AmericanWench
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Aug 19, 2003
- Posts
- 134
"Pet" peeves, if you will
This may not be the place to 'share' these things, and it is certainly not my intent to make enemies here, but being a submissive, and this being a "D/s" thread, I'm giving it a shot.
While I am indeed a submissive, I am NOT a mindless little munchkin needing someone in control in order to survive, or seemingly so.
I AM, submissive, caring, loving, passionate, honest, trustworthy, sensual and intelligent.
(That was the upside, now for the other...
)
I can be sassy, stubborn, independent and I am very selective as to whom I give my submission (the latter could be considered a good quality, depending on the reader).
I have a great deal of respect, for the D/s ideals, and those seriously in the lifestyle. I have experience in the lifestyle, and being a real time submissive.
I can best be described as a submissive/vanilla mixture, and the more trust and respect I have for a Dominate (MY dominate), the more my submissiveness emerges.
I have had American and British Dominates (Yes, there IS a difference in the two D/s cultures)
Now that I probably have many of you shaking your heads wondering how I could be so forward in my post, and still be submissive, I will say that to a great degree, an unowned sub is responsible for looking after and out for, herself, until she finds her "One". I also find, that by being honest (I"ve seen that in many of the threads here, and it is indeed an important part of D/s), it eliminates many of the Men who would otherwise had contacted me, expecting something completely different.
I believe we all walk our own journey in D/s, and I try not to slam another's view of the lifestyle, neither do I expect to be slammed, for my place, on my path.
I believe that the mind is the most powerful sexual organ, and if you can seduce my mind, the body will follow in submission.
That all having been said, I would like to communicate with those who share my views, and respect my position (no pun intended )
Peace to you all, and be well
AmericanWench
This may not be the place to 'share' these things, and it is certainly not my intent to make enemies here, but being a submissive, and this being a "D/s" thread, I'm giving it a shot.
While I am indeed a submissive, I am NOT a mindless little munchkin needing someone in control in order to survive, or seemingly so.
I AM, submissive, caring, loving, passionate, honest, trustworthy, sensual and intelligent.
(That was the upside, now for the other...
)I can be sassy, stubborn, independent and I am very selective as to whom I give my submission (the latter could be considered a good quality, depending on the reader).
I have a great deal of respect, for the D/s ideals, and those seriously in the lifestyle. I have experience in the lifestyle, and being a real time submissive.
I can best be described as a submissive/vanilla mixture, and the more trust and respect I have for a Dominate (MY dominate), the more my submissiveness emerges.
I have had American and British Dominates (Yes, there IS a difference in the two D/s cultures)
Now that I probably have many of you shaking your heads wondering how I could be so forward in my post, and still be submissive, I will say that to a great degree, an unowned sub is responsible for looking after and out for, herself, until she finds her "One". I also find, that by being honest (I"ve seen that in many of the threads here, and it is indeed an important part of D/s), it eliminates many of the Men who would otherwise had contacted me, expecting something completely different.I believe we all walk our own journey in D/s, and I try not to slam another's view of the lifestyle, neither do I expect to be slammed, for my place, on my path.
I believe that the mind is the most powerful sexual organ, and if you can seduce my mind, the body will follow in submission.
That all having been said, I would like to communicate with those who share my views, and respect my position (no pun intended
)Peace to you all, and be well
AmericanWench
