Be gentle with me....

Do a search on this forum using the words newbie or curious or beginning or exploring as parameters.

We've talked about what you're asking for a LOT.

Do a little research then come back with some more specific questions. We'll be glad to help you if we jknow what you're asking for but it's really good when you do some of the initial research on your own.

Here's a place to begin: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73405&highlight=curious
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pretty_lil_stranger said:
My husband would freak...

Have you actually talked to him about it?
Watched any movies like maybe The Story of O?
Read any stories about it? There plenty of those here on lit.
 
many sub hopefuls come to me both male and female..thinking that their significant other would freak or be turned off...sometimes they are right..sometimes not.
A wonderful TV came to Me from another Country recently..yes his wife knew. he needed submission and crossdressing..she encouraged him because of her deep love for him but sent him outside of their relationship to satisfy his needs. his long talks with Me in real time took his emotions so deep that he cried on the phone with his wife...he introduced her to Me in ICQ and she started asking the questions she was to shy to ask in her own circle of friends. Once she understood his kinks were relatively normal she began to see their life much differently..They are now 100% in a BDSM relationship in their home..extremely happy..open communication took them to this spot. Sometimes introducing a partner to another Dominat or submissive so that an introduction comes from outside has some value. Just my two cents of course.
 
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