly, I don't think I have ever had a first timer suck me to completion his first time before his jaw got too tired and he had to stop...so a little help is useful there too.

Also rimming, at least for me...I love to do it, but at least in my experience, newer guys or guys who have never been rimmed tend to be shy or reserved about it...but when they finally allow it, wow they love it. So I have to kinda work down into that area. Sometimes verbally telling them what I want to do, sometimes just letting my hands and lips and tongue do the foreplay.

chris

 

[texharley]

so have you been someones first? what was it like? did you get impatient with them or did you like the opportunity to teach?

I was the first for both male friends I sucked and they sucked me and I was my fist wifes first and only until we divorced and my second wife I was her first and only now for 16 years. I was very gentle with my second wife she was 23 and a virgin by choice and was very hairy and tight.
I could tell she was a virgin the hair covered her hole and I don't mean just a little. It was a little difficult getting to at first.

 

[lemmesee]

In a darkened porn-theatre, I like to pretend that I'm the gentleman's very first handjob givee....I talk to him as he does it to/for me....and I tell him how good it makes me feel!

 

[GMC56]

A few times that I know of, and a few times that I suspected, sure. Impatient...no way...it was like shaking a bottle of soda and suddenly popping the top...all those repressed feelings coming out at once!

I don't actively seek guys who are new or first timers, as they can sometimes freak out too, but sometimes I get a good feeling about a guy and well, wow, they are like kids in a candy & toy store, they want to try everything....twice and at the same time

Having experience is a plus, as their enthusiasm needs to be directed at times. Especially if they want to try anal and have never had anything bigger than a finger up their ass, or if they are trying to deep throat, or are getting their teeth involved a bit too much. Don't really want to teach, more like subtle direction. The key is to enjoy. If they have never tasted another guys cum, probably not the time to cum in their mouth for their first time sucking cock...honestly, I don't think I have ever had a first timer suck me to completion his first time before his jaw got too tired and he had to stop...so a little help is useful there too.

Also rimming, at least for me...I love to do it, but at least in my experience, newer guys or guys who have never been rimmed tend to be shy or reserved about it...but when they finally allow it, wow they love it. So I have to kinda work down into that area. Sometimes verbally telling them what I want to do, sometimes just letting my hands and lips and tongue do the foreplay.

chris

Ahhhh, brings back memories of my first time....

Very good description.

 

[silverwhisper]

i've been a friend's first--but then again, he was my first, too, so it was really more exploratory than anything else.

ed

 

[tonycurinmass]

Also rimming, at least for me...I love to do it, but at least in my experience, newer guys or guys who have never been rimmed tend to be shy or reserved about it...but when they finally allow it, wow they love it. So I have to kinda work down into that area. Sometimes verbally telling them what I want to do, sometimes just letting my hands and lips and tongue do the foreplay.

chris

I got such a tingle down there when I read this part of your post. I can't see a guy ever 'not' wanting a guy to rim him.

 

[tazia59]

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